Laid back attitude. It wasn’t long after I moved to hampshire, I just went through a breakup, wasn’t ready for anything too heavy but missed sex so I started dating a guy who was in a similar situation. Was brilliant. Dinner, drinks, sex and sofa sundays with no expectations for more, just two people enjoying each others company in that moment. We’re still friends now  |
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"Laid back attitude. It wasn’t long after I moved to hampshire, I just went through a breakup, wasn’t ready for anything too heavy but missed sex so I started dating a guy who was in a similar situation. Was brilliant. Dinner, drinks, sex and sofa sundays with no expectations for more, just two people enjoying each others company in that moment. We’re still friends now "
It's great when that happens x |
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My latest FWB got me hooked on our 1st social. Confident but shy (for a whole 2 mins) We clicked even before meeting in person and just seemed to slot together when we did meet. We have a laugh (mostly me at his expense to be fair). We connect outside the bedroom, which makes it explosive once we get there x |
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The fact that they stay around even when life gets in the way. Even years later. That you can talk about other things not just sex in the times between when you can meet. Trust in them as a person outside of fab. |
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I was ‘in’ from the first time we met and not through fab. He has the most confident, sexy and utterly witty personality ever. He introduced me to so many new experiences.
We are still the best of friends several years later and yep, I would trust him with my life. A bloody amazing FwB |
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"I was ‘in’ from the first time we met and not through fab. He has the most confident, sexy and utterly witty personality ever. He introduced me to so many new experiences.
We are still the best of friends several years later and yep, I would trust him with my life. A bloody amazing FwB "
My very first FWB is still a friend 30 years on....no benefits now but still a friend who I cherish x |
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Trust. I thought I had a FWB earlier this year, but looking back he was just a FB as I didn't trust him (rightly so too as he often lied).
I've now met a great FWB (been meeting 2 months nearly now). We laugh, we have fun and I trust him. He has my mobile number and recently he lifted me up while we fucked (Normally causes me anxiety.) xx |
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"Trust. I thought I had a FWB earlier this year, but looking back he was just a FB as I didn't trust him (rightly so too as he often lied).
I've now met a great FWB (been meeting 2 months nearly now). We laugh, we have fun and I trust him. He has my mobile number and recently he lifted me up while we fucked (Normally causes me anxiety.) xx"
I'm glad it's working out for you xx |
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After giving this some thought, because he makes our time together and sex total fun. Which is exactly how it should be. In 5 years we have never had a bad connection or cross word. Happy days - still. |
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"After giving this some thought, because he makes our time together and sex total fun. Which is exactly how it should be. In 5 years we have never had a bad connection or cross word. Happy days - still."
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"If you have/had a FWB....what attracted you to them? What was it about them that made them go from a FB to FWB? "
People are often too quick to judge and my FWB was someone I got to know really well before it progressed. She is so much different to the 'bat shit crazy' person she thinks she is. First and foremost I've made a life long friend.....the sexual part is an awesome extra  |
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"If you have/had a FWB....what attracted you to them? What was it about them that made them go from a FB to FWB?
People are often too quick to judge and my FWB was someone I got to know really well before it progressed. She is so much different to the 'bat shit crazy' person she thinks she is. First and foremost I've made a life long friend.....the sexual part is an awesome extra "
I think the friendship part is the most important part x |
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over a year ago
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Two of them were quite open sexually and weren’t backward about coming forward when they decided they wanted more.
Not only was it very nice to be ‘pursued’ (they didn’t have to chase for long!  ) but I always struggle with how open it direct to be when approaching sex. They were both really relaxed, not the type to be offended by anything suggested, which made me really at ease with it going further.
The third was more timid, but still admitted she fancied me; things moved a little slower there but we still had plenty of fun in the end. |
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We met on here, and were Fb first, it developed into fwb, and now he’s the person that knows me best in all the world, and I would trust him with my life.
He’s introduced me to so many new experiences, and allowed for so much development .
I feel completely safe when I’m with him.
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"We met on here, and were Fb first, it developed into fwb, and now he’s the person that knows me best in all the world, and I would trust him with my life.
He’s introduced me to so many new experiences, and allowed for so much development .
I feel completely safe when I’m with him.
Hippy"
Thats so nice x |
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
My last FB turned into my FWB till feelings started to sprout, I was seeing 3 other regular friends, but soon realised it was turning into emotionless sex with them, but more emotionally stimulating with my last one, we clicked on so many levels, inside and outside the bedroom |
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I had one for two and half years. We got on so well, had a laugh, chill and watch tv, as well as amazing sex. But ultimately he was a lying user. Would tell me one thing and do another. Lie, let me down etc |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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His sense of humour and how he makes me laugh, how we can chat about everything and he puts up with me when I'm tired and grouchy.Great sex is an added bonus. I know I can trust him also which is a big thing.
I've had fbs before but Fwb is definitely better if you are real friends and it's not just about sex . |
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It took a while for me to get used to the concept of a FWB, but once I did, the fun has been immeasurable. She has a great sense of humour, wicked personality, and we share amazing sex together....we want no more than that so it works. |
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My first kinky experience was also my first fwb. I'd be very happy to spend time with him again - we just found it easy to chat about all sorts and have a laugh. We like each other. The sex was  |
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If we could actually meet some fwb’s it would definitely be an attraction of personalities, obviously it helps if they’re hot but it would have to be all mutual attraction |
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Someone I had admired from afar and fancied for months, when we met there was exceptional chemistry, easy chats and lots of laughs... Bingo!! we both knew it was more than FB stuff and that there would be adventure ahead
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"Had a fwb for seven years.
Started as a fb but fell in love with her.
At the start it was a once a month but at the end she spent 4days a week with me and 3days with her hubby.
Sadly she died"
Oh wow that’s really sad. I’m sorry 
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"We met on here, and were Fb first, it developed into fwb, and now he’s the person that knows me best in all the world, and I would trust him with my life.
He’s introduced me to so many new experiences, and allowed for so much development .
I feel completely safe when I’m with him.
Hippy"
This is exactly how it went for me too.
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We were friends well before we did anything sexual. Then it was FWB as I wasn't looking for a relationship, didn't think I ever wanted a relationship ever again. And well shows what I know, in a relationship together now. |
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