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What do you think of YOURSELF....... reflection post.
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In the forum or off the forum.
What thoughts do you have about yourself ?
Do you match the expectations you have of others ?
What do you offer the forum and other users ?
Be self evaluating and honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I try to hard to be funny, I'm too aloof and I don't care as much as I should about the feelings of people I don't really know.
I'd love to be a positive person but the cynic in me wins out every time. I'm deeply suspicious of overly positive people and think they're a bit dull.
Which is an awful attitude to have. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
I'm a shell of my former self.
I don't dislike who I am, as I'm a good person.
I probably do too much for other people and neglect my own well-being, but it makes me happy.
I like seeing and making people happy.
I'm a bit of a dick at times. |
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I can't send myself a message as I'm not looking for women. So I'll post here.
I'm me. I'm funny, flirty, intelligent & loyal. I can't stand arse-lickers, duplicitous folk or bellends.
I also don't care overly what people think of me (unless you're my friend - then I care too much).
Cheers & Jaffa cakes x |
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I speak my truth as I see it and I don't shy away from it. If it's all in the open nobody can use my past against me. So when I speak in the forum I think others can sometimes relate to my experiences. But it can make me a bit argumentative if someone tries to dismiss what I'm saying as it's something I've lived through.
I need to be less serious on here, as I rarely show that side of me on here. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
I can be moody. My forum posts are usually a reflection of that mood.
I’m not at all sociable, I like to be left alone more often than not.
Fairly laidback about getting a shag these days as deep down I’m not sure I can again go through the faff of being sociable to a fella who’s only meeting me cos he wants his plums sucked.
I think I’m funnier than I am.
I think I’m sexier than I am.
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I know who I am and those I trust do too, with no expectations either way.
I’m not on the forums to entertain others, if I choose to join in its because I want to, not to make others smile or more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a lot of deep thinking for a Saturday morning 
I'd have to ask the people in my life if I meet their expectations. As for what I bring to the forum, nothing. I lurk more than post nowadays. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thoughts about myself is that I don't take life (or fab) too seriously. Others have messaged me to comment on my pretty relaxed demeanour so I guess I "reach" their expectations although I'm not here to please anybody.
People comment in the real world about my relaxed attitude to life too, I avoid the drama because it doesn't appeal to me.
I offer a friendly (maybe scary) face to talk to and possibly the odd sexy picture here and there if you're really feeling down in the dumps  |
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I’m difficult. I have walls and spikes that few get past. Those that do know I’m soft as anything underneath. I will not lie to curry favour and expect the same of everyone around me. I never mean to hurt or upset by my words but am aware my blunt nature could be misinterpreted. I’m just dark and dry.
I love fiercely and will do anything for those in my circle. But if you show me lack of respect that will hurt and I will cut you off for my own self preservation.
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Bald overweight smart arse covers it I think - average looking - nothing special and quite content with that. Have some talents… always more successful with ladies lin person than on here - also ok with that. Come here because the characters on here are fun to interact with. Don’t take too much seriously. Me in a nutshell i think x
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
I’m currently unsure.
I try to show the whole me, warts and all, sometimes I succeed, other times I only show aspects of myself.
I’m still trying to find my way back to myself and come across as grumpy or morose as one message put it!
I don’t pretend to be something that I’m not though.
I do try to facilitate conversations, connections and interest, to varying degrees of success |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m a crazy bitch most of the times, bubbly and LOVE telling what’s in my head, I think I’ve got quite a sense of humour and Even tho I’m a fake blondie, I know I’m quite smart!
I can be extremely moody at times and I apologise that I hit the forums when I’m very low x but luckily those are very temporary and Im back to my usual upbeat self  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In the forum or off the forum.
What thoughts do you have about yourself ? Heart’s in right place...!
Do you match the expectations you have of others ? Surpass their expectations as they soon have their dick balls deep inside my holes...
What do you offer the forum and other users ? Silky wet tight arse-pussy and deep-throat blow job skills for a throat-pussy
Be self evaluating and honest. "
Verifications help towards this, after-all it’s no good blowing one’s on own trumpet...
Now your turn |
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That’s too much thinking for me  . I just “am”
I’ve never been much of a people pleaser or a sheep. However those I care about I really care about and those I don’t I don’t really give a second thought. I love too much, I care too much but I also cut people off easily. I’m aware I’m a bit marmiteish. (New word alert)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In Forum it's a semi persona. I never share anything too personal or if I'm down. That's private. I hope I offer the Forum some positive vibes as that's what I get from it most of the time.
Off Forum I quite like my personality and dislike most things about my appearance, but not in a self loathing way. I'm a good friend, decent company and a mediocre shag. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to be blunt or direct, most don't know how to take to me till they get used to me. I'm very open about all aspects of my life, there's a reason for it and I'd stand by that reason forever regardless of what people think. I'm honest and expect the same. If I'm lied to I will cut them off.
Besides that I'm softer than most people care to think and have a free spirited fun side once you get to know me. I tend to be very self aware and think I show an awareness of others and their feelings. Though I'm well aware how I perceive myself is probably very different to how people actually see me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get frutrated as my wife for not wanting to meet strangers 24/7, lol
TBH, my cock is not what it was.
I still weigh about the same as when 30 yrs old.
lost almost all of my hair
Getting more randy at the though of my wife being fucked by strangers
and i often cum too quikly now.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am honest and tell you like it is, don't mince what I say in life or on the forums, once you have me as a friend you have me. Loyal to a fault and caring, I have empathy and always try to see life from others perspectives. Piss me off and that's that, I'll cut you to the core and take no prisoners
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm the wise old man of the forums..that's all your getting from me..and if anyone wants to take that place?
Go ahead old man!
No..I DON'T really see myself as that..but to find me you have to dig.
If you have the time for it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm the wise old man of the forums..that's all your getting from me..and if anyone wants to take that place?
Go ahead old man!
No..I DON'T really see myself as that..but to find me you have to dig.
If you have the time for it?"
I dig you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm the wise old man of the forums..that's all your getting from me..and if anyone wants to take that place?
Go ahead old man!
No..I DON'T really see myself as that..but to find me you have to dig.
If you have the time for it?
I dig you "
I dig you too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am a passionate + positive person. I've had a lot of disappointment in life, so I've learned to be completely self-reliant and i'm very hard to get to know on a deeper level..
I'm very pragmatic and resilient and I'm a keeper of secrets and confidences. People find me trustworthy and often confess /tell me things they've never told anyone else.. I think it is because i do not judge
My humour is ?dry and sarcastic..And also off the scale bonkers.. My mission in life is to make others laugh
My thought process is quick and decisive - i get irritated when others struggle to keep up..
I'm able to move on as quickly as i breezed in.. But sometimes i don't allow enough time for people to show me who they are
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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago
Blyth |
Found this harder than I initially thought I would....
I'm a very cynical person and find it hard to take many things at face value, always think someone has an angle and can't just want me for me. Although a rather beautiful young lady has recently challenged this thinking.
I use sarcasm far too much, probably as defence mechanism, think that started at school through being quite badly bullied.
I think the real me has been buried too deep and for too long and not sure it'll ever surface again.
Apart from that I'm the life and soul of the party |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a funny fecker, I wont lie.
I have a come back for everything and every insult going.
I have boobs and I use them to my advantage when I can be arsed too.
Most people on here don't know the real me at all and I really don't care what they think of me as its usually very far from the actual truth.
I'm very ladylike in my appearance and always have matching underware on in case I get run over (wise words from my nan)
I care more about other people's feeling than my own usually which isn't always good in the long run....
I eat far too much chocolate
I'm alright I suppose but you will either like me or hate me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I don’t like who I am !
People on the whole even at work accept my crazy side not forgetting it was work that made me what I am !
As in life do get a few really nasty messages as I do in life !
I accept what I am and who I am !
Take it which ever way you want !
As famous actress said once frankly my dear I don’t give a damn |
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"I'm a funny fecker, I wont lie.
I have a come back for everything and every insult going.
I have boobs and I use them to my advantage when I can be arsed too.
Most people on here don't know the real me at all and I really don't care what they think of me as its usually very far from the actual truth.
I'm very ladylike in my appearance and always have matching underware on in case I get run over (wise words from my nan)
I care more about other people's feeling than my own usually which isn't always good in the long run....
I eat far too much chocolate
I'm alright I suppose but you will either like me or hate me "
You use your eyes to your advantage too haha |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"I am honest and tell you like it is, don't mince what I say in life or on the forums, once you have me as a friend you have me. Loyal to a fault and caring, I have empathy and always try to see life from others perspectives. Piss me off and that's that, I'll cut you to the core and take no prisoners
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Just like a diplodocus. Run if peeved off  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a funny fecker, I wont lie.
I have a come back for everything and every insult going.
I have boobs and I use them to my advantage when I can be arsed too.
Most people on here don't know the real me at all and I really don't care what they think of me as its usually very far from the actual truth.
I'm very ladylike in my appearance and always have matching underware on in case I get run over (wise words from my nan)
I care more about other people's feeling than my own usually which isn't always good in the long run....
I eat far too much chocolate
I'm alright I suppose but you will either like me or hate me
You use your eyes to your advantage too haha "
Don't tell everyone!! |
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"I'm a funny fecker, I wont lie.
I have a come back for everything and every insult going.
I have boobs and I use them to my advantage when I can be arsed too.
Most people on here don't know the real me at all and I really don't care what they think of me as its usually very far from the actual truth.
I'm very ladylike in my appearance and always have matching underware on in case I get run over (wise words from my nan)
I care more about other people's feeling than my own usually which isn't always good in the long run....
I eat far too much chocolate
I'm alright I suppose but you will either like me or hate me
You use your eyes to your advantage too haha
Don't tell everyone!! "
Too late oops  |
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I'm like a jar Marmite....at times, I love myself other times I want to screw the lid on and turn it back to the shop for a refund.
The label on the front of the jar is big, bold and vibrant. However on reverse slightly nervous, and unconfident.
Also, dislike expressing my feelings and use Marmite to describe myself  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aham Brahmasmi!
Tat tvam asi x
In the words of they mystic Yoda....
is pretentious tongues to that others speak but not say
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a bit of a contradiction in phrase here since if you understood Sanskrit, you will find he has spoken and therefore, cannot be accused of being pretentious since many of us even after being spoken to cannot always comprehend the wisdom being passed down to us (incl. me)
Google is your friend copy and paste to reveal the translation from Sanskrit to English...
Aham brahmasmi: “I'm the eternal part of the Supreme”
Having said this, piece meal info. should not be taken out of context and I do not have the intellect to understand Sanskrit due to not having studied it; but I do understand the importance of the Vedas. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't really want to be fully open about what I think about myself. Not because I don't trust some of you, but because I don't trust all of you. Bravo to those who felt able though x |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
I'm a laid back and easygoing person, but assertive when required. I try to take people as I find them, preferring to judge them based on my interactions with them rather than hearsay through a third party. Often times my opinions on more serious matters run contrary to most as I certainly lean conservative but can agree to disagree with others.
I despise drama and give it a wide berth when possible but will confront it when there's no alternative.
I don't bring much to the forums nowadays besides the odd post and in the past my sketch threads were well received |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a laid back and easygoing person, but assertive when required. I try to take people as I find them, preferring to judge them based on my interactions with them rather than hearsay through a third party. Often times my opinions on more serious matters run contrary to most as I certainly lean conservative but can agree to disagree with others.
I despise drama and give it a wide berth when possible but will confront it when there's no alternative.
I don't bring much to the forums nowadays besides the odd post and in the past my sketch threads were well received "
I enjoyed your stretch threads xx |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
Can you do this again in a few months please Granny? Right now what I think of me seems to be a bit of a confuddled mess and I don't seem to have the words.
I don't like much of me. But the bits I do, I really like. But even those bits I don't like some of the time. It's very head spinny. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m fucking ace.
Apart from when I’m alone and thinking dark stuff.
I had a lager fuelled close to the bone conversation with an old friend recently that seemed a bit shock to him.
Just because the bodywork shines brightly doesn’t mean the engine management lights ain’t all flashing like a Blackpool arcade! |
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over a year ago
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"I’m fucking ace.
Apart from when I’m alone and thinking dark stuff.
I had a lager fuelled close to the bone conversation with an old friend recently that seemed a bit shock to him.
Just because the bodywork shines brightly doesn’t mean the engine management lights ain’t all flashing like a Blackpool arcade!"
So true. It's like an ocean, you can only ever see the shimmering or stormy surface, you can't see what's happening under it. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"I'm a laid back and easygoing person, but assertive when required. I try to take people as I find them, preferring to judge them based on my interactions with them rather than hearsay through a third party. Often times my opinions on more serious matters run contrary to most as I certainly lean conservative but can agree to disagree with others.
I despise drama and give it a wide berth when possible but will confront it when there's no alternative.
I don't bring much to the forums nowadays besides the odd post and in the past my sketch threads were well received
I enjoyed your stretch threads xx"
Aww thanks Might do one again sometime. |
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I’m an easy going person, I dip in and out of the forums as I tend to avoid the drama seeking threads/people.
A lot of the times my views are ignored or bypassed but I guess that’s down to not having strong enough views on certain subjects. Plus I’m not an opinionated person…I’m happy to be swayed by others thoughts.
We are here to form friendships with likeminded people so the forums are good to get a good understanding of what people are about and their views.
I’m happy with my/our FAB journey and interactions
K |
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"Aham Brahmasmi!
Tat tvam asi x
In the words of they mystic Yoda....
is pretentious tongues to that others speak but not say
a bit of a contradiction in phrase here since if you understood Sanskrit, you will find he has spoken and therefore, cannot be accused of being pretentious since many of us even after being spoken to cannot always comprehend the wisdom being passed down to us (incl. me)
Google is your friend copy and paste to reveal the translation from Sanskrit to English...
Aham brahmasmi: “I'm the eternal part of the Supreme”
Having said this, piece meal info. should not be taken out of context and I do not have the intellect to understand Sanskrit due to not having studied it; but I do understand the importance of the Vedas."
I knew what it meant.
Google that to change it to Sanskrit if you want. |
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"Can you do this again in a few months please Granny? Right now what I think of me seems to be a bit of a confuddled mess and I don't seem to have the words.
I don't like much of me. But the bits I do, I really like. But even those bits I don't like some of the time. It's very head spinny."
I don't see why not.
See if anyone's changed in 6 months or still here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got given a work evaluation and also a job reference recently. I dont think I can live up to the idea that people seem to hold of me. I know things get embellished for references etc. I would always rather be played down and overdeliver than to dissapoint or not match expectations. I know I can do things, but dont like the pressure of being thought of being capable.
I like to waffle away on here, just let your thoughts ramble out. In real life I am more of a watcher in conversations and will stand back. |
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"It's all a bit deep
Today
My forum persona is
Me x
Well tell us the shallow bits about you then Yas.....
I don't do reveals either
I'm not shallow Granny x"
I said THE SHALLOW BITS
Stop being what ever it is you are being. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"It's all a bit deep
Today
My forum persona is
Me x
Well tell us the shallow bits about you then Yas.....
I don't do reveals either
I'm not shallow Granny x
I said THE SHALLOW BITS
Stop being what ever it is you are being. "
Why |
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"It's all a bit deep
Today
My forum persona is
Me x
Well tell us the shallow bits about you then Yas.....
I don't do reveals either
I'm not shallow Granny x
I said THE SHALLOW BITS
Stop being what ever it is you are being.
Why"
Y is a crooked letter as my Granny always said. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"It's all a bit deep
Today
My forum persona is
Me x
Well tell us the shallow bits about you then Yas.....
I don't do reveals either
I'm not shallow Granny x
I said THE SHALLOW BITS
Stop being what ever it is you are being.
Why
Y is a crooked letter as my Granny always said. "
Then listen to your Granny and go shoplifting |
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"It's all a bit deep
Today
My forum persona is
Me x
Well tell us the shallow bits about you then Yas.....
I don't do reveals either
I'm not shallow Granny x
I said THE SHALLOW BITS
Stop being what ever it is you are being.
Why
Y is a crooked letter as my Granny always said.
Then listen to your Granny and go shoplifting "
Again ? You go ..... |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"It's all a bit deep
Today
My forum persona is
Me x
Well tell us the shallow bits about you then Yas.....
I don't do reveals either
I'm not shallow Granny x
I said THE SHALLOW BITS
Stop being what ever it is you are being.
Why
Y is a crooked letter as my Granny always said.
Then listen to your Granny and go shoplifting
Again ? You go ..... "
Shall we go together? |
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All this naval gazing today is becoming infectious.
After much reflection, I’ve realised I’m probably perfection personified. Witty, charming and humble.
I’m glad we all had this little talk today. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"All this naval gazing today is becoming infectious.
After much reflection, I’ve realised I’m probably perfection personified. Witty, charming and humble.
I’m glad we all had this little talk today. "
You are xx
I agree x |
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Some like me and some don’t… I’m fine with that.. I am very protective of those I care for… I have a hatred for bullies and narcissists… I am
Sarcastic and can cross the line with humour but overall I like to help those that need it most. Except Narcissists and bullies… they can boil in oil . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I overthink things a lot instead letting things flow naturally because I'm so consumed with making the right choice first time.
I reflect a lot on what I can offer others and always come up blank because aside from work and going to the gym, I don't really allow myself much time to be better at offering things to others.
My mood fluctuates from annoyed, to cheerful, to just existing and I wish I could be better at not letting little things get to me if they aren't perfect or aren't in the right conditions that I want.
But there are positives. I have a stable career and loving family, I don't want for anything and I live comfortably. I have a full bill of health and can eat what I want and watch TV when I want to relax.
But yet, something just feels empty empty and not enough and I wish I could know how how to fulfil that sooner knowing that I have a long life ahead of me... |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Some like me and some don’t… I’m fine with that.. I am very protective of those I care for… I have a hatred for bullies and narcissists… I am
Sarcastic and can cross the line with humour but overall I like to help those that need it most. Except Narcissists and bullies… they can boil in oil . "
Chips? |
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"Self deprecating, body image issues - I am (I think) generous and altruistic, frequently putting myself out for no tangible gain
Body issues?
You look great x"
Thank you, but it's not what I see in the mirror  |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Self deprecating, body image issues - I am (I think) generous and altruistic, frequently putting myself out for no tangible gain
Body issues?
You look great x
Thank you, but it's not what I see in the mirror "
Can I ask what you see? |
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"Some like me and some don’t… I’m fine with that.. I am very protective of those I care for… I have a hatred for bullies and narcissists… I am
Sarcastic and can cross the line with humour but overall I like to help those that need it most. Except Narcissists and bullies… they can boil in oil .
Chips?"
Can’t compare them as I like chips |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Some like me and some don’t… I’m fine with that.. I am very protective of those I care for… I have a hatred for bullies and narcissists… I am
Sarcastic and can cross the line with humour but overall I like to help those that need it most. Except Narcissists and bullies… they can boil in oil .
Chips?
Can’t compare them as I like chips "
well you come across as lovely xx |
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over a year ago
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"I overthink things a lot instead letting things flow naturally because I'm so consumed with making the right choice first time.
I reflect a lot on what I can offer others and always come up blank because aside from work and going to the gym, I don't really allow myself much time to be better at offering things to others.
My mood fluctuates from annoyed, to cheerful, to just existing and I wish I could be better at not letting little things get to me if they aren't perfect or aren't in the right conditions that I want.
But there are positives. I have a stable career and loving family, I don't want for anything and I live comfortably. I have a full bill of health and can eat what I want and watch TV when I want to relax.
But yet, something just feels empty empty and not enough and I wish I could know how how to fulfil that sooner knowing that I have a long life ahead of me..."
That was very eloquent. I like how men share on Fab the way they may not elsewhere.
Good luck finding that missing piece, time is on your side. |
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"Some like me and some don’t… I’m fine with that.. I am very protective of those I care for… I have a hatred for bullies and narcissists… I am
Sarcastic and can cross the line with humour but overall I like to help those that need it most. Except Narcissists and bullies… they can boil in oil .
Chips?
Can’t compare them as I like chips well you come across as lovely xx"
That means a lot … thank you and ditto |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Some like me and some don’t… I’m fine with that.. I am very protective of those I care for… I have a hatred for bullies and narcissists… I am
Sarcastic and can cross the line with humour but overall I like to help those that need it most. Except Narcissists and bullies… they can boil in oil .
Chips?
Can’t compare them as I like chips well you come across as lovely xx
That means a lot … thank you and ditto "
Thanks tiger xxx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm pretty sure that lovely, however I lack confidence a lot of the time.
I give good advice, I tend to be quite blunt at times but I do that in real life too.
I try to be friendly and kind to everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I overthink things a lot instead letting things flow naturally because I'm so consumed with making the right choice first time.
I reflect a lot on what I can offer others and always come up blank because aside from work and going to the gym, I don't really allow myself much time to be better at offering things to others.
My mood fluctuates from annoyed, to cheerful, to just existing and I wish I could be better at not letting little things get to me if they aren't perfect or aren't in the right conditions that I want.
But there are positives. I have a stable career and loving family, I don't want for anything and I live comfortably. I have a full bill of health and can eat what I want and watch TV when I want to relax.
But yet, something just feels empty empty and not enough and I wish I could know how how to fulfil that sooner knowing that I have a long life ahead of me...
That was very eloquent. I like how men share on Fab the way they may not elsewhere.
Good luck finding that missing piece, time is on your side."
Thank you, I tend not to be that open about how I feel as people try to offer you solutions instead of just letting things be.
Hopefully more men can be open about themselves and how they feel as there is a catharsis to it  |
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I've been musing on this all day but haven't had a chance to put my thoughts together coherently.
My natural instinct is to be a fixer. I'm diplomatic, I look for the good in people, I try to help.
More recently I've come to see that that drive is as much about making myself feel good as it is about making others feel good. I don't think that's a bad thing, but it's been an interesting discovery.
These days on the forum I take more of a back seat. I'm still a diplomat and I still look for the good in people. I also enjoy a bit of flirting and witty wordplay, boosts the ego
Mrs TMN x |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
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I hope I’m a nice person I don’t really know I like to make everyone feel welcome. I’m deep and although I talk to everyone I let very few people see the real me, which when it doesn’t work out hurts. |
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"I hope I’m a nice person I don’t really know I like to make everyone feel welcome. I’m deep and although I talk to everyone I let very few people see the real me, which when it doesn’t work out hurts. "
Not an irish c**t then |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
Doire Theas |
"I hope I’m a nice person I don’t really know I like to make everyone feel welcome. I’m deep and although I talk to everyone I let very few people see the real me, which when it doesn’t work out hurts.
Not an irish c**t then "
Ohh aye I’m that too |
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"It's all a bit deep
Today
My forum persona is
Me x
Well tell us the shallow bits about you then Yas.....
I don't do reveals either
I'm not shallow Granny x
I said THE SHALLOW BITS
Stop being what ever it is you are being.
Why
Y is a crooked letter as my Granny always said.
Then listen to your Granny and go shoplifting
Again ? You go .....
Shall we go together?"
Yeah ...... I'm nicking crisps |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am honest and tell you like it is, don't mince what I say in life or on the forums, once you have me as a friend you have me. Loyal to a fault and caring, I have empathy and always try to see life from others perspectives. Piss me off and that's that, I'll cut you to the core and take no prisoners
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. That last bit gave me a right erection |
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"I’m difficult. I have walls and spikes that few get past. Those that do know I’m soft as anything underneath. I will not lie to curry favour and expect the same of everyone around me. I never mean to hurt or upset by my words but am aware my blunt nature could be misinterpreted. I’m just dark and dry.
I love fiercely and will do anything for those in my circle. But if you show me lack of respect that will hurt and I will cut you off for my own self preservation.
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I could of written that for myself….. but then you already know that I’m not everyone’s cup of tea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In the forum or off the forum.
What thoughts do you have about yourself ?
Do you match the expectations you have of others ?
What do you offer the forum and other users ?
Be self evaluating and honest. "
Shy, unconfident, very much the joker and always worried about being misunderstood. Get quite anxious and craves a regular cuddle  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think it would just depress me to answer these. Same with the other threads asking for feedback. I'd rather just plod along blissfully unaware of who likes/can't stand me or analysing myself. |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
Now in my mid-60s, I have accumulated a vast amount of experience and expertise, that I currently use to assist others less fortunate or advantaged than myself.
But as soon as Covid is finally gone, and the general mood of the populace improves, there are a few 'avenues' I intend to explore!   |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
London |
"I am me I offer bugger all and I'm not noticed.
I say what feel and believe and is frequently missed on threads despite posting for many many years.
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I see and read you. You’ve always been a consistent forum friend of mine. X |
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By *elsh-guyMan
over a year ago
The land of the Dragon and loads of sheep |
All I can say granny is I try to be the best person I can for my kids and learn from mistakes. Don't trust many people in this day and age but hey how that's life one day of dreaming to win the lottery other than that just someone who works a lot of hours to make his kids happy. |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
"I am me I offer bugger all and I'm not noticed.
I say what feel and believe and is frequently missed on threads despite posting for many many years.
I see and read you. You’ve always been a consistent forum friend of mine. X"
bless you, you are most kind x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am me I offer bugger all and I'm not noticed.
I say what feel and believe and is frequently missed on threads despite posting for many many years.
I see and read you. You’ve always been a consistent forum friend of mine. X
bless you, you are most kind x "
I often notice and enjoy your posts. |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
London |
I’m a bit lost as to who I am as I feel sometimes I come across with a persona that’s not reflective of how I view me - I’m my own worst enemy and am really harsh with myself which I’m working on as I really do believe you have to love yourself as no one else owes you that. I struggle with doing so though. And am often very afraid. But I care very much about other people and I like that about myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aham Brahmasmi!
Tat tvam asi x
In the words of they mystic Yoda....
is pretentious tongues to that others speak but not say
a bit of a contradiction in phrase here since if you understood Sanskrit, you will find he has spoken and therefore, cannot be accused of being pretentious since many of us even after being spoken to cannot always comprehend the wisdom being passed down to us (incl. me)
Google is your friend copy and paste to reveal the translation from Sanskrit to English...
Aham brahmasmi: “I'm the eternal part of the Supreme”
Having said this, piece meal info. should not be taken out of context and I do not have the intellect to understand Sanskrit due to not having studied it; but I do understand the importance of the Vedas.
I knew what it meant.
Google that to change it to Sanskrit if you want. "
Of course you did |
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