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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Morning all you wonderfully filthy people
So what are type of person are you when it comes to messaging? Do you like to chat a lot with people you are interested in? Or do you like to keep it at a distance even though you’re keen to meet?  |
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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago
Birmingham |
Depends how much of a hook I can get off their profile, status or a post.
My most successful messages have been topical, picking up on something from one of the above. If I can’t readily find anything, I may think twice about messaging. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I want to meet someone then it is important to me that we stay in touch."
But it is still kept as a fab chat or does it progress to more frequent chatting to build things? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am very chatty, and I will want to keep in contact. If I'm not getting much response I will back off though, I don't want to be a nuisance hounding someone to talk bollocks!"
Ha yes got to find that line |
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I’m a shit chatter. I don’t need to speak to people often to know they’re still there and I apply the same to fab. There’s a few friends I’ll chat to on and off but I’ll often just zone out of messaging for a while. Constant chat drains me. |
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I'm shit. Sporadic at the very best. Not just on here, with my friends away from here too...it's a wonder I ever managed to meet anyone, but I just can't be doing with texting all the time. Chatting on the phone is a different matter entirely. |
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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"Depends how much of a hook I can get off their profile, status or a post.
My most successful messages have been topical, picking up on something from one of the above. If I can’t readily find anything, I may think twice about messaging."
Sorry, I misread the question; my response above was for initial messages.
If I‘ve started something with someone I like then yes, I do get in touch quite regularly. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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It depends on how I feel about the person really. I can be really talkative with someone for a few days and then just be a bit wiped and not talk for a bit.
I lose interest quickly in talking to new people one on one via this format unless they really do grab my attention/actually express an interesting opinion.
If I'm really interested in someone I find them the most fascinating thing ever and will talk a lot to them until that temporary state of mind disappears. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m a shit chatter. I don’t need to speak to people often to know they’re still there and I apply the same to fab. There’s a few friends I’ll chat to on and off but I’ll often just zone out of messaging for a while. Constant chat drains me. "
Yeah this is what I am trying to figure out…. Keep it interested but not draining |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm shit. Sporadic at the very best. Not just on here, with my friends away from here too...it's a wonder I ever managed to meet anyone, but I just can't be doing with texting all the time. Chatting on the phone is a different matter entirely. "
Lost are the days of long phone chats |
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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
I'm sporadic. And its usually time dependant in my life. People will get a conversation out of me on days off but otherwise not so much. I don't run too many conversations at a time, and gosh they've got to hold their own. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm sporadic. And its usually time dependant in my life. People will get a conversation out of me on days off but otherwise not so much. I don't run too many conversations at a time, and gosh they've got to hold their own. "
I guess it’s all about real life taking priority |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
I’m very sporadic because life, work, family is sometimes full on and draining and I like to put a bit of thought into messages and be in the right headspace. If I’m tired I may want to reply and can’t always think of anything to say and then get a comment like why haven’t you replied or are you ignoring me which makes it 10x worse so I back off even more. |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
"I’m very sporadic because life, work, family is sometimes full on and draining and I like to put a bit of thought into messages and be in the right headspace. If I’m tired I may want to reply and can’t always think of anything to say and then get a comment like why haven’t you replied or are you ignoring me which makes it 10x worse so I back off even more. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Morning all you wonderfully filthy people
So what are type of person are you when it comes to messaging? Do you like to chat a lot with people you are interested in? Or do you like to keep it at a distance even though you’re keen to meet? "
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During lockdown I had a lot of plans to meet several people off the site, either at clubs or more intimately. Non of those have come to fruition now the lockdown precautions have eased.
I don’t blame them as I’m terrible at keeping in touch with people, from friends to family.
So I take full responsibility, for being flaky.
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I’m rubbish at it. There’s a part of me that thinks someone so cool and sexy wouldn’t want to be pestered by me.
However I’m up for getting better at it, it’s nice when conversations are matched well too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Morning all you wonderfully filthy people
So what are type of person are you when it comes to messaging? Do you like to chat a lot with people you are interested in? Or do you like to keep it at a distance even though you’re keen to meet?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If someone catches my attention.. and more importantly manages to keep it then I love to chat and once we've met they just might get my number x"
I’d love to keep your attention :p |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love chatting to anyone. Aslong as they're respectful and I'm not busy I'd chat all day. You can never run out of things to say. "
Varied fun chat can keep
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m a waffler but not many get my weird so there are few I waffle with
Waffle away in that derry accent
 you are a brave man "
I'll just let you believe that |
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By *lovisMan
over a year ago
Twickenham |
"I'm very reliable in responding (quickly) to people I like.
If I go quiet on you, I'm either ambivalent or angry. "
I find ambivalent women such a turn on - the fact they can use either hand is so sexy. |
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