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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have you ever been turned down when you tried to initiate sex by the other person saying. 'sorry I had a wank and can't or don't want to?'
Previous relationship I had this a lot.
How would you deal with it if it was a repeated thing?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say I'm a pretty chilled person and if it was just now and again I'd probably find that quite funny - if was happening all the time though, I'd definitely be pissed. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why would you have a wank if you were in a healthy sexual relationship with your partner?"
I'd really like to know that answer.
Laziness? Impatience? |
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"Why would you have a wank if you were in a healthy sexual relationship with your partner?
I'd really like to know that answer.
Laziness? Impatience? "
For me I sometimes just want to get off quickly and without the effort of involving anybody else, especially if it’s evening and I’m tired |
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"Why would you have a wank if you were in a healthy sexual relationship with your partner?
It’s a mood thing surely?! Nothing wrong with doing both"
Sure, but only if your gf doesn't feel horny/headache or whatever, and buggers off to bed for an early night  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why would you have a wank if you were in a healthy sexual relationship with your partner?
I'd really like to know that answer.
Laziness? Impatience?
For me I sometimes just want to get off quickly and without the effort of involving anybody else, especially if it’s evening and I’m tired "
Yeah exactly, there's nothing wrong with wanting a wank. And if a guy has just had a wank, then I get why he might not want sex for a while.
If it happened a lot though, then maybe some communication would be helpful - tell him you're horny and want him later, for example? |
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"For me I sometimes just want to get off quickly and without the effort of involving anybody else, especially if it’s evening and I’m tired
Have you ever fallen asleep whilst having a wank  "
No, but I’ve given up because I’ve decided I’m too tired to be bothered  |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
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We all have urges and need to satisfy them at times. I'd have no problem if it happened occasionally but if it was a regular thing there is obviously something wrong and that's prbbaly the time when you know things are done. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me I sometimes just want to get off quickly and without the effort of involving anybody else, especially if it’s evening and I’m tired
Have you ever fallen asleep whilst having a wank
No, but I’ve given up because I’ve decided I’m too tired to be bothered "
I've done this too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you ever fallen asleep whilst having a wank "
Yes. Many times. It takes a looooooong time for me to get off by myself.
Most of the time I just give up cos my arm aches  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can honestly say never had that happen
And never done it ither but mind you I have a very high sex drive
So I could have a wank and then stright sex afterwards and wouldn’t mind |
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"For me I sometimes just want to get off quickly and without the effort of involving anybody else, especially if it’s evening and I’m tired
Have you ever fallen asleep whilst having a wank
No, but I’ve given up because I’ve decided I’m too tired to be bothered "
Me and you both, I think sod this for a game of soldiers, it can wait until tomorrow  |
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Honestly, I'd find it strange if I had a partner that didn't wank. Occasionally going overboard or me wanting some action when he's just finished I can understand...but we'd need to talk if it was happening regularly. In that situation I'd just lay beside him and have a wank myself...I'm sure it wouldn't be long before he was interested again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I used to be in a relationship with a lass who once I sorted her out I’d have to go wank and finish myself off. It used to make me feel like shit but I’m over it now. I’m living my life and she’s enjoying hers under the patio I’m
Sure.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I used to be in a relationship with a lass who once I sorted her out I’d have to go wank and finish myself off. It used to make me feel like shit but I’m over it now. I’m living my life and she’s enjoying hers under the patio I’m
Sure.
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That really made me laugh! |
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