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Sympathy shag.............?
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
I'd think I would be able to recognise if the person is genuinely attracted to me and wants to act on that attraction rather than be compelled to out of some sense of solidarity.
Personally it's never happened as far as I could tell and I wouldn't be comfortable proceeding if I wasn't sure the person was 100% keen. |
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"If you thought someone was offering you a shag out of sympathy what would you?
Try and get them to admit it
Shag them anyway
Or....?
Are they hot?"
This and also, how horny am I?
If I'm. Horny and want to fuck I don't really care if I think they're throwing me a sympathy fuck, I'll use them if they're willing to lower their standards to get their dick wet  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you thought someone was offering you a shag out of sympathy what would you?
Try and get them to admit it
Shag them anyway
Or....?
Are they hot?"
Medium but with a bored face  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd think I would be able to recognise if the person is genuinely attracted to me and wants to act on that attraction rather than be compelled to out of some sense of solidarity.
Personally it's never happened as far as I could tell and I wouldn't be comfortable proceeding if I wasn't sure the person was 100% keen."
Yeah it's a strange feeling. Grey apathy. I'm probably reflecting that back at them though. (Big sigh) |
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And when you climb into your bed tonight, And when you lock and bolt the door, Just think of those out in the cold and dark, 'Cause there's not enough love to go 'round
And sympathy is what we need my friend, And sympathy is what we need, And sympathy is what we need my friend, 'Cause there's not enough love to go 'round, No there's not enough love to go 'round
Now half the world hates the other half, And half the world has all the food, And half the world lies down and quietly starves, 'Cause there's not enough love to go 'round
And sympathy is what we need my friend, And sympathy is what we need, And sympathy is what we need my friend, 'Cause there's not enough love to go 'round, No there's not enough love to go 'round
(Sympathy, Rare Bird, 1969)
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I could be hornier than a d*unk nun, and I still wouldn’t accept a sympathy shag under any circumstances. Think of the self-respect!"
I have no self respect. B&M sold out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bittersweet Sympathy 
Good tune 
Oh yeh, love this tune... Let's play it whilst we shag although now's not convenient, I'm busy
You've got some Verve "
Hahhaha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you thought someone was offering you a shag out of sympathy what would you?
Try and get them to admit it
Shag them anyway
Or....?"
Sorry...when you offered i thought it was a joke! Oh go on then lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont know. Are they trying to cheer you up, and do you need cheering up in which case you could make it fun somehow and just enjoy it for what it was. Do they think you are just desperate for sex, in which case I may not bother, I mean they would have to like and be a bit keen themselves to be able to perform as it were but maybe just do something else more wholesome with them in the time you would have been shagging instead  |
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"I'd think I would be able to recognise if the person is genuinely attracted to me and wants to act on that attraction rather than be compelled to out of some sense of solidarity.
Personally it's never happened as far as I could tell and I wouldn't be comfortable proceeding if I wasn't sure the person was 100% keen.
Yeah it's a strange feeling. Grey apathy. I'm probably reflecting that back at them though. (Big sigh)"
I’m taking from your comments that this is an offer you’ve received? To be honest I’m not sure how I’d feel about it. A small part of me is “well, at least I get to shag them” but then again I’d struggle to get into it if they weren’t into it. |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
"Bittersweet Sympathy
Good tune
Oh yeh, love this tune... Let's play it whilst we shag although now's not convenient, I'm busy
You've got some Verve "
That's because the drugs don't work.... |
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"I can't imagine getting particularly turned on if I were aware someone is going to shag me out of sympathy
I think if need to re-evaluate quite a lot! "
So true! Not flattering but each to their own.   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I dont know. Are they trying to cheer you up, and do you need cheering up in which case you could make it fun somehow and just enjoy it for what it was. Do they think you are just desperate for sex, in which case I may not bother, I mean they would have to like and be a bit keen themselves to be able to perform as it were but maybe just do something else more wholesome with them in the time you would have been shagging instead "
Hmm good points there. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What the hell is a sympathy shag??"
When someone offers a shag because they think you need it but they don't really want to.
Like eating the coconut chocolates out of the tin. Pretty yuck but better than nothing...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What the hell is a sympathy shag??
When someone offers a shag because they think you need it but they don't really want to.
Like eating the coconut chocolates out of the tin. Pretty yuck but better than nothing... "
My opinions of you have slightly changed after that coconut chocolates comment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone who will remain nameless, as he's still on the site, said to me he wanted a sympathy shag because he was diagnosed with cancer. I said no and left it at that x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone who will remain nameless, as he's still on the site, said to me he wanted a sympathy shag because he was diagnosed with cancer. I said no and left it at that x"
Fuckin hell |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone who will remain nameless, as he's still on the site, said to me he wanted a sympathy shag because he was diagnosed with cancer. I said no and left it at that x
Fuckin hell"
Yip that's what I said to myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone who will remain nameless, as he's still on the site, said to me he wanted a sympathy shag because he was diagnosed with cancer. I said no and left it at that x
Fuckin hell
Yip that's what I said to myself "
well I only have a few weeks left, fancy it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone who will remain nameless, as he's still on the site, said to me he wanted a sympathy shag because he was diagnosed with cancer. I said no and left it at that x
What an absolute bell end  "
To this day, I don't know if he was actually telling the truth or not x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone who will remain nameless, as he's still on the site, said to me he wanted a sympathy shag because he was diagnosed with cancer. I said no and left it at that x
What an absolute bell end
To this day, I don't know if he was actually telling the truth or not x"
IS he still on here? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What the hell is a sympathy shag??
When someone offers a shag because they think you need it but they don't really want to.
Like eating the coconut chocolates out of the tin. Pretty yuck but better than nothing...
My opinions of you have slightly changed after that coconut chocolates comment "
For the better I hope!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you thought someone was offering you a shag out of sympathy what would you?
Try and get them to admit it
Shag them anyway
Or....?"
Do ppl really do sympathy shags?
I always thought it was something men say as an excuse because they couldn't get any better |
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By *tew008Man
over a year ago
edinburgh |
"Someone who will remain nameless, as he's still on the site, said to me he wanted a sympathy shag because he was diagnosed with cancer. I said no and left it at that x"
Self diagnosed blue balls, I’ve only a month left  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My mrs is thinking just that
My friend is in a no sex marriage and hes desperate fo a bit of attention .we have been discussing my mrs fuck him every now n then just as we feel sorry for him "
The vicar will be proud of you.  |
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By *ld GreyMan
over a year ago
Aintree / blackpool |
"I can't even get a sympathy shag these days. I'd kill for pity shag Two years without a proper shag "
You think two years me it's 5 split with ex 5 years ago I couldn't even get a brass. Hahaha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Gosh I would take a sympathy shag so ling as there was some reciprocation in the loving"
What if she keeps her eyes closed the whole time and has a bit of a frown? |
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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago
Sheffield |
I mean, I know most of us are having a bit of a laugh here but it's tears of a clown in a lot of cases I think. It's nice to have sex with someone for all manner of reasons and benefits. I'm a very passionate and sexual person and it's actually quite upsetting if I think about it too long |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I mean, I know most of us are having a bit of a laugh here but it's tears of a clown in a lot of cases I think. It's nice to have sex with someone for all manner of reasons and benefits. I'm a very passionate and sexual person and it's actually quite upsetting if I think about it too long"
What is upsetting? |
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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago
Sheffield |
"I mean, I know most of us are having a bit of a laugh here but it's tears of a clown in a lot of cases I think. It's nice to have sex with someone for all manner of reasons and benefits. I'm a very passionate and sexual person and it's actually quite upsetting if I think about it too long
What is upsetting? "
The lack of intimacy really. The lack of physical contact. I did get a handjob and I actually cried it was so overwhelming. Oh well, I'm a sensitive soul. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I mean, I know most of us are having a bit of a laugh here but it's tears of a clown in a lot of cases I think. It's nice to have sex with someone for all manner of reasons and benefits. I'm a very passionate and sexual person and it's actually quite upsetting if I think about it too long
What is upsetting?
The lack of intimacy really. The lack of physical contact. I did get a handjob and I actually cried it was so overwhelming. Oh well, I'm a sensitive soul."
Hope it was a happy cry.  |
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"My mrs is thinking just that
My friend is in a no sex marriage and hes desperate fo a bit of attention .we have been discussing my mrs fuck him every now n then just as we feel sorry for him "
Fuck I hope this is me |
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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago
Sheffield |
"I mean, I know most of us are having a bit of a laugh here but it's tears of a clown in a lot of cases I think. It's nice to have sex with someone for all manner of reasons and benefits. I'm a very passionate and sexual person and it's actually quite upsetting if I think about it too long
What is upsetting?
The lack of intimacy really. The lack of physical contact. I did get a handjob and I actually cried it was so overwhelming. Oh well, I'm a sensitive soul.
Hope it was a happy cry. "
Not really |
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