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over a year ago
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I'm not really keen on being called baby, babe, honey, darling, love, lovely, sweetie or any other such patronising rubbish. I ignore it, so it doesn't get my back up, but it's not something I appreciate. |
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"I'm not really keen on being called baby, babe, honey, darling, love, lovely, sweetie or any other such patronising rubbish. I ignore it, so it doesn't get my back up, but it's not something I appreciate."
Same for me  |
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I don't like being called any of them in messages from strangers. If I'm close to someone in real life then it's different as it's personal between us. I will admit to having a bad habit of calling people honey though and I don't know where I picked it up from !  |
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"I'm not really keen on being called baby, babe, honey, darling, love, lovely, sweetie or any other such patronising rubbish. I ignore it, so it doesn't get my back up, but it's not something I appreciate."
I think it's unfair to call it patronising, I always use terms of endearment to everyone and I'm not patronising them in any way, it is a part of my personality just like others who swear every other word which I wouldn't do.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not really keen on being called baby, babe, honey, darling, love, lovely, sweetie or any other such patronising rubbish. I ignore it, so it doesn't get my back up, but it's not something I appreciate.
I think it's unfair to call it patronising, I always use terms of endearment to everyone and I'm not patronising them in any way, it is a part of my personality just like others who swear every other word which I wouldn't do. "
It feels patronising to me. You may not mean it that way, but that's how it feels. |
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Very interesting,how should strangers address us?Madam is too formal,most women hate babe,hun,hunni,luv,chick and a whole host of others,with men you notice they call each other mate,pal,chum,geezer,mucka,i think its just a case of people being un-sure of the correct terms to use,even me |
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"I'm not really keen on being called baby, babe, honey, darling, love, lovely, sweetie or any other such patronising rubbish. I ignore it, so it doesn't get my back up, but it's not something I appreciate.
I think it's unfair to call it patronising, I always use terms of endearment to everyone and I'm not patronising them in any way, it is a part of my personality just like others who swear every other word which I wouldn't do. "
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"I'm not really keen on being called baby, babe, honey, darling, love, lovely, sweetie or any other such patronising rubbish. I ignore it, so it doesn't get my back up, but it's not something I appreciate.
I think it's unfair to call it patronising, I always use terms of endearment to everyone and I'm not patronising them in any way, it is a part of my personality just like others who swear every other word which I wouldn't do.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I shall never forgive my nearest and dearest for phoning my workplace at the time and asking if she could speak to her 'fluffy bundle'
I left there in 1997, but am still in touch with some of my colleagues and they call it me to this day ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If I know people, I don't mind hun or baby from my OH, but as said above I hate the darling, babes, babe, sugar, sweet, hunni, love but what I hate the most is people calling me Jules  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I know people, I don't mind hun or baby from my OH, but as said above I hate the darling, babes, babe, sugar, sweet, hunni, love but what I hate the most is people calling me Jules "
If I needed any more ammo!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I know people, I don't mind hun or baby from my OH, but as said above I hate the darling, babes, babe, sugar, sweet, hunni, love but what I hate the most is people calling me Jules
If I needed any more ammo!!! "
Hmm, just you try it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I know people, I don't mind hun or baby from my OH, but as said above I hate the darling, babes, babe, sugar, sweet, hunni, love but what I hate the most is people calling me Jules
If I needed any more ammo!!!
Hmm, just you try it "
I'm not that brave! Lol in fact I'm a bloody coward love |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i really don't mind what terms of endearment a friend uses but hate when strangers in chat call me babe, darling or hun but i do it to friends all the time but would never call someone i didn't know it xxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I know people, I don't mind hun or baby from my OH, but as said above I hate the darling, babes, babe, sugar, sweet, hunni, love but what I hate the most is people calling me Jules
If I needed any more ammo!!!
Hmm, just you try it
I'm not that brave! Lol in fact I'm a bloody coward love"
Ok mate  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love being called babe, baby, honey, chick, bird etc. I dont find it patronising at all. I especially live being called a filthy fucking slut, while I'm being fucked hard or made to choke on a nice cock xx |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"I love being called babe, baby, honey, chick, bird etc. I dont find it patronising at all. I especially live being called a filthy fucking slut, while I'm being fucked hard or made to choke on a nice cock xx"
Lol every day I'm chuckling  |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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I'm guilty of calling people doll, darling, hun, sweetcheeks, babes, love - all sorts of terms of endearment, often coupled with their name (assuming I remember it, which at my age and with the amount of drugs I take, it's not a given) e.g. "Hiya Dave *, me darling, how's you doing?" Just the way I am, so far no-one's ever said they've been offended by it, but if they did, I would take that on board and ensure I didn't call them anything after that other than their name (again, assuming I remember it)
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