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What do women/men really want?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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In this era of online datings where "everything" is available and "easily" reachable..what do really women/men want from women/men in websites like tis one? |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Away for Christmas |
Men and women, or me?
Because you won't find an answer that applies to all. Except maybe respect.
As for me a connection. A mutual physical, mental, and spiritual connection. Doesn't need to be the big love but it needs to be something meaningful. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Whatever is not available to them at any given moment.
A complex creature indeed."
So you cane in this website not looking for something but just to give whatever they need? ?? |
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"In this era of online datings where "everything" is available and "easily" reachable..what do really women/men want from women/men in websites like tis one?"
Fun
Excitement
Something different
New experiences
Variety
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Men and women, or me?
Because you won't find an answer that applies to all. Except maybe respect.
As for me a connection. A mutual physical, mental, and spiritual connection. Doesn't need to be the big love but it needs to be something meaningful. "
i am not looking for an answer to applies to all..i am just curios to see what people are looking for in here  and it's very interesting to see the variaty of answers |
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"Whatever is not available to them at any given moment.
A complex creature indeed.
A train ticket doesn't cut it"
but a surprise trip to Paris on the gorgeous Eurostar would surely? Most romantic city on earth. |
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Interesting question, do you mean in life or from fab?
From fab: to meet interesting people, to enjoy our time together.
Life: to be happy, freindship, maybe a relationship. Plus the things I've listed from fab. |
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Just a connection. For me it’s a cerebral and adult one, others may be romantic, others friendship - but at the end of the day we’re all just looking for someone to connect with, whether it’s for 50 minutes or 50 years  |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Honesty. Friendship. Affection. Cuddles.
And to be looked at like I'm the most beautiful, sexy and most desirable person he has ever seen.
Also coffee.
Reasonable"
Nah. First 4, last one, totally reasonable. Is the pesky sentence in the middle that I'll not find. |
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By *lofeldMan
over a year ago
Redhill |
"Honesty. Friendship. Affection. Cuddles.
And to be looked at like I'm the most beautiful, sexy and most desirable person he has ever seen.
Also coffee.
Reasonable
Nah. First 4, last one, totally reasonable. Is the pesky sentence in the middle that I'll not find."
Well, you should at least see that when you are alone and in the act...when he's sheepishly turned up an hour late or been told his cooking is crap...maybe not. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Going by a lot of what I observe on here it ranges from the sublime to the ridiculous to the impossible  "
You forgot the coffee...it seems like one of the leading reason ?? |
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From my observations I’d say both men and women want to feel special. Not always easy to achieve as different things make ppl feel special. So listen to your ‘partner’ and know your audience. A partner shouldn’t need to be told how to make you feel special. They should want to make you feel special and take the time to know how. If they don’t take that time at the beginning of a relationship they never will and you’re with the wrong person. |
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"Cake, honesty, tea, sincerity, biscuits & someone to have a laugh with
Basically someone who invites you to a tea shop?! ??
That would be a great date. "
It really would be, wouldn’t it? Even something similar could be fun, like a posh afternoon tea, or some basic, back-to-your-childhood, retro seaside pick n mix, for example. I really am struggling to think of anyone that might be able to offer that, though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Normally for both of us it would be people who we can engage with socially and intimately. They would be able to understand and deliver what we want out of a meet and vice versa.
At this particular moment we'd settle for someone who knows how to sort a turbo position sensor fault on a 2016 Peugeot Boxer van without having to replace the whole turbo.
Life doesn't always deliver what we want though  |
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