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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
How difficult do you find it coming across a profile that seems compatible and appeals to you both?
Is this akin to finding a needle in a haystack or easier than one would imagine?
Please satisfy my curiosity  |
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over a year ago
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Personally for us. We've only seen one other profile that matches exactly what we are and what we're looking for.
It's very rare to find both parties who are bi or bi-cur. |
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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Personally for us. We've only seen one other profile that matches exactly what we are and what we're looking for.
It's very rare to find both parties who are bi or bi-cur."
Interesting.
Would the bi or not bi status of either of the person within the couple be a potential deal breaker if everything else seemed on the level?
Have you made an attempt to reach out to them? |
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Simply we don't rely on profiles to find compatability. We tend to do most of our hunting in the clubs where you get a far better and quicker idea if it works or not.
We have bumped into couples we like in clubs who based on their Fab profiles wouldn't have liked and vice versa. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally for us. We've only seen one other profile that matches exactly what we are and what we're looking for.
It's very rare to find both parties who are bi or bi-cur.
Interesting.
Would the bi or not bi status of either of the person within the couple be a potential deal breaker if everything else seemed on the level?
Have you made an attempt to reach out to them? "
Being straight isn't a deal breaker for us but it would have to be the right person. Yes, we've spoken to them a bit and hopefully get to meet when we're back into it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It is really difficult to find compatible couples that we both feel attracted towards.
In the years we’ve been here we’ve found just one couple that have been right, they were worth the wait and our friendship is now cemented.
As for singles, we found both female and male that we connect with and again those friendships have stood up so far.
It isn’t easy but then, neither are we. |
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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago
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"How difficult do you find it coming across a profile that seems compatible and appeals to you both?
Is this akin to finding a needle in a haystack or easier than one would imagine?
Please satisfy my curiosity "
For us, it is not dificult at all.
We have spoken to a fair few people with similar interests to us. |
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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Simply we don't rely on profiles to find compatability. We tend to do most of our hunting in the clubs where you get a far better and quicker idea if it works or not.
We have bumped into couples we like in clubs who based on their Fab profiles wouldn't have liked and vice versa. "
I suppose it would make more sense to look for couples in a club setting instead of combing through fab?
I wouldn't be surprised if you did come across compatible couples in person that didn't have an appealing online profile. |
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For us it's very difficult to come across a couple's profile that seems to tick our boxes. The vast majority of them have no photos of the man (apart from sometimes dick pics) so we can't know if Hannah finds him attractive or not.
A lot of couples also want to get straight down to business, which is not really our style. We like to get to know people socially first.
We have no problem with women, but suitable couples are really hard to find. |
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I've never played as a couple with a person/couple we met through this. Only ever through clubs. It's hard enough on my own. At least in person you can tell quickly if there's a spark and its easy to chat as a 3/4. |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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I'm half a couple, it's very hard to get 4 way attraction and connection. Often jack will like the lady, but many profiles don't have any pics of the male. When we finally get one, I've often not been attracted to him.
If we want to meet as a couple, we now think clubs are best and we have separate profiles to meet too. |
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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"It is really difficult to find compatible couples that we both feel attracted towards.
In the years we’ve been here we’ve found just one couple that have been right, they were worth the wait and our friendship is now cemented.
As for singles, we found both female and male that we connect with and again those friendships have stood up so far.
It isn’t easy but then, neither are we."
Nothing wrong with being selective and not settling for less |
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"For us it's very difficult to come across a couple's profile that seems to tick our boxes. The vast majority of them have no photos of the man (apart from sometimes dick pics) so we can't know if Hannah finds him attractive or not.
A lot of couples also want to get straight down to business, which is not really our style. We like to get to know people socially first.
We have no problem with women, but suitable couples are really hard to find. "
No pics of Mr in a couple profile is sooooooo frustrating ….. so tiresome asking all the time, is blind date acceptable for the girls ? …. I think not !
Just …. Why not have pics of both of you ? |
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