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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Had a bloke messaging a few times, seemed ok, got to talking re preferences and what we are into.
We said mmf, the guy was  but I am straight.
He said I like MFM, not mmf...
We replied, hmm yes they are the same!
However looking on the net, it appears it can be considered mmf to be a bi threesome
Would you consider them the same or is it lingo we are not aware of? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ive heard it a few times that MMF is bi men and by putting the female in the middle ie MFM thats straight guys 
thought it all sounds daft to me i do think thats the new in thing lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hear MMF is a bi version  "
That is funny, all the time we have been saying to blokes we like mmf and they haven't batted an eyelid! And yes I am talking about "straight" men haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We changed the way we asked for MFM because we kept getting asked for MMF from bi men who thought thats what we were asking for.
So it seemed, MFM is straight, MMF is bi."
I saw your sneaky guess 
But yes I think we need to have a codebook for swinging terms to cover all options |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always assumed it was the same thing 2 males plus 1 female how you arrange them is up to the people concerned.You could have a mmf where 1 male will watch most of the time and the other will do most of the work but that could still be considered a mmf. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"so does that mean you cant have a straight FMMM? cause no matter where you out the F theres till two M's touching each other up  "
Great minds think alike |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"so does that mean you cant have a straight FMMM? cause no matter where you out the F theres till two M's touching each other up "
lol..there will always be an odd accidental touch....and I am guessing more so when 6 are are there making the woman happy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"so does that mean you cant have a straight FMMM? cause no matter where you out the F theres till two M's touching each other up
lol..there will always be an odd accidental touch....and I am guessing more so when 6 are are there making the woman happy "
Yes exactly makes me laugh because some guys get freaked out, do remember once where M's balls came too close to another guys face and he freaked |
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It always amuses me that a guy that wants to have sex in a room that has other males in it can still be in denial and laughably claim to be "straight". Except of course when the other male is wearing ladies clothes which makes it all ok. So take a spare pair of knickers. and then of course whatever happens isnt at all gay. Or two and then everyone can shag anyone without any problem and of course remain straight. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had a bloke messaging a few times, seemed ok, got to talking re preferences and what we are into.
We said mmf, the guy was but I am straight.
He said I like MFM, not mmf...
We replied, hmm yes they are the same!
However looking on the net, it appears it can be considered mmf to be a bi threesome
Would you consider them the same or is it lingo we are not aware of?"
Bloody Acronyms!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It always amuses me that a guy that wants to have sex in a room that has other males in it can still be in denial and laughably claim to be "straight". Except of course when the other male is wearing ladies clothes which makes it all ok. So take a spare pair of knickers. and then of course whatever happens isnt at all gay. Or two and then everyone can shag anyone without any problem and of course remain straight."
Good idea Then can be FFF |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's one of those technicalities that some people use and others don't. Don't expect everyone to understand it and be sure to clarify matters where there's room for confusion.
When you bring Domination and submission into it it gets even more confusing because M is a Dom male, m is a sub male, F is a Dominant female and f is a sub female. Usually the Dom(me)s are written first in the expression. When there's an M and an F there can be some dispute over who is first! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" EVERYONE knew that!! Duh!
SMS Dave
Lol whenever I'm home!
Reading a local news report goats appear to be popular in my area lol"
Goats? Huh classy round your way then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's one of those technicalities that some people use and others don't. Don't expect everyone to understand it and be sure to clarify matters where there's room for confusion.
When you bring Domination and submission into it it gets even more confusing because M is a Dom male, m is a sub male, F is a Dominant female and f is a sub female. Usually the Dom(me)s are written first in the expression. When there's an M and an F there can be some dispute over who is first!"
ok with that in mind sign us up for a mMf please!! or even and i'm going out on a limb here a mM(B)f |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's one of those technicalities that some people use and others don't. Don't expect everyone to understand it and be sure to clarify matters where there's room for confusion.
When you bring Domination and submission into it it gets even more confusing because M is a Dom male, m is a sub male, F is a Dominant female and f is a sub female. Usually the Dom(me)s are written first in the expression. When there's an M and an F there can be some dispute over who is first!"
Ooo didn't know that either! Learn something new everyday here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone really care?
Hmm sorry, yes we do, it is only a question, if you don't like it...no need to post!  "
Can I ask when you were appointed as the chair person of the FAB board of censors? I will say what I like when I like as long as it is not offensive. I merely posed a question which when I last took care to look was part of living in a democratic society? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ok with that in mind sign us up for a mMf please!! or even and i'm going out on a limb here a mM(B)f "
B ... Butternut squash? Balloon? Baseball Bat? Banana?
The mind boggleth! |
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"However looking on the net, it appears it can be considered mmf to be a bi threesome
To me, MMF means 2 guys can play together
MFM means no cock contact 
Well, that's jow I _iew it "
It certainly is the old school understanding (not calling you old sweetie) which was used on many sites back in the day.
But like many things, the initial meanings get lost over time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ok with that in mind sign us up for a mMf please!! or even and i'm going out on a limb here a mM(B)f
B ... Butternut squash? Balloon? Baseball Bat? Banana?
The mind boggleth! "
An opportunity for me to use my Batman constume? Woo Hoo! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone really care?
Hmm sorry, yes we do, it is only a question, if you don't like it...no need to post!
Can I ask when you were appointed as the chair person of the FAB board of censors? I will say what I like when I like as long as it is not offensive. I
merely posed a question which when I last took care to look was part of living in a democratic society? "
I guess the fact that your " does anyone care " was not the first post after the initial question by the op should answer
your question |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does anyone really care?
Hmm sorry, yes we do, it is only a question, if you don't like it...no need to post!
Can I ask when you were appointed as the chair person of the FAB board of censors? I will say what I like when I like as long as it is not offensive. I merely posed a question which when I last took care to look was part of living in a democratic society? "
Oh dear, who's rattled you cage
Quite clearly not getting MFM or MMF |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone really care?
Hmm sorry, yes we do, it is only a question, if you don't like it...no need to post!
Can I ask when you were appointed as the chair person of the FAB board of censors? I will say what I like when I like as long as it is not offensive. I merely posed a question which when I last took care to look was part of living in a democratic society? "
And, does anyone really care? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone really care?
Hmm sorry, yes we do, it is only a question, if you don't like it...no need to post!
Can I ask when you were appointed as the chair person of the FAB board of censors? I will say what I like when I like as long as it is not offensive. I merely posed a question which when I last took care to look was part of living in a democratic society?
And, does anyone really care? "
Apprently not! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone really care?
Hmm sorry, yes we do, it is only a question, if you don't like it...no need to post!
Can I ask when you were appointed as the chair person of the FAB board of censors? I will say what I like when I like as long as it is not offensive. I merely posed a question which when I last took care to look was part of living in a democratic society?
Oh dear, who's rattled you cage
Quite clearly not getting MFM or MMF "
Well not today........ |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does anyone really care?
Hmm sorry, yes we do, it is only a question, if you don't like it...no need to post!
Can I ask when you were appointed as the chair person of the FAB board of censors? I will say what I like when I like as long as it is not offensive. I merely posed a question which when I last took care to look was part of living in a democratic society?
Oh dear, who's rattled you cage
Quite clearly not getting MFM or MMF Well not today........"
Better luck tomorrow then |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"It always amuses me that a guy that wants to have sex in a room that has other males in it can still be in denial and laughably claim to be "straight". ."
Some men can pee in the same urinals too an claim to be and are straight  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone really care?
Yes. And some people have learned something they consider interesting. A good thing, no?
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I care lol , like said if in the act of a 3some would want to know who was spooking my willy lol. What bout ffm or f m f is there a difference xx |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"It always amuses me that a guy that wants to have sex in a room that has other males in it can still be in denial and laughably claim to be "straight". .
Some men can pee in the same urinals too an claim to be and are straight "
As long as they don't peek |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always peek when I'm using the men's loo, (when the queue for the lady's is too long)."
LOL just picturing 3 guys turning round from the cubiles as you walk in and they're all holding a beer can next to their cocks ref sky remote Post |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"I always peek when I'm using the men's loo, (when the queue for the lady's is too long).
LOL just picturing 3 guys turning round from the cubiles as you walk in and they're all holding a beer can next to their cocks ref sky remote Post "
They take their beer cans in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always peek when I'm using the men's loo, (when the queue for the lady's is too long).
LOL just picturing 3 guys turning round from the cubiles as you walk in and they're all holding a beer can next to their cocks ref sky remote Post
They take their beer cans in "
As I say check the sky remote Post on here... You'll see the connection |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I always peek when I'm using the men's loo, (when the queue for the lady's is too long).
LOL just picturing 3 guys turning round from the cubiles as you walk in and they're all holding a beer can next to their cocks ref sky remote Post
They take their beer cans in
As I say check the sky remote Post on here... You'll see the connection "
So what is it if you include Action Man in your play M AM F M? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had a bloke messaging a few times, seemed ok, got to talking re preferences and what we are into.
We said mmf, the guy was but I am straight.
He said I like MFM, not mmf...
We replied, hmm yes they are the same!
However looking on the net, it appears it can be considered mmf to be a bi threesome
Would you consider them the same or is it lingo we are not aware of?"
The same, although some guys want to try to lie to themselves that they are not bi!
A devils threesome (mmf as some call it) can be had wthout bi interaction but normally with very good friends (the two guys), thats more of a lets fuck this bitch type mentality though lol
Seriously though any guy wanting to jon a mf, norally has a some level of bi, as does the cpl, even if just curious to watch and be close to another guy, I am sure will get people saying thats not the case, but really!?!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if I ask for a Fmmm do I get to tell the bi guys how to play with each other while I watch?  "
I think you are supposed to have a wall chart like a football manager for anything over 2 guys so they know what position they are playing in and who is the striker.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if I ask for a Fmmm do I get to tell the bi guys how to play with each other while I watch?
Ooh that means I'm having a Fmm! 
Ooo can we have a F Fmm and both watch? Lol "
Count me in!! |
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"Does anyone really care?
Yes, because if I'm in a MMF / MFM situation, I want to be sure the guy isn't bothered should my cock accidentally slap across his face "
First time is a accident after that your just trying to get him to suck it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Anyone up for a spot of MFI before some DIY? "
I would yes but not sure, pray tell!
If it has anything to do with hammering or screwing, I'm not very good at that |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Seriously though any guy wanting to jon a mf, norally has a some level of bi, as does the cpl, even if just curious to watch and be close to another guy, I am sure will get people saying thats not the case, but really!?!?"
Does that mean if two straight couples swop they must be bi/ bi curious?
What about an orgy where there are lots of people of both sex's? They will normally all be bi or bi curious?
A sex club, where there are lots of naked bodies with some having sex, the same?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The same, although some guys want to try to lie to themselves that they are not bi!
A devils threesome (mmf as some call it) can be had wthout bi interaction but normally with very good friends (the two guys), thats more of a lets fuck this bitch type mentality though lol
Seriously though any guy wanting to jon a mf, norally has a some level of bi, as does the cpl, even if just curious to watch and be close to another guy, I am sure will get people saying thats not the case, but really!?!?"
I wish Id know this sooner,im truly enlightened now and wish id made all the straight guys we have played in a 3sum with have some of the cock fun that they obviously crave while they're fucking this bitch |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't really understand the fascination with anyone else's sexuality, unless it's someone you are interested in playing with.
I also find the apparent beliefs that a bi- or gay man will fancy every other man, and that a bi- man couldn't take part in an MFM without losing control and forcing himself on the other man, a bit odd. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't really understand the fascination with anyone else's sexuality, unless it's someone you are interested in playing with.
I also find the apparent beliefs that a bi- or gay man will fancy every other man, and that a bi- man couldn't take part in an MFM without losing control and forcing himself on the other man, a bit odd."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well if it's a Mfm there is going to be a little contact for the male side at some point, I mean what if your in a dp situation heaven forbid that you touched, I'm st8 and would love to be involved in some dp fun im comfortable with who I am so I say big deal just have fun |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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Would you consider them the same or is it lingo we are not aware of?"
We have always considered them to be the same thing and had lots of MMF. Mr B has never been told that he had to play with the other guy because we put the f in the wrong place.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is getting very complicated
I hadn't realised letter order was important, although it does explain my sore bottom. "
Well it's your own fault for having such a sexy bottom!! |
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"This is getting very complicated
I hadn't realised letter order was important, although it does explain my sore bottom.
Well it's your own fault for having such a sexy bottom!!"
*sigh* Indeed it is a curse! |
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"This is getting very complicated
I hadn't realised letter order was important, although it does explain my sore bottom.
Was 'mmf!' the noise you made when it happened? "
OMG yes! So it's not only an indicator of order and number and nature of sex but also a phonetic sample!
Pretty impressive system!
FFM is also the noise I make when trying to play with two women at once just before I have a nervous break down due to multi-task failure. |
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