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So how do you lot get when you’re getting ready for a first meet? Nerves? Excited? Doubts?
Are the feelings the same if it’s a play meet or whether it’s a social?
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"Equal parts nervous and excited, with a small sprinkling of "what if they don't show up?"
LvM"
Why on earth would they not turn up for you … look at your profile t is absolutely stunning ![](/icons/s/twisted.gif) |
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"Nervous and excited x I’m pretty good with my nerves tho, usually I feel the more we spoke and created connection the more nervous I get tho!! X
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I absolutely love the feeling of nervous excitement.
You've ben chatting for a while, built up a connection & finally, the day has come to meet. Excitement tinged with a bit of nervousness. It's a better feeling than sex. Ok that's a lie ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"I absolutely love the feeling of nervous excitement.
You've ben chatting for a while, built up a connection & finally, the day has come to meet. Excitement tinged with a bit of nervousness. It's a better feeling than sex. Ok that's a lie "
It’s a great feeling indeed |
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"I always get nervous and excited.
First social I ever drove to I was nervous as hell and don't know how I didn't bottle it. So glad I didn't though. "
Just got to let the imagination of fun overpower the ‘oh shit’ |
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"Just excited…the nerves are already dealt with leading up to it.
Just a continuation of the chat but in real life and putting into practice the things you’ve wound each other up with…
K"
If the build up has been that good…. Then the real thing can only improve![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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The first meet is always a social and usually I only half expect them to show up, so I'm calm. If it goes beyond social - that's when the nerves, excitement, anticipation and all that kick in. |
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"Nervous….. I sometimes find small talk hard work…. And I find eye contact hard if I’m attracted
I am the same as you and I just wouldn't be able to stop staring.. at your eyes.. "
Your too kind xx |
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I’ve had meets for drinks, coffee and also meet at a hotel room with the door ajar.
I minute my nerves by having good communication with my date in the hours before the meet. |
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I’ve had meets for drinks, coffee and also meet at a hotel room with the door ajar.
I minimise my nerves by having good communication with my date in the hours before the meet. |
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"Nervous….. I sometimes find small talk hard work…. And I find eye contact hard if I’m attracted
I am the same as you and I just wouldn't be able to stop staring.. at your eyes..
Your too kind xx"
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"I absolutely love the feeling of nervous excitement.
You've ben chatting for a while, built up a connection & finally, the day has come to meet. Excitement tinged with a bit of nervousness. It's a better feeling than sex. Ok that's a lie "
Better than sex?? No way!! But all the chatting and chemistry raging around does make for better sex ![](/icons/s/twisted.gif) |
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"So how do you lot get when you’re getting ready for a first meet? Nerves? Excited? Doubts?
Are the feelings the same if it’s a play meet or whether it’s a social?
Intrigued by everyone’s thoughts "
I think some nerves are good. It means you care about the impression you are going to make.
A mixture of above!
But positive mainly. If things feel easy and flowing it should all be good. Right? I hope so anyway.
Nice outfit is half of a success as if I feel good that'd a great foundation. |
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"A mixture of everything. Just love the build up to a social or a meet..
The sexting Just before really gets .y heart racing "
Mmm yes more building …. Get them ready to jump
You with the pre sexting![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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"The first meet is always a social and usually I only half expect them to show up, so I'm calm. If it goes beyond social - that's when the nerves, excitement, anticipation and all that kick in."
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"Mostly excited, with a dash of nerves and a few lag minute butterflies…
I wouldn’t want it any other way "
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"So how do you lot get when you’re getting ready for a first meet? Nerves? Excited? Doubts?
Are the feelings the same if it’s a play meet or whether it’s a social?
Intrigued by everyone’s thoughts
I think some nerves are good. It means you care about the impression you are going to make.
A mixture of above!
But positive mainly. If things feel easy and flowing it should all be good. Right? I hope so anyway.
Nice outfit is half of a success as if I feel good that'd a great foundation. "
Yes I agree nerves are great …. And if it’s easy & flowing that is walls already broken down which is good to then explore ![](/icons/s/twisted.gif) |
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"I absolutely love the feeling of nervous excitement.
You've ben chatting for a while, built up a connection & finally, the day has come to meet. Excitement tinged with a bit of nervousness. It's a better feeling than sex. Ok that's a lie
Better than sex?? No way!! But all the chatting and chemistry raging around does make for better sex "
All that built up sexual tension, suddenly going off like a champagne cork ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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Don't usually get nervous, long done putting the pressure on myself and I get such a buzz out of getting ready I tend not too. It is not until I am at the venue I think shit lol, then I think "meh, take me or leave me"
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"So how do you lot get when you’re getting ready for a first meet? Nerves? Excited? Doubts?
Are the feelings the same if it’s a play meet or whether it’s a social?
Intrigued by everyone’s thoughts
I think some nerves are good. It means you care about the impression you are going to make.
A mixture of above!
But positive mainly. If things feel easy and flowing it should all be good. Right? I hope so anyway.
Nice outfit is half of a success as if I feel good that'd a great foundation.
Yes I agree nerves are great …. And if it’s easy & flowing that is walls already broken down which is good to then explore "
Well I should hope so! there is much to explore before I turn into dust and no better day than today ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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"So how do you lot get when you’re getting ready for a first meet? Nerves? Excited? Doubts?
Are the feelings the same if it’s a play meet or whether it’s a social?
Intrigued by everyone’s thoughts
I think some nerves are good. It means you care about the impression you are going to make.
A mixture of above!
But positive mainly. If things feel easy and flowing it should all be good. Right? I hope so anyway.
Nice outfit is half of a success as if I feel good that'd a great foundation.
Yes I agree nerves are great …. And if it’s easy & flowing that is walls already broken down which is good to then explore
Well I should hope so! there is much to explore before I turn into dust and no better day than today "
Is that an invite haha![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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