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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you think others want you to feel stable or vulnerable on here?
Answer either way.
OR express yourselves in the way that you choose relative to the question.
It's a first impression question that may have further depth.
Other contributors are not unwelcome. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think that's a risky question to ask. If you let people know you are vulnerable. You're letting people know that you are uncertain about the situation and they could take advantage. I'm not saying everybody is like that, but there's a risk. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think that's a risky question to ask. If you let people know you are vulnerable. You're letting people know that you are uncertain about the situation and they could take advantage. I'm not saying everybody is like that, but there's a risk. "
 My friend..you are on point! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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And also, if you're stable, this attracts vulnerable people. And they often get too clingy, looking for help and sometimes you're not prepared or professional to help them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"And also, if you're stable, this attracts vulnerable people. And they often get too clingy, looking for help and sometimes you're not prepared or professional to help them."
That's an interesting consideration. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"And also, if you're stable, this attracts vulnerable people. And they often get too clingy, looking for help and sometimes you're not prepared or professional to help them. That's an interesting consideration."
How deep are we single men expected to get into another's pysche on here? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think that's a risky question to ask. If you let people know you are vulnerable. You're letting people know that you are uncertain about the situation and they could take advantage. I'm not saying everybody is like that, but there's a risk. My friend..you are on point!
[/ quote] I'm not sure if you're taking the piss or being genuine there. That's one disadvantage of having Aspergers."
No pisstake. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This isn’t a personality profiling site. I feel you’re thinking too deeply! ??"
I can see your point about it not being a personality profiling site..BUT I am also aware that according to personal regularity in use of site much is encountered.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"And also, if you're stable, this attracts vulnerable people. And they often get too clingy, looking for help and sometimes you're not prepared or professional to help them. That's an interesting consideration. How deep are we single men expected to get into another's pysche on here?"
There often are those who seem to require us to have a deeper understanding of them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"'Never let them know what bothers you' - Jack Nicholson "
I think that is a very true thing.
Not for the genuine amongst us but for the manipulative. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"'Never let them know what bothers you' - Jack Nicholson I think that is a very true thing.
Not for the genuine amongst us but for the manipulative."
Because I think there are many that don't give a sh*t how stable you are..they prefer you vulnerable..easier to manipulate. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"'Never let them know what bothers you' - Jack Nicholson I think that is a very true thing.
Not for the genuine amongst us but for the manipulative. Because I think there are many that don't give a sh*t how stable you are..they prefer you vulnerable..easier to manipulate."
Sounds creepy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"'Never let them know what bothers you' - Jack Nicholson I think that is a very true thing.
Not for the genuine amongst us but for the manipulative. Because I think there are many that don't give a sh*t how stable you are..they prefer you vulnerable..easier to manipulate.
Sounds creepy "
Manipulation is creepy. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Oh Huey what are you asking?? We are having a conversation.
About Stability and Vulnerability."
Well one has to get to know the person to see if they are vulnerable or stable darling what you asking is really
About individuals |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"'Never let them know what bothers you' - Jack Nicholson I think that is a very true thing.
Not for the genuine amongst us but for the manipulative. Because I think there are many that don't give a sh*t how stable you are..they prefer you vulnerable..easier to manipulate.
Sounds creepy Manipulation is creepy."
Then keep your guard up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Whilst Fab can be supportive... I avoid sharing anything very personal or that would make me vulnerable online.
People can be unpleasant..."
Lots of people take a great deal of pleasure in being unpleasant...
Some just do it by accident because, well...they're unpleasant
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Whilst Fab can be supportive... I avoid sharing anything very personal or that would make me vulnerable online.
People can be unpleasant..."
I understand that totally..it can be very supportive..but. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Whilst Fab can be supportive... I avoid sharing anything very personal or that would make me vulnerable online.
People can be unpleasant... I understand that totally..it can be very supportive..but."
I don't share anything that would make (me) feel vulnerable online either. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Whilst Fab can be supportive... I avoid sharing anything very personal or that would make me vulnerable online.
People can be unpleasant...
Lots of people take a great deal of pleasure in being unpleasant...
Some just do it by accident because, well...they're unpleasant
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Can a person really be accidently unpleasant?
Unpleasantness is unpleasantness..a person may have to apologise for getting it wrong..but they were unpleasant. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Oh Huey what are you asking?? We are having a conversation.
About Stability and Vulnerability.
Well one has to get to know the person to see if they are vulnerable or stable darling what you asking is really
About individuals "
Individuals can come into it but is not limited to that. |
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