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I've been speaking to a few single guys recently who have told me how hard it is to get a verification on here, whether it's a meet or a webcam.
It doesn't take a lot of effort for someone who is verified to have a very quick cam session with these people just to help them get their tick.
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I'd much rather give credence to how someone interacts with us, than any verification status.
After being given 2 webcam veri's from people who've not even seen us and admin doing nothing to correct it, despite both sides reporting it; hearing tales of a wanking cock being verified on cam. It's no verification at all.
Far better to get along to the many socials being held again now, and make some real, meaningful connections.
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By *yron69Man
over a year ago
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"I've been speaking to a few single guys recently who have told me how hard it is to get a verification on here, whether it's a meet or a webcam.
It doesn't take a lot of effort for someone who is verified to have a very quick cam session with these people just to help them get their tick.
Post below if you're struggling to get a verification, and hopefully someone nice can help you out "
Please sort me out x |
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"I'd much rather give credence to how someone interacts with us, than any verification status.
After being given 2 webcam veri's from people who've not even seen us and admin doing nothing to correct it, despite both sides reporting it; hearing tales of a wanking cock being verified on cam. It's no verification at all.
Far better to get along to the many socials being held again now, and make some real, meaningful connections.
C"
Same for us. We pay no attention to verifications at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would love to be verified,
is 1 of those catch22 situations on here, not meeting someone unless they are verified, can't get verified as no one will meet you to verify you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally. I cannot get verification because people ignore me because I dont have any verification (or maybe I am ugly amd stupid, but I dont wanna believe this one) Its an ouroboros situation. I would be really grateful. Thanks. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"I'm happy to help anyone wanting a verification via webcam. Send me a message if you like, but know it'll just be a chat to verify you, nothing more.  "
I think things like this need more emphasis on. Either because sometimes signals can be misjudged, or some people just take the chance to be lucky.
It is nothing more than a helpful good deed to get people started. No indication of anything going further (unless it is clearly specified).
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"Totally. I cannot get verification because people ignore me because I dont have any verification (or maybe I am ugly amd stupid, but I dont wanna believe this one) Its an ouroboros situation. I would be really grateful. Thanks. "
Having a verification will clearly increase chances, but it won't suddenly have you struggling to find time due to all the interest.
Always better to be verified and not need it than to not have it and need it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cam veris to me only indicate you are on here with a profile - sat there pressing the qwerty keyboard... Doesn't mean you meet.
I wish the site had another symbol for that.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had to create a new profile as had a new phone, lost the couple of veris that I had (they were very kind ones at that)
Any added would be appreciated mi duks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been speaking to a few single guys recently who have told me how hard it is to get a verification on here, whether it's a meet or a webcam.
It doesn't take a lot of effort for someone who is verified to have a very quick cam session with these people just to help them get their tick.
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Post below if you're struggling to get a verification, and hopefully someone nice can help you out "
I would too if that’s cool? |
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I’d verify someone by cam or we maybe able to by a meet of local but the only issue is it can prove you look like your profile picture but not if you’re a “nice guy” which someone else could pay for in the long run…. Hmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's only getting around the filters this lol
Good luck to you all.
Still a massive task to be acknowledged in DM or to be able to meet....
You got to put the work in
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's only getting around the filters this lol
Exactly, cam veris for a single guy prove nothing."
we would never take notice of a cam veri and alot of guys know that then hide them to try and fool people ..
so more guy varified for wanking n chatting on cam yeah great ... not
we may take note of a meets veri but even they are give out falsely now by women wanting attention or money ...think its time to not look at veri's any more and just do a social and see how it pans out .... rip to the veri's |
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"I've been speaking to a few single guys recently who have told me how hard it is to get a verification on here, whether it's a meet or a webcam.
It doesn't take a lot of effort for someone who is verified to have a very quick cam session with these people just to help them get their tick.
why not just use the photo veri, its basically the same as this, just because someone is there doesnt mean they serious regards meeting or swinging
Post below if you're struggling to get a verification, and hopefully someone nice can help you out "
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"I’d verify someone by cam or we maybe able to by a meet of local but the only issue is it can prove you look like your profile picture but not if you’re a “nice guy” which someone else could pay for in the long run…. Hmmm "
How can that be proved anyway? Someone may be nice most of the time then a serial killer every 5 years. |
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over a year ago
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"I've been speaking to a few single guys recently who have told me how hard it is to get a verification on here, whether it's a meet or a webcam.
It doesn't take a lot of effort for someone who is verified to have a very quick cam session with these people just to help them get their tick.
Post below if you're struggling to get a verification, and hopefully someone nice can help you out "
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"I’d verify someone by cam or we maybe able to by a meet of local but the only issue is it can prove you look like your profile picture but not if you’re a “nice guy” which someone else could pay for in the long run…. Hmmm
How can that be proved anyway? Someone may be nice most of the time then a serial killer every 5 years. "
I use the term “nice guy” loosely just going from pass experience of having spoken to a guy online to meeting them in person. But again still happy to verify someone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d verify someone by cam or we maybe able to by a meet of local but the only issue is it can prove you look like your profile picture but not if you’re a “nice guy” which someone else could pay for in the long run…. Hmmm
How can that be proved anyway? Someone may be nice most of the time then a serial killer every 5 years.
I use the term “nice guy” loosely just going from pass experience of having spoken to a guy online to meeting them in person. But again still happy to verify someone"
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
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I would assume that most would prefer a face to face verification rather than a webcam one. Although the idea is for use is that the person behind the profile is who they say they are but I used veris for other things too such as personality etc etc it kinda builds that person and what they are like in person if that makes sense. However I think it was brought up on another thread about you can go the opposite way and go over the top with someones verification so there is that too. Just read between the lines really |
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What a shocker when you've got familiar with someone's hairy chest and cock in pic form ..... only to be confronted with their face.... what do you say when you don't find him remotely attractive and he describes himself as an Adonis?
Every Veri would have to be.
Seen him on cam. Was a bloke.
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"I've been speaking to a few single guys recently who have told me how hard it is to get a verification on here, whether it's a meet or a webcam.
It doesn't take a lot of effort for someone who is verified to have a very quick cam session with these people just to help them get their tick.
Post below if you're struggling to get a verification, and hopefully someone nice can help you out "
This would help so much!!!
I always struggle too, and I’m always happy to send face pics with my messages when requested, but doesn’t seem to help.
If anyone can help, it would be amazing! |
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"Or Veri should say ....
Great that pics lasted the test of time.
I can verify that 'x' is a lovely older man.
Much older.
Not to mention all the pies....... "
I thought you were talking about me but, you mentioned pies and not cakes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been speaking to a few single guys recently who have told me how hard it is to get a verification on here, whether it's a meet or a webcam.
It doesn't take a lot of effort for someone who is verified to have a very quick cam session with these people just to help them get their tick.
Post below if you're struggling to get a verification, and hopefully someone nice can help you out
This would help so much!!!
I always struggle too, and I’m always happy to send face pics with my messages when requested, but doesn’t seem to help.
If anyone can help, it would be amazing!"
There are plenty of ways to get verified without struggling. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see a few people requesting to be verified but they still are unverified?
Did anyone verify anyone?
Is only verify someone that I had met in the flesh either through a meet, club or social. |
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"Or Veri should say ....
Great that pics lasted the test of time.
I can verify that 'x' is a lovely older man.
Much older.
Not to mention all the pies.......
I thought you were talking about me but, you mentioned pies and not cakes "
I'd have put a six pack ( of fig rolls ) for you x |
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Id like several please - all saying what a stunning shag i am and also a trusted and respected member of the forums - and advising other ladies and cples that they should definitely message me or miss out on the shag of their life. But don’t overdo it!! Thx xx |
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"I've been speaking to a few single guys recently who have told me how hard it is to get a verification on here, whether it's a meet or a webcam.
It doesn't take a lot of effort for someone who is verified to have a very quick cam session with these people just to help them get their tick.
Post below if you're struggling to get a verification, and hopefully someone nice can help you out "
Was this a real offer? None of the first 10 guys on this post that I looked at had been cam verified recently. (Shrug emoji) |
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"I'm pretty sure a verification doesn't equal instant sex. "
would with me - currently they look and think hmm only 1 veri - only a maybe shag - with 2 or more i reckon id be at it like a rutting stag 24/7/365 and allow my wrist to get better!!  |
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over a year ago
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I hate the verification system. I believe you should be able to accept whether you want a verification before someone is allowed to verify you. I know you can choose to display what they say but you should have a choice if you want one added to the number you already have, the summary then.
Some guy gave me a web verification a couple of weeks ago for absolutely no reason. Now it looks like I’ve been actively meeting when my last meet was actually 2 years ago! |
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"I've been speaking to a few single guys recently who have told me how hard it is to get a verification on here, whether it's a meet or a webcam.
It doesn't take a lot of effort for someone who is verified to have a very quick cam session with these people just to help them get their tick.
Post below if you're struggling to get a verification, and hopefully someone nice can help you out "
All a webcam veri proves is the sex of the person therefore I would not take that to mean they are genuinely looking to meet .
Only meet veries hold any real value for many on here |
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It took me the best part of 10 months to get a veri and now I prefer not to receive them.
Veris don't prove shit, if someone wants to engage in dialogue with you and wants to meet you, they will. Regardless of a veri or not
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"It took me the best part of 10 months to get a veri and now I prefer not to receive them.
Veris don't prove shit, if someone wants to engage in dialogue with you and wants to meet you, they will. Regardless of a veri or not
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I’m not with you on that one. A good meet verification from a well verified account proves you’ve actually showered, dressed and turned up when you said you would. Apparently that’s a dying art on here.
Cam veris only prove you’re the person in the pics. |
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over a year ago
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"It took me the best part of 10 months to get a veri and now I prefer not to receive them.
Veris don't prove shit, if someone wants to engage in dialogue with you and wants to meet you, they will. Regardless of a veri or not
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"It took me the best part of 10 months to get a veri and now I prefer not to receive them.
Veris don't prove shit, if someone wants to engage in dialogue with you and wants to meet you, they will. Regardless of a veri or not
I’m not with you on that one. A good meet verification from a well verified account proves you’ve actually showered, dressed and turned up when you said you would. Apparently that’s a dying art on here.
Cam veris only prove you’re the person in the pics. "
I'm pretty much with you on that one, I would never meet based on a cam verification although I have been let down by those with good in person meet verifications. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you see someone you like, nice pics, decent profile would you really not engage with them because they aren't verified?? Or is it you see someone who's a bit meh, alright, but hey he's verified so let's meet them.  |
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Aren't verifications a bit like how Facebook started out - rate those you met and had fun with? Then later it turned into a huge advertising.
No desire to cam to get veris. But would welcome some new chats, never know a meet may arise. |
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"I'm pretty much with you on that one, I would never meet based on a cam verification although I have been let down by those with good in person meet verifications. "
Did you bother to report them as a no show? I’m not sure what that actually leads to on here, but it’s one of the options. We need an Uber style 5 star rating. No idea how it would actually work though. |
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over a year ago
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"I'm pretty much with you on that one, I would never meet based on a cam verification although I have been let down by those with good in person meet verifications.
Did you bother to report them as a no show? I’m not sure what that actually leads to on here, but it’s one of the options. We need an Uber style 5 star rating. No idea how it would actually work though."
I didn't report them, thing is they kept in contact with journey progress, clearly not on their way!  |
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"If you see someone you like, nice pics, decent profile would you really not engage with them because they aren't verified?? Or is it you see someone who's a bit meh, alright, but hey he's verified so let's meet them. "
Your first sentence is correct for us. If someone is meh we wouldn’t meet them either. They have to be verified, in our age range and able to accommodate before we’d chat. If they’re interesting and we get along we’d consider meeting |
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over a year ago
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"If you see someone you like, nice pics, decent profile would you really not engage with them because they aren't verified?? Or is it you see someone who's a bit meh, alright, but hey he's verified so let's meet them. "
No I wouldn't, I have my filter on to stop unverified mailing me, unfortunately it does not differentiate between type of verification.
I wouldn't meet someone I'm not attracted to, regardless of being meet verified. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Verification help if you are applying for club membership or party invites as having a few decent ones separate the fantasist or "wank zombies" from the people genuinely into the lifestyle. |
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"Verification help if you are applying for club membership or party invites as having a few decent ones separate the fantasist or "wank zombies" from the people genuinely into the lifestyle. "
Nice to see someone else calls them wank zombies |
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over a year ago
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"Verification help if you are applying for club membership or party invites as having a few decent ones separate the fantasist or "wank zombies" from the people genuinely into the lifestyle.
Nice to see someone else calls them wank zombies "
I call them towel zombies |
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over a year ago
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I always show EVERY verification I have,
it would be helpful if everyone had to automatically do so.
A lot about another can be gauged by those verifications and to provide room for people to hide them mean people can get away with or hide a lot.
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"I'm pretty much with you on that one, I would never meet based on a cam verification although I have been let down by those with good in person meet verifications.
Did you bother to report them as a no show? I’m not sure what that actually leads to on here, but it’s one of the options. We need an Uber style 5 star rating. No idea how it would actually work though.
What an fool there were. You lost your time, they lost meeting you. Guess who's the biggest loser
I didn't report them, thing is they kept in contact with journey progress, clearly not on their way! "
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"I always show EVERY verification I have,
it would be helpful if everyone had to automatically do so.
A lot about another can be gauged by those verifications and to provide room for people to hide them mean people can get away with or hide a lot.
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Ha, it wouldn’t be 100% helpful. One of my mates was in a couple on here and left me this one… ‘ Best handjob ever. This guy really knows how to handle a cock. See you later for some skiing big boy! Mwah!’
I don’t show it for fairly obvious reasons |
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over a year ago
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"I always show EVERY verification I have,
it would be helpful if everyone had to automatically do so.
A lot about another can be gauged by those verifications and to provide room for people to hide them mean people can get away with or hide a lot.
Ha, it wouldn’t be 100% helpful. One of my mates was in a couple on here and left me this one… ‘ Best handjob ever. This guy really knows how to handle a cock. See you later for some skiing big boy! Mwah!’
I don’t show it for fairly obvious reasons "
Lesson: choose your friends more carefully than your sexual partners |
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It wouldn't hurt to have a female verified, considering my other verification was off some random dude on cam when I was in the public group.. I mean I appreciated it. But I'm straight and it sends the wrong impression  |
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"I hate the verification system. I believe you should be able to accept whether you want a verification before someone is allowed to verify you. I know you can choose to display what they say but you should have a choice if you want one added to the number you already have, the summary then.
Some guy gave me a web verification a couple of weeks ago for absolutely no reason. Now it looks like I’ve been actively meeting when my last meet was actually 2 years ago! "
I guess it could be tweaked, but hiding the summary and just posting a selection of positive (and hopefully recent) ones should do the trick for most. I just got my first, and have displayed and hid it variously. Still undecided. But I’m no Adonis and I got it 3 weeks after joining, I think if you’ve gone a year and got none that’s a combo of harsh but also a judgement on you somehow, either your profile, your approach, or your personality once chatting |
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"I hate the verification system. I believe you should be able to accept whether you want a verification before someone is allowed to verify you. I know you can choose to display what they say but you should have a choice if you want one added to the number you already have, the summary then.
Some guy gave me a web verification a couple of weeks ago for absolutely no reason. Now it looks like I’ve been actively meeting when my last meet was actually 2 years ago!
I guess it could be tweaked, but hiding the summary and just posting a selection of positive (and hopefully recent) ones should do the trick for most. I just got my first, and have displayed and hid it variously. Still undecided. But I’m no Adonis and I got it 3 weeks after joining, I think if you’ve gone a year and got none that’s a combo of harsh but also a judgement on you somehow, either your profile, your approach, or your personality once chatting "
 you think I’ve gone 2 years without meeting from here because I’m struggling? That’s funny. I could meet 10 guys a day if I was looking to meet, that’s IF I wanted to meet people off here. I don’t want verifications and I certainly don’t want it to look like I’ve met someone in the last couple of weeks. |
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"Verification help if you are applying for club membership or party invites as having a few decent ones separate the fantasist or "wank zombies" from the people genuinely into the lifestyle. "
This |
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"I hate the verification system. I believe you should be able to accept whether you want a verification before someone is allowed to verify you. I know you can choose to display what they say but you should have a choice if you want one added to the number you already have, the summary then.
Some guy gave me a web verification a couple of weeks ago for absolutely no reason. Now it looks like I’ve been actively meeting when my last meet was actually 2 years ago!
I guess it could be tweaked, but hiding the summary and just posting a selection of positive (and hopefully recent) ones should do the trick for most. I just got my first, and have displayed and hid it variously. Still undecided. But I’m no Adonis and I got it 3 weeks after joining, I think if you’ve gone a year and got none that’s a combo of harsh but also a judgement on you somehow, either your profile, your approach, or your personality once chatting
you think I’ve gone 2 years without meeting from here because I’m struggling? That’s funny. I could meet 10 guys a day if I was looking to meet, that’s IF I wanted to meet people off here. I don’t want verifications and I certainly don’t want it to look like I’ve met someone in the last couple of weeks. "
But.... You do have a verification from a couple of weeks ago? |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
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"Yeah Defo need verification It is hard for single guys to get it! Haha "
Don't give up though. Its definitely not easy being a single guy but with a bit of patience.. the day will come. Try clubs.. they are a great place to meet people |
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"I hate the verification system. I believe you should be able to accept whether you want a verification before someone is allowed to verify you. I know you can choose to display what they say but you should have a choice if you want one added to the number you already have, the summary then.
Some guy gave me a web verification a couple of weeks ago for absolutely no reason. Now it looks like I’ve been actively meeting when my last meet was actually 2 years ago!
I guess it could be tweaked, but hiding the summary and just posting a selection of positive (and hopefully recent) ones should do the trick for most. I just got my first, and have displayed and hid it variously. Still undecided. But I’m no Adonis and I got it 3 weeks after joining, I think if you’ve gone a year and got none that’s a combo of harsh but also a judgement on you somehow, either your profile, your approach, or your personality once chatting
you think I’ve gone 2 years without meeting from here because I’m struggling? That’s funny. I could meet 10 guys a day if I was looking to meet, that’s IF I wanted to meet people off here. I don’t want verifications and I certainly don’t want it to look like I’ve met someone in the last couple of weeks.
But.... You do have a verification from a couple of weeks ago? "
Not even gonna write the answer to this cos it’s already there in the first paragraph. Try reading again from the top. The answer is there. |
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you think I’ve gone 2 years without meeting from here because I’m struggling? That’s funny. I could meet 10 guys a day if I was looking to meet, that’s IF I wanted to meet people off here. I don’t want verifications and I certainly don’t want it to look like I’ve met someone in the last couple of weeks. "
Oops, absolutely not, apologies - I was replying to your comment on the verification system, and then went on to discuss the OPs struggles to meet and thus get one - should have separated the two thoughts more clearly, I stand by both but the latter half wasn’t directed in any way at you - sorry about that |
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"I've been speaking to a few single guys recently who have told me how hard it is to get a verification on here, whether it's a meet or a webcam.
It doesn't take a lot of effort for someone who is verified to have a very quick cam session with these people just to help them get their tick.
Post below if you're struggling to get a verification, and hopefully someone nice can help you out "
Took me months to get a verification..... ended up chatting on cam and came easier. |
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you think I’ve gone 2 years without meeting from here because I’m struggling? That’s funny. I could meet 10 guys a day if I was looking to meet, that’s IF I wanted to meet people off here. I don’t want verifications and I certainly don’t want it to look like I’ve met someone in the last couple of weeks.
Oops, absolutely not, apologies - I was replying to your comment on the verification system, and then went on to discuss the OPs struggles to meet and thus get one - should have separated the two thoughts more clearly, I stand by both but the latter half wasn’t directed in any way at you - sorry about that "
Yeah was this part “ if you’ve gone a year without a meet that’s a judgement on you somehow, either your profile, your approach, or your personality once chatting”
I was reading that like, is he mad or something!? Got meet requests coming out of my ears. I don’t want them though. Not interested in low vibrational casual sex. Nope.
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Yeah was this part “ if you’ve gone a year without a meet that’s a judgement on you somehow, either your profile, your approach, or your personality once chatting”
I was reading that like, is he mad or something!? Got meet requests coming out of my ears. I don’t want them though. Not interested in low vibrational casual sex. Nope.
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I get ya, definitely a comment on those, like the OP who want meets, can’t get them, think that getting a verification will help them but can’t get that first one and are in a cycle . It’s part the harsh reality of supply and demand, and part what you are doing that’s the problem.
So if you’re not getting looks, maybe your profile needs work. If you’re not getting answers maybe your profile and first message approach needs work. If you’re getting answers but it’s fizzling out fast, maybe your personality has something to answer for and so on |
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Yeah was this part “ if you’ve gone a year without a meet that’s a judgement on you somehow, either your profile, your approach, or your personality once chatting”
I was reading that like, is he mad or something!? Got meet requests coming out of my ears. I don’t want them though. Not interested in low vibrational casual sex. Nope.
I get ya, definitely a comment on those, like the OP who want meets, can’t get them, think that getting a verification will help them but can’t get that first one and are in a cycle . It’s part the harsh reality of supply and demand, and part what you are doing that’s the problem.
So if you’re not getting looks, maybe your profile needs work. If you’re not getting answers maybe your profile and first message approach needs work. If you’re getting answers but it’s fizzling out fast, maybe your personality has something to answer for and so on"
But you’re quoting and replying to my comment so it looks like what you are saying is aimed at me.
If it’s for the OP you should just post what you want to say without quoting my comment. |
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But you’re quoting and replying to my comment so it looks like what you are saying is aimed at me.
If it’s for the OP you should just post what you want to say without quoting my comment. "
Yes I did, I apologised about that, as I said I should have separated the two thoughts more clearly |
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