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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We’ve had a what do you think of me forum thread which was lovely but was all complimentary.
Comment that you’re in if you wish to hear things about your forum presence that people don’t like. Please be careful so as not to fall foul of a timeout. Use factual statements.
This could be a good learning tool if you want to improve yourself and also a way of seeing your shadow self.
Obviously do me first cos it’s my thread but after that it’s a free for all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Annie....you can be an acquired taste when people first chance upon you. I don't think most people are used to such brutal honesty or self-assuredness from someone, which can come across as arrogance if they don't take the time to listen and look beyond their initial shock.
I am Sharedow and I am always my shadow self.    |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Do you honestly think anyone is going to say anything negative??
I actually thought that after I posted lol. Probably not!
People would get slaughtered if they did
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I don't mind nora or sparkle
Speak up x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you honestly think anyone is going to say anything negative??
I actually thought that after I posted lol. Probably not! "
Your standards in men are too high..  |
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"Do you honestly think anyone is going to say anything negative??
I actually thought that after I posted lol. Probably not!
Your standards in men are too high.. "
Haha. It’s not a standards thing. I just don’t fancy anyone |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Aaargghhhh I think if someone is asking for it they should be allowed to have brutal honesty.
I don’t think someone would privately say what they don’t like either.
A bit of criticism is necessary for growth. Can look at it and be like hmm okay I’ll see if I can change that. |
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"Do you honestly think anyone is going to say anything negative??
I actually thought that after I posted lol. Probably not!
People would get slaughtered if they did
I don't mind nora or sparkle
Speak up x"
I more of a say it to their face kind of person x |
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"Do you honestly think anyone is going to say anything negative??
I actually thought that after I posted lol. Probably not!
People would get slaughtered if they did
Hold my beer Ginger... "
Carry on.....  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I don't think the last thread was all complimentary - a few people mentioned your abrasive tendencies for one. I'm going to sound really wishy washy but I don't think I actually dislike anyone's posting on the forum. I might not agree with their posts but it doesn't mean I dislike them as a person.
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Do you honestly think anyone is going to say anything negative??
I actually thought that after I posted lol. Probably not!
People would get slaughtered if they did
I don't mind nora or sparkle
Speak up x
I more of a say it to their face kind of person x"
Like wise |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I don't think the last thread was all complimentary - a few people mentioned your abrasive tendencies for one. I'm going to sound really wishy washy but I don't think I actually dislike anyone's posting on the forum. I might not agree with their posts but it doesn't mean I dislike them as a person.
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Here here xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure of the value of this topic, yes constructive criticism can be helpful when delivered appropriately but to encourage people to say what they don't like about and criticise each other is a pretty negative thing to do but... Just my opinion, crack on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Annie you are quite like marmite and I think sometimes you have a brash personality. I can see why some might adore you while some might not stand you. But I think you secretely love it , so long as people give you attention then you are good 
Honest opinion and I don’t even know you that well x
Come at me betches x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yasmeen.....
How about some change in the photos?
Like
I don't, shower? Lying on the bed? Something else.
Your bed x"
Fine. I'll even take the photo! Change it up, girl! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Annie you are quite like marmite and I think sometimes you have a brash personality. I can see why some might adore you while some might not stand you. But I think you secretely love it , so long as people give you attention then you are good
Honest opinion and I don’t even know you that well x
Come at me betches x "
Kylie follows through  |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Annie you are quite like marmite and I think sometimes you have a brash personality. I can see why some might adore you while some might not stand you. But I think you secretely love it , so long as people give you attention then you are good
Honest opinion and I don’t even know you that well x
Come at me betches x
Kylie follows through "
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Annie. I can totally see why some take you the wrong way and you could maybe think of better ways of saying stuff. We’ve always got on well and most of the time you crack me up! More so in the early days as you’re a bit more serious now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Go for it. Feeling a bit masochistic since I got no takers in the like about me forums. Better to be talked about than not at all. "
Stop being so fucking nice all the time, time to embrace your fuck boy inner self and go get them girls!!! Like HONESTLY! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Annie you are quite like marmite and I think sometimes you have a brash personality. I can see why some might adore you while some might not stand you. But I think you secretely love it , so long as people give you attention then you are good
Honest opinion and I don’t even know you that well x
Come at me betches x
Kylie follows through "
That’s gonna be my nickname for life now eh …. x 
begins with C ends with Ts I hate you guys!!! |
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I can't say that I dislike anyone. I may not like their points of view and attitude but I do try to keep an open mind and think of the bigger picture on what they are posting.
Not everyone is as they try to portray themselves here in the forum. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kylie asks questions but doesn't read the answers. And when I spend all of an entire minute thinking of the right one word reply to send, just for it to be unread is downright disrespectful of my time. I could have brushed half my teeth in that minute! |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Kylie asks questions but doesn't read the answers. And when I spend all of an entire minute thinking of the right one word reply to send, just for it to be unread is downright disrespectful of my time. I could have brushed half my teeth in that minute!"
Ha xx |
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Annie ,
Not really sure if this counts as a negative…You have a heart of gold but, sometimes you seem to over think things too much and end up tying your emotions up in knots. Oh and (tongue in cheek) your age filer has always been a pain in the arse  |
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"Go on then. I didn’t do the others. I’m better with criticism than compliments
What about backhanded compliments just for fun as you quiet amazing.
Fit for an old bird. "
Haha love it. I get a lot of that in messages  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kylie asks questions but doesn't read the answers. And when I spend all of an entire minute thinking of the right one word reply to send, just for it to be unread is downright disrespectful of my time. I could have brushed half my teeth in that minute!"
Im sorry you got lost in the sea of fuckboys and unreads I’ll have to go pick up the message from sent !!
Not my fault |
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I think it's hard to say what you think of someone who you've only seen post on here.
Most of us hide certain aspects of ourselves for privacy reasons and in my case, I tend to avoid contention by sticking mostly to lighthearted threads. |
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"Aaargghhhh I think if someone is asking for it they should be allowed to have brutal honesty.
I don’t think someone would privately say what they don’t like either.
A bit of criticism is necessary for growth. Can look at it and be like hmm okay I’ll see if I can change that. "
Now remember this is just for fun an in one way meant to offend.
But in your profile picture, you look uncomfortable may be if you where sitting on my face it would be more natural and comfortable.. |
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By *ack688Man
over a year ago
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"I would be happy to hear some criticism
Your username could do with an update  "
Hmm, thanks, that’s an interesting perspective, why would anyone ever change their user name?? Isn’t the point to keep that static? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sparkle does my tits right in cause she doesn’t seem to realise how awesome she is.
Mind you I dont know her in real life so she might kick puppies for all I know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yasmeen really fucks me off because…..because…..NO I can’t even joke about being negative anymore. You all seem lovely!!!
And so are you very Decent xxx"
That’s what I want you to think!! Mwuhahahaaaaaa! |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Yasmeen really fucks me off because…..because…..NO I can’t even joke about being negative anymore. You all seem lovely!!!
And so are you very Decent xxx
That’s what I want you to think!! Mwuhahahaaaaaa! "
I can tell your a good egg x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why is it so hard to put into factual statements the reasons why someone rubs you up the wrong way?
A perfect opportunity here to say these are the things you do (insert things) then I (we) can do something about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What I like most is you unshakeable confidence and total openness.
Mr"
Think I misread the OP - that's something I do like
Something I don't like is the way you don't seem to realise your comments can put others down. I actually believe you don't intend it but it still happens.
Mr |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it so hard to put into factual statements the reasons why someone rubs you up the wrong way?
A perfect opportunity here to say these are the things you do (insert things) then I (we) can do something about it. "
For example, I perceive your threads to be very focused on yourself only (example you said these exact word: Obviously do me first cos it’s my thread but after that it’s a free for all)
I interpret this to be… just talk about me first!! not really bothered about what you do afterwards tho.
Maybe I’m wrong but that’s how it comes across
What can you do about it? I don’t know, it is just part of who you are . So keep being yourself
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"Why is it so hard to put into factual statements the reasons why someone rubs you up the wrong way?
A perfect opportunity here to say these are the things you do (insert things) then I (we) can do something about it.
For example, I perceive your threads to be very focused on yourself only (example you said these exact word: Obviously do me first cos it’s my thread but after that it’s a free for all)
I interpret this to be… just talk about me first!! not really bothered about what you do afterwards tho.
Maybe I’m wrong but that’s how it comes across
What can you do about it? I don’t know, it is just part of who you are . So keep being yourself
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You are so pretty it makes us sick!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What I like most is you unshakeable confidence and total openness.
Mr
Think I misread the OP - that's something I do like
Something I don't like is the way you don't seem to realise your comments can put others down. I actually believe you don't intend it but it still happens.
Mr"
If my comments ever put people down it’s 100% thought out, intended and deliberate.
I never put one camp down whilst praising another, I never say derogatory things about height or penis size or any kind of physical attributes that CAN NOT be changed so if I’m ever saying anything nasty it’s on purpose. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sparkle does my tits right in cause she doesn’t seem to realise how awesome she is.
Mind you I dont know her in real life so she might kick puppies for all I know
I smother them....in kisses x"
Then they're really isn't anything I can thnk of thats bad about you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We’ve had a what do you think of me forum thread which was lovely but was all complimentary.
Comment that you’re in if you wish to hear things about your forum presence that people don’t like. Please be careful so as not to fall foul of a timeout. Use factual statements.
This could be a good learning tool if you want to improve yourself and also a way of seeing your shadow self.
Obviously do me first cos it’s my thread but after that it’s a free for all. "
I think you like rubbing people up the wrong way, saying things so you get the reactions and causing a bit of choas and such. Doesn't piss me off though. Don't give a fuck to be honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it so hard to put into factual statements the reasons why someone rubs you up the wrong way?
A perfect opportunity here to say these are the things you do (insert things) then I (we) can do something about it. "
Who cares what strangers on the internet say ? It’s all like the wind in the trees, just let it be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of those that I am familiar with in this thread, I really don't have anything negative to critique....let me look again. 
Do me! "
What do I not like about you?? . Gosh, this is hard, to only critique the negative.
In the Forum, you have appeared a little aloof in the past but that is no longer the case now that you're starting inclusive threads more often.
Quite honestly, I'm struggling to find anything to say about what I don't like about you although I have plenty to say that opposes the theme of this thread. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it so hard to put into factual statements the reasons why someone rubs you up the wrong way?
A perfect opportunity here to say these are the things you do (insert things) then I (we) can do something about it.
Who cares what strangers on the internet say ? It’s all like the wind in the trees, just let it be. "
This, could not give a rats ass  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sharedow Pisses me off cause he’s a man. He would be my ideal woman of me was one. "
Now, why is it you can't be pissed off that you're not a woman and I can be your ideal man? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sharedow Pisses me off cause he’s a man. He would be my ideal woman of me was one.
Now, why is it you can't be pissed off that you're not a woman and I can be your ideal man? "
Why do you have to do that and make me think! I'm trying to kill my mind so I don't have to! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sharedow Pisses me off cause he’s a man. He would be my ideal woman of me was one.
Now, why is it you can't be pissed off that you're not a woman and I can be your ideal man?
Why do you have to do that and make me think! I'm trying to kill my mind so I don't have to! "
Think on it and it might just kill your mind off even quicker! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sharedow Pisses me off cause he’s a man. He would be my ideal woman of me was one.
Now, why is it you can't be pissed off that you're not a woman and I can be your ideal man?
Why do you have to do that and make me think! I'm trying to kill my mind so I don't have to!
Think on it and it might just kill your mind off even quicker! "
Hahahahaha!!! I look forward to the white coat that helps you hug yourself |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"We’ve had a what do you think of me forum thread which was lovely but was all complimentary.
Comment that you’re in if you wish to hear things about your forum presence that people don’t like. Please be careful so as not to fall foul of a timeout. Use factual statements.
This could be a good learning tool if you want to improve yourself and also a way of seeing your shadow self.
Obviously do me first cos it’s my thread but after that it’s a free for all.
I think you like rubbing people up the wrong way, saying things so you get the reactions and causing a bit of choas and such. Doesn't piss me off though. Don't give a fuck to be honest "
Annie's lovely xx |
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