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Work buddy dilemma

By *immyKnowels OP Man over a year ago

St Austell/Truro

So there is a guy i work with, he is on my shift and ive seen him on here with his wife, i really want to say to him ive seen him on here as id love to fuck his wife but is it in your experience better to just to keep my mouth shut and say nothing and carry on like i dont know? Anyone had any experience with this?

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By *offiaCoolWoman over a year ago

Kidsgrove

You have really not considered what could happen if this goes wrong and you have to carry on working together ?

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By *ollydoesWoman over a year ago

Shangri-La

Don't shit on your own door step

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn’t say anything especially when you work with him… but that’s up to you. Just think what could go wrong…

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By *hilloutMan over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Why you'd even consider this possibility is beyond me

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By *offiaCoolWoman over a year ago

Kidsgrove

And if you expose yourself at work as being on here, there is a risk of people telling your wife.

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By *immyKnowels OP Man over a year ago

St Austell/Truro

This is true!

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By *heOriginalLoisWoman over a year ago

London

I would suggest one of the best things to do is block his profile. No temptation then to go down a very slippery slope.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s great that you’d love to fuck his wife but don’t you think he and, more importantly, she may have an opinion on that which don’t match yours?

Just because people have a profile doesn’t mean youl be getting to ride them buddy.

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By *immyKnowels OP Man over a year ago

St Austell/Truro

Ha ha yeah i totally get that im not a dick but a chance would be a good thing lol

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By *offiaCoolWoman over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"It’s great that you’d love to fuck his wife but don’t you think he and, more importantly, she may have an opinion on that which don’t match yours?

Just because people have a profile doesn’t mean youl be getting to ride them buddy. "

I don't think he was suggesting that it was a sure thing if he offered himself. The question was should he approach the man at work and ask him if he could have sex with his wife, as he had seen their profile on here.

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By *offiaCoolWoman over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"Ha ha yeah i totally get that im not a dick but a chance would be a good thing lol"

Click 'reply and quote', then we know who you are responding to

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By *issmorganWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'd leave it well alone

Especially since you're married too, could go really wrong

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By *immyKnowels OP Man over a year ago

St Austell/Truro

"Ha ha yeah i totally get that im not a dick but a chance would be a good thing lol

Click 'reply and quote', then we know who you are responding to

Ahh cool thanks, new to this ha ha xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Message them m8. If they were that bothered about someone seeing them they wouldn't have their pics on

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Discretion is a great thing. It's better to block and forget, where you have connections outside of here.

Thousands of other people to get to know. Work at it

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By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

Best say nothing had a young guy from work (21) few weeks back message me here saying he has seen me here do I recognise him? Alot work there different shifts asked if I would meet which I said no to as for 1 he far to young and 2 I would not meet someone from work even though we dont work together! And now it's very awkward when I see him all be it rarely our paths cross x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Work and fab don’t mix to much problems

If it gose wrong one off you are going to need to change jobs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Message them m8. If they were that bothered about someone seeing them they wouldn't have their pics on

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By *unloversCouple over a year ago

rotherham

Do u really want to risk losing your job

Can’t u just admire the wife from afar and keep your gob shut

She might not even fancy you

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By *inAndTonic21Couple over a year ago

Merseyside

I wouldn’t in the event it affects your work and personal life. Best to block and pretend it did happen

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are here seeking to meet, because we want to keep certain boundaries.

We don't want to play with people in our every day life, be that friends, friends of friends, neighbours, workmates or people we see regular ish, kids friends parents etc.

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

Could you chat to him and bring the conversation round to swinging without mentioning you have seen him on here?

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By *anae21Woman over a year ago

Nearer than you think

I'd block and ignore. Keep work and play separate.

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By *immyKnowels OP Man over a year ago

St Austell/Truro

"Could you chat to him and bring the conversation round to swinging without mentioning you have seen him on here?"

I was thinking that, but i dont think he would be that forward lol

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