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Do you believe in love at first sight?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope. It’s lust at first sight. Although you can meet people who are strangers but you may have past life connections with them so you have soul contracts and your energies match but for love, you still need to know them a bit and spent a sufficient amount of time with them. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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I'm not sure. Since there are different levels types of love connections it's hard to say.
Does a parent love their child at first sight (majority)? Yes they do, it's kind of hard wired in to them to do so.
Do I think you can romantically love a stranger at first sight? No, I think you can believe that you would be able to love this person. Sometimes that eventually develops in to a deeper love which is goes down as a great love story.
People rarely ever tell the love at first sight but turns out that person is actually an arse so the love faded story. |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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" Nope. It’s lust at first sight. Although you can meet people who are strangers but you may have past life connections with them so you have soul contracts and your energies match but for love, you still need to know them a bit and spent a sufficient amount of time with them. "
Do you believe in past lives? |
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"I don't even fancy people at first site so not for me  "
oooooooooo Lacey ....... Me too .... Me neither ..... I as well.
I never go ....... fuck he's lovely on sight.
It's always in the way he moves.....
( I think the Beatles said that first tho .... robbin bastards ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely not, the concept of love at first sight is the most nonsensical drivel ever penned into existence. Love has pretty much zero to do with how two people look and has everything to do with shared experiences |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Nope. It’s lust at first sight. Although you can meet people who are strangers but you may have past life connections with them so you have soul contracts and your energies match but for love, you still need to know them a bit and spent a sufficient amount of time with them.
Do you believe in past lives? "
Yep. Some people are brand new though.
I was probably a guy who went around breaking countless women’s hearts so now I’m a woman who has her heart broken all the time! |
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By *not123Couple
over a year ago
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"I believe in lust at first sight with an adult.
Love at first sight only happened with my son."
love is something that grows over time, I honestly can say ive loved 2 men in my life time all grew over time. One being my sons father and p years ago then met up after 28 years and those feeling still there not lust , compfortable, seeing him happy makes me happy and breaks my heart when he is sad or going through problems. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"Yes. I fall in love approximately 12 times a week. No, it’s not lust. It’s actual love. I love the guy I saw walking out of Tescos today that caught my eye. So handsome  "
I believe her. She loves Joe Goldberg, if that doesn't prove love is easy I don't know what does! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes definitely. I saw my ex wife and knew id spend the rest of my life with her and after 10 mins chatting confirmed it . Unfortunately I didn't count on me getting depression a fews ago and losing the plot and her . Hopefully one day I will come to terms with that |
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"I do believe that it exist, love at first sight can be an overwhelming sensation, it is a good match of endorphins between two people, it is an indication of strong physical attraction  "
Yes 20 years, and counting  |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Yes been their,but it's what happens unexpectedly when for example they cheat And do their up most to win you back no matter how many years pass by.
As the saying goes you only realise what you had when you've lost it |
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You cannot love anyone at first sight. To love someone you need to know someone and accept their good and bad. It is just lust at first sight or warmth or good vibes. And all of those are false and misguided emotions. Love is only real after you know someone well enough |
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"You cannot love anyone at first sight. To love someone you need to know someone and accept their good and bad. It is just lust at first sight or warmth or good vibes. And all of those are false and misguided emotions. Love is only real after you know someone well enough "
Amen Sister! Hahaha   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We use love to cover all kinds of experiences. The kind of love you have for a friend is also shared with a partner and this requires shared experiences and time taken to know each other.
On the other hand, physical love can develop very fast.
Sacrificial love, the kind where you would give everything and anything for another person can be either. As above, it is felt by parents even before a baby is born. For strangers it is all but non existent. We use the expression "greater love hath no man than that a man should lay down his life..." but while this may well be true in some cases I don't believe that for many who risk their lives to help others they are motivated by a love of that person.
When I talk of loving my partner it is a mix of all these things, parts were there from the first time we met, others have taken far longer to develop.
I guess it all depends how you define love.
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"You cannot love anyone at first sight. To love someone you need to know someone and accept their good and bad. It is just lust at first sight or warmth or good vibes. And all of those are false and misguided emotions. Love is only real after you know someone well enough "
Think some people are more open |
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What a refreshing change to hear so many agree with my sentiments. Forget lurve at first sight, lust is the foundation stone on which every successful relationship is built on. Every well grounded person knows that fantastic sex is the glue that binds a successful relationship together, without that, you are pissing in the wind, which is why I tell every emotional high dependent that I have the misfortune to meet when they come out with, "I lurve you Dave," They get told straight that I can't afford lurve, as it can be twice the expense for half the fun, but lust, that's a different commodity all together, and comes well within budgets. It goes down like a lead balloon, but then tact and diplomacy were not my strongest subject's in school. |
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"But if two people have connected very well say only on the phone and eager to meet each other in dating world and connect at first glance and it continues daily it becomes love at first sight"
That's dating and getting to know someone if it's daily! So not exactly love at first sight. |
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Definitely believe in love at first sight and chemistry between people that holds them together. We were childhood sweethearts and still here after nearly 40 years together, the swinging as helped keep it exciting though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Real love is much more deeper and complex than that for sure - still it’s not to say the physical attraction from first sight couldn’t lead to “pure love” over time. We can but dream of meeting that soulmate someday in our life if lucky...
Those of you who’ve found yours already - congrats. |
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"I do believe that it exist, love at first sight can be an overwhelming sensation, it is a good match of endorphins between two people, it is an indication of strong physical attraction "
I do.. I've had it happen to me twice.. since before I was old enough to even know what it was... and then with someone else. Still live them both but differently. It's most disturbing and unsettling at times. |
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