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why oh why do men make it awkward.

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Men ask me to meet them. If i agree they then ask me where i want picking up from. So i give details as to where to pick me up at. Then in some cases but not all i get? Cant pick you up there,as i know this one and that one? Or family live up there or work mate,friend. So why should i get picked up where the guy says? Should it not be my choice?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are you the only swinger in the village?

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By *affron40Woman over a year ago

manchester

I’d say it should be convenient for both

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Because he’s picking you up?

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

To be honest I wouldn't want to anyone up from near my mam's house either. If she saw my car she be ringing asking why I didn't pop in and visit her.

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I’d say it should be convenient for both

She’s not wrong.

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

To be fair after having read your profile you do specify you want picking up. So I guess that’s a condition of meeting you so yeah they probably should pick you up where you want or not bother asking to meet.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

It should suit both parties. Then again I wouldn’t be picked up, I’d just arrange to meet them somewhere

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I normally suggest a meet by the nearest bakery

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By *offiaCoolWoman over a year ago

Kidsgrove

You are a braver woman than I, to be taken to a shed in quiet woods with a random stranger

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is but a minor hiccup which can be easily rectified with effective communication. Shouldn’t let a minor thing like that put you off...

Give the bloke a chance and ask him what’s convenient for him and if it happens to be in any way awkward for you then tell him if a middle ground can be found...

If neither of you can agree to a compromise, simply move on...

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