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By *just.me OP Man
over a year ago
hartlepool |
I have always lacked confidence and it has really held me back. I find it difficult to carry a conversation in person, especielly with women. Also, i hwve only ever been with 2 women and its really frustrating. Is it possible forme to gain confidence? How can it be achieved? any help i can get would be greatly appreciated |
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Join a group of people who have similar interests. Badminton, gardening, wine etc. Then conversation will be on a natural level on a subject you are confident with. Google local groups called 'meet up'  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just try to put yourself out there. Go to events where you don’t know anyone, weekend courses are pretty good for that. The more you get out there and meet people, the more you’ll realise it’s actually not that difficult to interact and your confidence will grow. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is it any social situations or woth women your interested in?
Have you ever thought of something like coaching or counselling?
Social skills are just that skills that cab be developed and improved |
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By *just.me OP Man
over a year ago
hartlepool |
"Is it any social situations or woth women your interested in?
Have you ever thought of something like coaching or counselling?
Social skills are just that skills that cab be developed and improved "
almost all social,mostly women but worse with women i like |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"Is it any social situations or woth women your interested in?
Have you ever thought of something like coaching or counselling?
Social skills are just that skills that cab be developed and improved "
Coaching or mentoring can help, but if you lack confidence it’s often nearly always rooted in childhood or through emotional trauma , it can be gained but it’s long/slow and takes a lot of courage because you have to start acting and making decisions very differently |
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Maybe focus on being you and accepting yourself, nobody is ever going to love you more than yourself. Try going a few platonic dates, with no expectation other than building on your confidence, your discover your worth a lot more than you think you are.  |
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