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"I met someone knew last week and we pretty much spent an hour and a half talking about motorbikes  "
Good for you! There is some much more to this lifestyle than sex. |
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I once went out for dinner with someone, and they accidentally got me talking about abandoned places and local history. I didn't realise how long I'd been banging on – with photos and references – until the staff started closing up the restaurant around us.
Needless to say, there was no second date. Oops. |
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Music, food, film, ideal holiday destinations, our impressions of Fab, jobs, etc etc.
Last guy I met, we had messaged for a week or so beforehand. The chat was dynamite and my kids were always asking why I was guffawing with laughter at my phone.
Then we met and for me, the all-elusive chemistry just wasn’t there. I hate it when that happens! |
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"Anything. Tho I love to hear about them and their life experiences more than anything.
I want to know what makes them who they are x"
This is such an interesting topic. Some people have lad some very interesting lives. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"I don't have a favourite. I talk about so much random stuff and depends on the person I'm talking to.
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Very much this.
I usually don't bring topics up in a way that narrows it down in to conversational categories, just wherever the conversation naturally leads to. |
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"Just random stuff to be honest.
Daft chats which enable you to slowly get to know someone. "
Same here
Sometimes it works, sometimes they glaze over and sometime they run for the hills!
The ones who get it, get it  |
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"Just random stuff to be honest.
Daft chats which enable you to slowly get to know someone.
Same here
Sometimes it works, sometimes they glaze over and sometime they run for the hills!
The ones who get it, get it "
The ones who don't get it usually call me a weirdo |
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Me and C talked about anything and everything.
We chatted for about 6 weeks, throughout the day before we met so the conversations were varied.
We formed our foundations before we saw each other face to face.
K
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I usually talk enough for both 
With every guy I've dated I think I've played Top 5. What are your top five books / TV shows whatever. I just keep that one up my sleeve if someone I am talking to is a bit shy |
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For others we meet we like to get to know them. We find talking about everything other than sex gives us a better understanding than talking about sex.
Although if we are playing a scenario out then sometimes it’s no conversation with C, just between me and them… 
K |
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"Everything and anything, I talk to people on here as if I'd met them in the pub.
I don't care what you want to talk about as long as you're interested in what it is and I can sense that.
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Fancy a pint  |
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"Everything and anything, I talk to people on here as if I'd met them in the pub.
I don't care what you want to talk about as long as you're interested in what it is and I can sense that.
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Well-said. Conversation often seems a lost art on here. |
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"Everything and anything, I talk to people on here as if I'd met them in the pub.
I don't care what you want to talk about as long as you're interested in what it is and I can sense that.
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You’re both so easy to talk to |
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"Everything and anything, I talk to people on here as if I'd met them in the pub.
I don't care what you want to talk about as long as you're interested in what it is and I can sense that.
Fancy a pint "
With you of course my dear |
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"Everything and anything, I talk to people on here as if I'd met them in the pub.
I don't care what you want to talk about as long as you're interested in what it is and I can sense that.
Well-said. Conversation often seems a lost art on here. "
Isn't it just, nothing wrong with a nice chat in my opinion |
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"Everything and anything, I talk to people on here as if I'd met them in the pub.
I don't care what you want to talk about as long as you're interested in what it is and I can sense that.
You’re both so easy to talk to "
You are one of my favourite people on here to chat with. We've spoken about everything and anything. You've been a proper mate the last year, thank you x |
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I like getting to know people, I am interested in people and definitely don't want to go straight into talking about sex.... in fact that has a strong probability of putting me off.
NBVN x |
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"Everything and anything, I talk to people on here as if I'd met them in the pub.
I don't care what you want to talk about as long as you're interested in what it is and I can sense that.
You’re both so easy to talk to
You are one of my favourite people on here to chat with. We've spoken about everything and anything. You've been a proper mate the last year, thank you x "
Ah don’t thank me,it’s been my pleasure. And the feelings mutual,you’re both so nice and easy to get on with and a good laugh too.
Oh and you have nice boobs  |
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Lots of people on the forums (as generally they seem fairly articulate conversation wise) i'd love to talk with more about random stuff but it's others finding the time and not making assumptions that you have only one goal! |
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over a year ago
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Most random one i ever had was the difference in outcome of using various combinations of laundry powder/liquid to fabric conditioner!
I still chat to him to this day! |
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I like talking about most things. Something that they're interested in is a good start!
I avoid politics, religion and covid. None of it interests me and it's something that can get heated depending on what the other person feels about it all.
I've had conversations with people about breastfeeding (in a none kink way), career and exams. |
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Anything random… conversation should naturally flow. Although I’m not a prolific chatter so will often bugger off and not look at my inbox for days. Sex chat is a huge turn off for me. I’ll have that conversation when I’ve met someone and if I fancy them and not before. |
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"Anything random… conversation should naturally flow. Although I’m not a prolific chatter so will often bugger off and not look at my inbox for days. Sex chat is a huge turn off for me. I’ll have that conversation when I’ve met someone and if I fancy them and not before."
You’re bloody right about your inbox! I’ve sent 247 messages and you haven’t even replied!
Anyway I’m going shopping for daps,peace out moron |
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"I like getting to know people, I am interested in people and definitely don't want to go straight into talking about sex.... in fact that has a strong probability of putting me off.
NBVN x"
Oh me too - "what are your kinks then" stops the convo dead for me. |
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"What is your favourite topic to talk about when getting to know someone on here.
 sex is obviously the one of the main topics but I am looking for more indepth posts "
Once people find out what I do for a job/business the conversation usually goes in that direction as they wanna know all the little secrets  |
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"Anything random… conversation should naturally flow. Although I’m not a prolific chatter so will often bugger off and not look at my inbox for days. Sex chat is a huge turn off for me. I’ll have that conversation when I’ve met someone and if I fancy them and not before.
You’re bloody right about your inbox! I’ve sent 247 messages and you haven’t even replied!
Anyway I’m going shopping for daps,peace out moron "
Sozzz. You know I’m crap with messages!!! Have fun Mong  |
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"I like getting to know people, I am interested in people and definitely don't want to go straight into talking about sex.... in fact that has a strong probability of putting me off.
NBVN x
Oh me too - "what are your kinks then" stops the convo dead for me. "
Yeah absolutely. I can practically feel my foof put an out of order sign up
NBVN x |
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"I like talking about most things. Something that they're interested in is a good start!
I avoid politics, religion and covid. None of it interests me and it's something that can get heated depending on what the other person feels about it all.
I've had conversations with people about breastfeeding (in a none kink way), career and exams. "
This ^^^ except the breastfeeding |
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I tend not to talk about sex as much as you'd expect on here. While I love the doing of it, the discussion of it I find repetitive and a bit dull after a while.
Previous experiences are different - tell me about your first crush, when you last had your heart broken, the best holiday romance you ever had. Don't tell me how you're going to destroy my vagina with your massive throbbing tool.
I'd much rather know about someone's life, the good meaty values and beliefs stuff right through to the inconsequential everyday stuff. People are endlessly interesting and I absolutely love it when someone has a passion they can geek out about. |
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