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Evening gents
If you happened to be kindly invited to an organised social event with a not so posh lady, would you be happy with the opportunity of company with the lady or would you not bother to make the effort and arrangements if no sex was on offer? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being invited to an organise social event kind of implies straight away that no sex was on offer.
Personally I think it would be a lovely way to spend any evening with someone and make new friends  |
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"Said event is in the Leeds area so any northern gents, don't be shy.
Ah, I thought it was hypothetical! I’m a bit far
Ooops so did I  "
It is hypothetical too, very interested to know gents honest opinions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Evening gents
If you happened to be kindly invited to an organised social event with a not so posh lady, would you be happy with the opportunity of company with the lady or would you not bother to make the effort and arrangements if no sex was on offer?"
Yeah. Of course. Better than sitting at home. |
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"I have great evenings socially... went to a gig last weekend with someone I'd been chatting with but never met before ...I'm happy to met people..not necessarily for sex  "
Hope the gig was good too as well as the company |
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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago
Solihull and Brentwood |
I would love an opportunity, hypothetical or otherwise, to have a drink and a chat. Never any expectations other than that. Especially if it's the initial meet and I would be soooo nervous anyway and on my best behaviour.  |
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"I have great evenings socially... went to a gig last weekend with someone I'd been chatting with but never met before ...I'm happy to met people..not necessarily for sex
Hope the gig was good too as well as the company "
certainly was ... erasure at the O2...and she was lovely company |
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You know. A little bit related. The amount of messages we get daily asking if ‘they can just have sex anybody’ when they haven’t read the profile to see it’s a social event and when it’s explained STILL ask how many ladies are going is laughable |
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"What's the event? Can I wear my tux?x
Yes, yes you can! 
Are we arriving by limo?
Nahhhh you'd have to perhaps slum it in a taxi "
I'm sure we could manage that. Are you joining me in dressing up to the nines? |
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"You know. A little bit related. The amount of messages we get daily asking if ‘they can just have sex anybody’ when they haven’t read the profile to see it’s a social event and when it’s explained STILL ask how many ladies are going is laughable "
Some people are only capable of thinking with their genitals unfortunately. The dimwits. |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds |
"Evening gents
If you happened to be kindly invited to an organised social event with a not so posh lady, would you be happy with the opportunity of company with the lady or would you not bother to make the effort and arrangements if no sex was on offer?"
I enjoy the socialising meeting people.. if it was just sex I'd have left this site years ago |
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"I think it's a little unfair that folks assume that a guy will always have sex on his mind, or work to change a social situation sexual"
A lot do though. Plans are often cancelled when some hear there’s no sex on the agenda as this is apparently a ‘sex site’ after all |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"I think it's a little unfair that folks assume that a guy will always have sex on his mind, or work to change a social situation sexual
I totally agree "
some people have no concept of browsing, just like shopping on a Sunday, when the shop opens early, but the tills won't open up for another 30 mins. |
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By *1c4yMan
over a year ago
stourbridge |
"Evening gents
If you happened to be kindly invited to an organised social event with a not so posh lady, would you be happy with the opportunity of company with the lady or would you not bother to make the effort and arrangements if no sex was on offer?"
''Me too I'd much rather make friends than have sex'' ....
 
Maybe Facebook is more for you.... |
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By *elsh-guyMan
over a year ago
The land of the Dragon and loads of sheep |
"I would do the event sex or no sex.
Might be a sex sit were on. But it's not all about that.
Swingers site.... but it's still not all about sex."
haha OK you got me ill give you that one. I was close enough lol. |
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"I would do the event sex or no sex.
Might be a sex sit were on. But it's not all about that. "
It's a swingers site, at least that's how we view it. If it was all just about sex only we would seek specific sites/people just for sex only. |
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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago
Chinese Takeaway near you |
"Evening gents
If you happened to be kindly invited to an organised social event with a not so posh lady, would you be happy with the opportunity of company with the lady or would you not bother to make the effort and arrangements if no sex was on offer?"
I enjoy social events esp if good company, banter, wine & chicken wings are involved haha the sex is just a bonus I could do with or without |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Evening gents
If you happened to be kindly invited to an organised social event with a not so posh lady, would you be happy with the opportunity of company with the lady or would you not bother to make the effort and arrangements if no sex was on offer?"
I'd be more than happy with the company. Not every event on here has to lead to sex, I'd just be grateful of a good day/night out! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's a little unfair that folks assume that a guy will always have sex on his mind, or work to change a social situation sexual
A lot do though. Plans are often cancelled when some hear there’s no sex on the agenda as this is apparently a ‘sex site’ after all "
I think I'd be more tempted to cancel if sex WAS on the agenda
Perhaps an odd thing to say on a swingers site, but knowing that I will very likely to be having sex at a given time on a given date, days or weeks in advance leaves me stone dead cold |
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Nothing better than getting out for a social - who knows where it might lead? Meeting new people is always interesting, go with the flow and enjoy the experience for what it is - few drinks and some craic, what’s not to like!! |
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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago
Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’ |
Why not?
It's good for your mental health & theirs too! Especially if you ar single. Covid reminded us about this!
Not everythibg's about jumping their bones ya know.
Conversation, drink, food? |
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Thats an interesting question, I'd guess that the majority would be happy just to go to a fun party and socially mingle with everyone
As long as honest mutual boundaries are set in place early enough, its a fun thing to do |
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"Evening gents
If you happened to be kindly invited to an organised social event with a not so posh lady, would you be happy with the opportunity of company with the lady or would you not bother to make the effort and arrangements if no sex was on offer?"
I would be happy to go and have gone on/to many social events, great time out and never know who you might meet and what it may set you up fot in the future. Life is far to short to miss opportunities to make friends |
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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago
GATLEY |
I'd be happy with the company of a lady and the opportunity to get to know her and to learn about new friends hopefully leading to more socials and quality time in her company building up to any fun pleasure
It's never a given |
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"Evening gents
If you happened to be kindly invited to an organised social event with a not so posh lady, would you be happy with the opportunity of company with the lady or would you not bother to make the effort and arrangements if no sex was on offer?"
I would happily accept an offer to a social event like this, as opposed to visiting a club as a single guy. I feel people will be more open to interacting with a single guy at a social event, where no sex is involved, because that pre-supposed assumption of the guy on his own is only there to get his dick wet (so should be avoided), is out of the equation |
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