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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have nothing against couples on here at all and this is not directed at all of the couples on here but does anyone else find that a lot of couples profiles tend to be run by the male half and a lot of public profile pictures are mainly of the guy from the couple, and it's normally the guy who messages? Just this morning about 80% of the couples who messaged me it was the guy who messaged and when looking at their profiles they were worded from the guy and 90% of the pictures were of the guy (mainly cock pictures).
Again this isn't directed at all couples, I have met and chatted to a few great couple from here x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some couples profiles the wife lives the jet set life saver life style
No matter how much compromise you try and do
The wife’s always on holiday or tending to a sick person or working 
But the male hafe is always free |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’re a couple on here and have noticed the same! And then the male half wants to meet us/me secretly!
We’re a married couple, it’s mostly me (the wife!) who messages and interacts so come say hi - hopefully we’re not all bad xx |
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We both use the profile, update it, we both chat on forums, we engage in chats.
But we have come across profiles where we only ever speak to one of the couple…
We quickly move on as if we can’t chat to both people, then we’ll never meet anyway…
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah definitely...also there seems to be pattern that for some reason the female half isn’t around right now. "
Oh yes, the excuses I have heard, she's in the bath,sleeping, gone out, one on holiday, I'm not saying people don't do these things but there is always some reason why she can't chat, and it's funny when it gets to the number exchange bit and it tends to be the males number that's given out too. |
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Yeah we find that. We get a lot of messages to meet just the guy from a profile where the lady is never available even thou they have verifications.
With us it’s very 50/50 which can be kinda confusing for folks who message sometime but would t have it any other way
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is funny because so often the complaint on here is couples photos are all of the woman and none of the man - this has to be the first thread I've seen making the opposite complaint.
I think there are fake couple profiles which are actually single men but I can honestly say the majority I look at are almost entirely full of female pics. This is actually an issue for us as her ladyship (understandably) isn't keen on blind dates.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We’re a couple on here and have noticed the same! And then the male half wants to meet us/me secretly!
We’re a married couple, it’s mostly me (the wife!) who messages and interacts so come say hi - hopefully we’re not all bad xx"
I get lots of messages from couples from the male half asking if they can meet me on my own, and a new ish one I have found lots of people use is that I would get a message asking to help in a fantasy and the fantasy normally ends up being about me meeting just the guy x |
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It’s always me (Mrs) who chats on here. If there is someone who is genuinely interested in meeting us both then we would move to Kik so it’s easier for everyone to be involved.
I think people have busy lives and sometimes one half of the couple isn’t into the site which is fair enough. As long as they are happy for the other one to be on here and chatting with people. As long as they have recent verifications which mentions them both so you know they are both involved.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We both use our profile.
It's almost always me (the wife) sending and replying to messages, updating our status and uploading pictures.
But yes, hear what you're saying it does tend to be the male half of the couple  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We’re a couple on here and have noticed the same! And then the male half wants to meet us/me secretly!
We’re a married couple, it’s mostly me (the wife!) who messages and interacts so come say hi - hopefully we’re not all bad xx
I get lots of messages from couples from the male half asking if they can meet me on my own, and a new ish one I have found lots of people use is that I would get a message asking to help in a fantasy and the fantasy normally ends up being about me meeting just the guy x"
It’s tricky, we do both meet alone too. But would always both see messages and can both interact/talk on the phone to prove we’re a couple who both know etc.
I guess sometimes it’s true…like us! However, we’re also approached by couple profiles who I just don’t believe! Always the man and he asks for it to be a secret! Just tell the truth!!  |
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We have to say we haven’t found this at all? Maybe as a single woman you might be getting messages from single men pretending to be a couple.
We have found and very guilty of it ourselves most photos are of the woman and only a few token photos of the man.
I G the male speak on the forums M does very occasionally, and messages are answered quite equally between ourselves depending which one of us is on. |
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No.
My finding are .... Thousands of pictures of a woman from every angle, external and internal .....
Pictures of her in undies, pictures of her outside, pictures of her arse hole, pictures of her getting jizzed on, pictures of her getting a roasting , pictures of her giving a blow job
and one pic of his bell end..... in grey...... from a distance...... |
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A couple contacts, she’s Bi he’s straight and I get asked if I’m meeting 
Then I ask why would ‘They’ want to meet me ? It’s then when I’m told it’s just the male half. Often the excuse is the partner will join in later after he’s met me. These meetings are never just socials either.
Now I only chat ti Bi couples at least I know it’s more likely they will be genuine. |
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Me Joe does the admin, it's more a secretarial role with Amy involved with all decision making as we did experience the issue described but tbh we hardly get many emails from couples these day as suspect everyone is still being cautious. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
We are a couple, but I use the site the most and am who people will talk to via messages. She prefers to engage with people in person but has messaged people if they want to speak with her either here, on kik or whatsapp. She has little interest in the forums.
Most of our photos are of her, with some other play mates and a few of me, but as we have specific tastes most of the photos that involve me cant be shown here.
I make no apologies about it, and respect those couples who do run their profiles together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a couple we would agree with what you say, when we receive mail it always says things like lucky guy or wow she's gorgeous to which I normally reply this is "she". Im the one who mainly use the site, mostly for the forum's however John does occasionally look at message xx |
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There's a lot of dubious couples accounts around for sure. However, the reason legitimate ones sometimes appear to be being run solely by the male is that whenever the female makes her presence known, the chat/messaging immediately turns dirty. We've virtually stopped using that chatrooms for that reason and will rarely confirm which of us is responding to messages.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find theyre mostly female pics and you can't always be sure but seems like it's the male messaging. That's on both my single and couples accounts.
But I have come across some that are clearly just a man, but not as often. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Don't get me wrong, I have also seen a few profiles where most of the photos are if the female half, but still I have found its mainly the male half that talks, I'm not being funny but if I was in a couple on here and decided to message a woman then I would be the one who would initially message as being a woman I know I prefer talking to a woman from a couple, especially when my profile states I'm mainly looking for potential play with other women. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"Don't get me wrong, I have also seen a few profiles where most of the photos are if the female half, but still I have found its mainly the male half that talks, I'm not being funny but if I was in a couple on here and decided to message a woman then I would be the one who would initially message as being a woman I know I prefer talking to a woman from a couple, especially when my profile states I'm mainly looking for potential play with other women."
But thats your preference.
Some women are happy to talk to the male half of the couple because thats (part of) what they are looking for.
If a profile gave off an indication that they only wanted to speak with or play with the Mrs then we wouldn't reach out as thats not what we are looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I suppose the same could be said about some single females on here who are supposedly single but when a meet is arranged a boyfriend or husband suddenly appears to come along and watch |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ours is 90% me chatting - it says it’s me right at the beginning of our words but we often get messages directed at Mr … it’s the first give away to me of ohhh you’ve read our profile well then lol
I’ve read the other replies and thought I’d add in this little corker … message said it was from a lady - asking if we’d like to share her man while she just watches. I mean … I suppose it could be true but I couldn’t help thinking there’s no Mrs  … or she’d be suddenly on holiday, sick, walking the hamster etc etc
Stupid thing is we do meet single men so why pretend to be a couple to us?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I suppose the same could be said about some single females on here who are supposedly single but when a meet is arranged a boyfriend or husband suddenly appears to come along and watch "
A lady asked to meet me alone (Mrs) … we were chatting a little bit then she said she’d be being brought to our meet by her man, as chaperone, to keep her safe etc etc. I thought ok, reasonable, so I said ok I’ll bring mine too … she never answered x |
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By *S2004Man
over a year ago
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"My best advice to guys would be:
Get permission/speak to the Mrs about what you intend to do, then set up a sole account.
Honesty is the best policy..."
Pretty much this. We have a couples account but don’t get as much free time together so use the single account too. For clubs etc we generally go together but I would normally message from my single account if we weren’t both available .x |
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"I have nothing against couples on here at all and this is not directed at all of the couples on here but does anyone else find that a lot of couples profiles tend to be run by the male half and a lot of public profile pictures are mainly of the guy from the couple, and it's normally the guy who messages? Just this morning about 80% of the couples who messaged me it was the guy who messaged and when looking at their profiles they were worded from the guy and 90% of the pictures were of the guy (mainly cock pictures).
Again this isn't directed at all couples, I have met and chatted to a few great couple from here x x"
It does seem to be the way tbh x and they always say what they'd do to me, completely disrespecting my husband and the information in our profile x
I'm the active one on here as I'm a chatterbox but hubs sees and reads everything and vice versa when he chats to another woman or couple x
Shame some ruin it for others x
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I’m a bit surprised. I tend to think that couples profiles seem to have more pictures of the female, although that could be that I interact with real couples and not Dave from Dagenham registered as Brad and Angelina.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe as I am a guy wanting to play with couples I don’t see this aspect very much.
There are a few guys who have a “ ghost “ couple profile and clearly are single and just after MM.
Overall I find it 50:50 M or F who chats |
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Its clear on our profile who is in the main responding to messages, but Mrs Shady does interact sometimes. She is the one in most photos as that's what we both have selected, not anything more than I am generally not that photo genic and getting good ones are pretty rare.
The couples profiles that get us are the ones where the woman is playing the starring role in the profile pic, only to be linked to a sole male account. It seems to be a thing recently that men are doing this as some form of click bait.
It wouldn't be a bad idea that photos for profile pics fit the demographic of the type of membership.
But that's our view and accept that may not be universally welcome here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We check messages together and reply together but I use it solo to hang around on the forums but I won't send messages for meets or socials on my own as to me it feels weird |
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"We’re a couple on here and have noticed the same! And then the male half wants to meet us/me secretly!
We’re a married couple, it’s mostly me (the wife!) who messages and interacts so come say hi - hopefully we’re not all bad xx"
We're the same. I'm the wife and hubby leaves most of the chatting to me |
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It does seem to be that way, but we are the total opposite. This profile is mainly driven by me, yes Mr fully reads all messages and we discuss everything in full but he always leaves the messaging to me.
We know a few other couples too that we have met where it's the female taking the lead. We do prefer it that way as I have met too many couples in the past where the female is only swinging for the man's benefit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We both read all the messages but I (Mrs) do 90% of the chatting and 100% on the forum. He occasionally joins in with messages but only if I prompt him, he trusts my judgements and can just sit back and perv whilst I do the leg work I know what we're both looking for but he has the final say on who we meet. |
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Depends what their preferences are surely?
Ours is pretty much run by me, that's because we look for straight men
There are mostly pics of me as my OH doesnt look for women
So, it really does depend
Jo x |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
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Maybe find real couples and not those pretending to be (or used to be) we have found lots of real couples on here where both chat and it’s usually myself AJ on here doing the chatting not Will |
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When we started here, my wife ran the account however after a couple of years all the fakes the wanna be's and the waste of time. Meant she handed over to me, 80% of the time she is in the room available she always checks the profile of those we are potentially going to meet. We vet the decision and both ladies tend to talk re meeting place and time. |
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We both use the account - both read messages and agree before we reply
I usually post the updates, but not always
Stag tends to use the forums and browse more than I do …
Stag tends to go on more than me - but I sometimes have a flurry of activity
Does it really matter as long as the couple are genuine and open with each other
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For some, it's extensively the female half who is very active engaving and organising everything, so that hubby doesn't have to do without sex, whilst she is away,or he's working out of area etc. It seems the opposite of the OP - the women are at the fore, whilst the men aren't able to be on fab, they're just busy earning enough to keep the missus happy. No wonder she organises the occasional woman to look after him. When another married woman asks me to kindly help her husband out, I feel it is my duty to, as every morally sound woman would 
Sometimes the hubby goes without too, as the wife is busy discussing her needs for ff lesbian exploration. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have a couples profile - and I (female ) mainly fo the messaging and stuff .
I’m more of a talker etc and need the social aspect than he does so it makes sense ! |
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We are a couple, but me ( the Mrs) does all the replying to messages and chatting in the south west chat room here. We have also been verified. We get annoyed with all the so called 'couples' here that actually turn out to be just the guy x |
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We are a real couple profile
I Lola, do most of the messaging however Link does chat too.
I agree that alot of couple profiles have more pics of just the woman and it would be great to see more of the men.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I (Doughnut) do the majority of the chatting purely because Danish is more on the shy side than I. We both sign off on forums when we post and explain early in pm that it's mostly Doughnut.
Danish however set up the profile and all photos get approved by her.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We both read all the messages but I (Mrs) do 90% of the chatting and 100% on the forum. He occasionally joins in with messages but only if I prompt him, he trusts my judgements and can just sit back and perv whilst I do the leg work I know what we're both looking for but he has the final say on who we meet. "
We are excatly the same |
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the opposite here!
this was my single profile originally,
hence the name...
then I got married, and added Hubby to it
but I hear what you say OP
many of the "couples" profiles seem to be just the "Hubby". 
I've heard situations where a couple meet was arranged and only a man turns up claiming "wifey" isn't well...
Best to use caution if you are doubtful. |
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"Yeah definitely...also there seems to be pattern that for some reason the female half isn’t around right now.
Oh yes, the excuses I have heard, she's in the bath,sleeping, gone out, one on holiday, I'm not saying people don't do these things but there is always some reason why she can't chat, and it's funny when it gets to the number exchange bit and it tends to be the males number that's given out too. "
To be fair with all the dreamers and wannabes on here would you want to give your wife's number out before you knew who you were giving it too? |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
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"No.
My finding are .... Thousands of pictures of a woman from every angle, external and internal .....
Pictures of her in undies, pictures of her outside, pictures of her arse hole, pictures of her getting jizzed on, pictures of her getting a roasting , pictures of her giving a blow job
and one pic of his bell end..... in grey...... from a distance...... "
This!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah definitely...also there seems to be pattern that for some reason the female half isn’t around right now. "
Had a few messages from supposed couples saying exactly this.
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We are a guide couple, check our veris.
L isn't one bit interested in anything to do with computers, so I do all that side of things. Once we find people we like she gets fully engaged and is always part of the messing/chatting process. When it comes to a phone call she is the one who does the talking( albeit on my number for safety reasons) and when we meet she is the most engaging person you could wish to meet.
We see this website as an way of making contacts that we might like to pursue in the real world. Yes there are loads of fakes on here and all the tales of the "wife is looking her mother" are thinly veiled lies but just because the guy does the computer work doesn't make them fake per se. |
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I'd have to disagree with the OP in that the majority of couples profiles don't show anything of the male half. A cock entering any one of the female's orifices doesn't count.
Just did a count of our 17 pics and 4 are of me, 1 of the both of us, and the rest are of Jane.
Our profile is written by me and approved by Jane, with some adjustments. She generally responds to the few single men she actually likes the look of and it's either of us when responding to couples, but mainly me.
No message is sent without the others approval though I'll often just leave her to it when it comes to single guys. It's me who sends the sarcastic replies to the single men who obviously haven't read our profile and the fake couple ones I find easy to spot.
You won't find her in the forums though, she thinks they're boring |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Before we privated we had 4 total public pictures 2 of us individually and kept all pictures of us together and face pictures in friends only as when searching through people we seen people we know so kept it and when we have established some what of a connection with some one tlwe add them and so on |
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We are a genuine couple the Mr does most of the talking, usually find he has been up to no good whilst I have been at work..lol.
We find lots of couples profiles have either one or no pictures of the male half which I would tend to scroll by as I like to see what others look like before wasting any one's time engaging in conversation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I mainly run our account, my husband works hard, he doesn't have time for fab 24/7. He will join a conversation I've already started once hes home. But sometimes that doesn't work to well either. As a lot of couples feel like I'm a unicorn and become quite disheartened once my husband does get round to saying "Hi" (even though it clearly states on our profile we only play as a couple)
You live & learn
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is funny because so often the complaint on here is couples photos are all of the woman and none of the man - this has to be the first thread I've seen making the opposite complaint.
I think there are fake couple profiles which are actually single men but I can honestly say the majority I look at are almost entirely full of female pics. This is actually an issue for us as her ladyship (understandably) isn't keen on blind dates.
Mr"
That is the usual complaint isn’t it. And I would say that when browsing “perving” profiles there is always a lack of male photos…If any at all. I would only message a profile with pictures of both parties |
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but in saying that there are many great couples out there im sure 