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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would depend. If you’re messaging someone with the hope of meeting them and they want a face pic then that’s fair enough. If they contacted you first and asked for one then that’s completely different |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes a lot are looking to meet and ask for a clear face pic but don't have one showing on their profile"
It is common here to request others compromise their privacy and anonymity whilst retaining your own
The ball is in your court as to whether you wish to do so |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
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"Yes a lot are looking to meet and ask for a clear face pic but don't have one showing on their profile"
I don't show my face publicly due to my work and personal life but I'm happy to do so in a message to someone.
Most people would want to see the person they are talking to anyway. Put a name to a face so to speak |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like we said it would depend on who makes first contact for us. If we contact someone else we’re doing so on their terms so we expect the same from people who contact us. We would never meet anyone if we hadn’t seen their face beforehand and most people will be the same.
Also exchanging face pics early on stops messaging back and forth only to realise we’re not attracted to each other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because why would they want to talk to you if they don't know if you have any appeal to them, they have obviously already appealed to you in some way for you to message them and at the end of the day just because they ask doesn't mean you have to oblige |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because why would they want to talk to you if they don't know if you have any appeal to them, they have obviously already appealed to you in some way for you to message them and at the end of the day just because they ask doesn't mean you have to oblige "
Pretty much this ^^^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The person who is sending the first message holds the responsibility of impressing the other person. So you follow their rules. People keep their pictures private for obvious reasons. |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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Maybe due to some women getting so much mail, they use a face pic as a filter.
I'd never ask for 1 first message, but early on so we don't waste each others time, happy to swap mine.
If it's a bug bear op, don't respond to those profiles. |
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I don't want anyone I'm not interested in to see much of myself. Too many pic collectors.
I require 1 bc most don't have any & i don't want to waste my time or theirs if they don't fit what I'm looking for. I have a certain type i like. |
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