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My sister wants us to take her to a swingers club
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My sister, (she’s single), discovered we were swingers and wants us to take her to a swingers club.
We can’t get our heads around this.
What would you do? |
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You could take her on the understanding that it would be just a visit to gauge any interest. Dress sexily but not too revealing, show her around, introduce her to people if the opportunity arises. Stay and have a drink, then leave her there if she feels comfortable,or all leave together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When my sister was single I said I would take her to a swingers club  I dont know that I could have walked around naked with her or been in the vicinity of she found any action though. Luckily she found a new boyfriend so it never came to anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And have her possibly play with people you've played with before that then tell her.
Or have someone tell you in future that they did things with your sister too... Ewww  |
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"My sister, (she’s single), discovered we were swingers and wants us to take her to a swingers club.
We can’t get our heads around this.
What would you do? "
Does she fully understand that if she comes with you, what she will see of you and your partner and that you will see of her
I would guess she likes the idea of going to a club and doesn't want to go alone but hasn't really thought what would happen through if you were the two of you to accompany her
She may change her mind if she fully understood, or at least you will know she understands |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And have her possibly play with people you've played with before that then tell her.
Or have someone tell you in future that they did things with your sister too... Ewww "
With three sisters all close in age going out, we were used to a bit of overlap. Beginning to think that may not be normal then  |
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At most clubs single ladies enter either free of charge, or a very nominal entrance fee compared with single guys and couples, so it won't cost much to take her along to one that you are members of, and who knows, she might just find it as addictive as the rest of us do once we cross over the line, and push a few boundaries. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And have her possibly play with people you've played with before that then tell her.
Or have someone tell you in future that they did things with your sister too... Ewww
With three sisters all close in age going out, we were used to a bit of overlap. Beginning to think that may not be normal then "
Has anyone ever commented/compared to you? They will probably have said something to someone. |
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How do you feel about it, OP? The relationship you have with your sister is an important factor. If you feel uncomfortable, don't take her. If she starts going to the same club as you it could end up awkward. If you are fine with what she and you can potentially see of each other then why not?
I know I would never go with my brother, but that's because he's a total cockwomble. I don't know how things are between you too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My sister, (she’s single), discovered we were swingers and wants us to take her to a swingers club.
We can’t get our heads around this.
What would you do? "
Take her and if you need a plus 1 give me a shout |
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Take her, I took my brother to a club as he wanted to explore the bi night.
Ground rules agreed before (we split the club in half and agreed to not share space in anyway) then had a laugh about the night on the way home! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It’s up to you and what you feel comfortable with in yourself - you have to think about yourself too! However I think that if she’s going to go - better with you than with a stranger she doesn’t know x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd take her! She's obviously curious and at least she knows she'd be safe with people she knows around rather than going on her own or with a random she may not know properly  "
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"My sister, (she’s single), discovered we were swingers and wants us to take her to a swingers club.
We can’t get our heads around this.
What would you do? "
Are you sure she don’t secretly want to play with you and your hubby |
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"Let's flip this on its head.
Is a bloke taking his brother to a club weird?"
I ended up “accidentally” going to a swingers night with my brother years ago… he was a brand manager for a soft drinks company and had the right to do spot inspections on nightclubs that stocked the brand… he and I were out one night and he did a spot check on a particular club and it happened to be running a swingers night… after our initial shock we had a great night… we played very separately but joined up at the bar periodically to talk about what we’d been up too… it was not as weird as you might think; we both had a very good night. I’m guessing the qualm in the original question though is really the presence of your hubby with your sister and how that needs to be agreed to be out of bounds… |
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Don't see a problem with it. The scene is great, why wouldn't you want to introduce your sister? And I can totally understand her wanting to go with you guys first time for safety and reduces anxiety. A club is more than just a sex place it's a social place. I think you need to set a few ground rules first to make sure you don't see or come in contact with each other in a way that'd make you sick. Likewise rules if she was to continue going alone afterwards. You wouldn't be the first siblings/relatives on the scene. |
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"My sister, (she’s single), discovered we were swingers and wants us to take her to a swingers club.
We can’t get our heads around this.
What would you do?
Are you sure she don’t secretly want to play with you and your hubby"
That's a bit of a leap isn't it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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What are your main concerns? I don't really see anything wrong with it? Would be safer to go with you than on her own?
I think with a few ground rules you'd be fine? |
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