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over a year ago
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My _iew is that even if a guy prefers slim women but gets the chance to shag a over weight one then he will shag her just for the shag, but since women have all the choice as their out numbered 1000000 to 1 they can still get meets sticking to what they like best with no problems. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My _iew is that even if a guy prefers slim women but gets the chance to shag a over weight one then he will shag her just for the shag, but since women have all the choice as their out numbered 1000000 to 1 they can still get meets sticking to what they like best with no problems."
Some women like us some dont - the world would be boring if we all liked the same thing
and for the record - some men will have sex with women they don't find attractive, but please don't assume we are all that way inclined - No way would I have sex with someone for the sake of a shag - I can have a better time wanking then fucking someone who im not turned on by! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No way would I have sex with someone for the sake of a shag - I can have a better time wanking then fucking someone who im not turned on by!"
Ditto. I can't even get a gallop on for someone I don't fancy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The only difference is time - yes women have their pick of guys so they can get meets with their ideal partners quicker - but guys willing to wait to find the right woman to play with will get there.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Strange how guys enjoy the bigger ladies, but do women enjoy the bigger guy.
Discuss
Come on guys one word answers just won't do"
Guys? Confused now, thought you wanted ladies to comment  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am a larger guy and have encountered no probs with my meets. I have pics of face and full length that people can see when we chat and they can decide then.
One thing is that the women on here ARE outnumbered and they predominantly have the choice to be picky. There is always a willing male to satisfy ANY shape or size woman whereas guys can tend to be overlooked.
In life we are told never judge a book by its cover. On FAB unfortunately a LOT of the time women DO NOT look past the cover and are actually missing out on a potential good time!!
Still each to their own x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In life we are told never judge a book by its cover. On FAB unfortunately a LOT of the time women DO NOT look past the cover and are actually missing out on a potential good time!!
Still each to their own x"
Nail struck on Head Sir
Although in the same vain as the OPs question - you shouldn't need to look past anything to get what you want - the trick is being the whole package for someone
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" On FAB unfortunately a LOT of the time women DO NOT look past the cover and are actually missing out on a potential good time!!
Still each to their own x"
So the women on Fab should meet with guys they find less than attractive ?
I'm a big lad but I prefer to meet people who actually do appreciate meeting larger guys, rather than attempting to convince those that don't that they are somehow missing out.
When I meet, I would like it to be with someone who WANTS to be there, not someone who is 50/50 and just 'giving it a try' |
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I was answering the question at beginning..I guess we cant help what we like, I have always liked younger tall and fit..for instance 6' and no more than 13 stone ok 13.5 at a push. lol  Just not into chunky thats all sorry |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am a larger guy and have encountered no probs with my meets. I have pics of face and full length that people can see when we chat and they can decide then.
One thing is that the women on here ARE outnumbered and they predominantly have the choice to be picky. There is always a willing male to satisfy ANY shape or size woman whereas guys can tend to be overlooked.
In life we are told never judge a book by its cover. On FAB unfortunately a LOT of the time women DO NOT look past the cover and are actually missing out on a potential good time!!
Still each to their own x"
For me that is not the case, I do not judge anyone, of any size.
But personally I am petite, and therefore I think of the practicalities of size differences with playmates and when it comes down to the nitty gritty, I don't want to be squashed!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" On FAB unfortunately a LOT of the time women DO NOT look past the cover and are actually missing out on a potential good time!!
Still each to their own x
So the women on Fab should meet with guys they find less than attractive ?
I'm a big lad but I prefer to meet people who actually do appreciate meeting larger guys, rather than attempting to convince those that don't that they are somehow missing out.
When I meet, I would like it to be with someone who WANTS to be there, not someone who is 50/50 and just 'giving it a try' "
That wasn't my interpretation at all...
I like to have fun with guys I like as a person - don't particulary care what sort of body they have, it's the inside that counts.
I have a little group of regulars I see who range from the very skinny, though muscle toned to very large and cuddly. Love them all!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But personally I am petite, and therefore I think of the practicalities of size differences with playmates and when it comes down to the nitty gritty, I don't want to be squashed!
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Lol I have the opposite problem and used to worry about breaking some of the little guys! Haven't managed it so far and not had any complaints even when they beg for me to be on top! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But personally I am petite, and therefore I think of the practicalities of size differences with playmates and when it comes down to the nitty gritty, I don't want to be squashed!
Lol I have the opposite problem and used to worry about breaking some of the little guys! Haven't managed it so far and not had any complaints even when they beg for me to be on top!"
Lol! Maybe I should man up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" On FAB unfortunately a LOT of the time women DO NOT look past the cover and are actually missing out on a potential good time!!
Still each to their own x
So the women on Fab should meet with guys they find less than attractive ?
I'm a big lad but I prefer to meet people who actually do appreciate meeting larger guys, rather than attempting to convince those that don't that they are somehow missing out.
When I meet, I would like it to be with someone who WANTS to be there, not someone who is 50/50 and just 'giving it a try'
That wasn't my interpretation at all...
I like to have fun with guys I like as a person - don't particulary care what sort of body they have, it's the inside that counts.
I have a little group of regulars I see who range from the very skinny, though muscle toned to very large and cuddly. Love them all! "
but that is fair enough
like you i have wide sexual tastes that embrace both sexes and a variety of ages, shapes and builds
that is not to say i would shag anyone and anything cos that is actually far from being the case
however, what i understood the comment to mean was that those who have a specific idea of what they find physically attractive to be are somehow missing out.
if they have a preference for a particular physique then go for it - i don't feel that they are missing out.
i wouldn't hop into bed with someone i didn't find attractive and i wouldn't wish anyone else to bed me just to check out big guys and if they really missing something. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As humans and individuals we all have tastes. I get that. But sometimes we pigeon-hole people far too easily where a little bit of compromise could end up with you finding exactly what you want in a place where you may not have thought possible. |
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I was answering the question at beginning..I guess we cant help what we like, I have always liked younger tall and fit..for instance 6' and no more than 13 stone ok 13.5 at a push. lol Just not into chunky thats all sorry"
Forgive me Cinn, but that has made me smile this morning.
I kinda imagined you having guys walking over a scale like a weigh bridge with a measure on the wall to see if they pass the test to get to play with you.
I know thats not what you meant but it certainly made me smile. ..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a big guy, with a big........ Personality.
Sometimes the good hings that can attract a person can be overlooked, because on here it can be tough to truly reflect yourself.
I would say most people who meet me would say genuinely nice guy, charming, easy going and nice eyes. All things that can make you more attractive.
But those who pass me by on here, I don't care about, as I'm having plenty of fun anyway.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a big guy, with a big........ Personality.
Sometimes the good hings that can attract a person can be overlooked, because on here it can be tough to truly reflect yourself.
I would say most people who meet me would say genuinely nice guy, charming, easy going and nice eyes. All things that can make you more attractive.
But those who pass me by on here, I don't care about, as I'm having plenty of fun anyway. "
Much respect |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Strange how guys enjoy the bigger ladies, but do women enjoy the bigger guy.
Discuss
Come on guys one word answers just won't do
Guys? Confused now, thought you wanted ladies to comment "
OK Guys and Gals |
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It's not the size of the persons body more the size of the persons personality that we would initially go for.
But, saying that, if it all equal on personality and a choice between skinny or chunky then chunky would win every time!
Mrs BB x x |
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"The only difference is time - yes women have their pick of guys so they can get meets with their ideal partners quicker - but guys willing to wait to find the right woman to play with will get there.
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I hope you're right there. I've turned down around 10 so far.... haven't fancied any of them!! The ones I do, aren't interested.
I'm in it for the long haul though. |
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We have played with both slim and well built guys. I have to say i do prefer the guys well built but its not a must before we play with them. First and foremost its personality that counts, couldn't be having fun with a dull person 
Mrs XL xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"couldn't be having fun with a dull person
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It's double the work then - not only do you have to spin your own plate, you have to keep theirs spinning too 
Sometimes all you want to do is enjoy yourself (not in a selfish way, but in an easy and relaxed way!) 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's not the size of the persons body more the size of the persons personality that we would initially go for.
But, saying that, if it all equal on personality and a choice between skinny or chunky then chunky would win every time!
Mrs BB x x"
Damn Skippy I would!
Thank you Mrs BB  |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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I personally prefer big guys, but have been with slimmer guys. It's about the whole package at the end of the day. When we are out and about, I would always be drawn to look at a big guy before a small guy. Just my preference! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer a guy to have broad shoulders, big chest etc and if that makes him chunky then so be it.
Surely its the same as some men being attracted to curvier women or women who have a more ample behind.
It doesn't however, say that I won't go with a guy who's not "chunky" its just my personal preference. Big shoulders and chest do it for me!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer a guy to have broad shoulders, big chest etc and if that makes him chunky then so be it.
Surely its the same as some men being attracted to curvier women or women who have a more ample behind.
It doesn't however, say that I won't go with a guy who's not "chunky" its just my personal preference. Big shoulders and chest do it for me!!!
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OH I am so in there......
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer a guy to have broad shoulders, big chest etc and if that makes him chunky then so be it.
Surely its the same as some men being attracted to curvier women or women who have a more ample behind.
It doesn't however, say that I won't go with a guy who's not "chunky" its just my personal preference. Big shoulders and chest do it for me!!!
OH I am so in there......
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I'd say you stand a good chance! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As it says in my profile only big overweight guys do it for me. Shallow as that may be I virtually never see a slim or average man and think Mmmm.
I love big chests, arms and bellies 
Always been this way even when I was slim. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Big guys are always better, provided they are not users and liarsIsnt that true for anybody - no reason to assume bigger guys have a higher proportion of liars, surely not? lol"
Bit controversial lol
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