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By *eavenNhell OP Couple
over a year ago
carrbrook stalybridge |
see alot of profiles with the spanking box ticked in preferances and as a couple heavily involved in the bdsm scene we wondered how many on here have gad a proper spanking .
dont mean a few taps with a cheap piece of anne summers tat we mean a full on purple bruising mindblowing hurts for days afterwards thrashing ? |
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went to fetish night not too long ago with a propper dom in charge i was told that the pleasure is to have the pain with out the bruising but i did ask for a major spanking to which i was oblidged and i as tender for a couple of days after loved it xx |
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By *eavenNhell OP Couple
over a year ago
carrbrook stalybridge |
"went to fetish night not too long ago with a propper dom in charge i was told that the pleasure is to have the pain with out the bruising but i did ask for a major spanking to which i was oblidged and i as tender for a couple of days after loved it xx"
that sounds fun for you different people have different pain thresholds some bruise easily some dont .the after pain can be good as its a reminder of the fun you had
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"see alot of profiles with the spanking box ticked in preferances and as a couple heavily involved in the bdsm scene we wondered how many on here have gad a proper spanking .
dont mean a few taps with a cheap piece of anne summers tat we mean a full on purple bruising mindblowing hurts for days afterwards thrashing ?"
 it means i have trouble sitting down and a bruised ass |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The severity of the spanking depends on the pain threshold of the recipient. This can be increased over time and a true dom will push your limits. Unfortunately there are a lot of plastic doms out there who are willing to give you a good thrashing without knowing what it is you need and they either get great pleasure from inflicting pain or don't understand the subs requirements. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As a true sub (i have been all my sexual life)it is kind of insulting to see that people think that a spanking is BDSM. The dom/sub relationship is very complex and probably the most intimate of all. It is not merely about inflicting pain, or receiving it. Its the power the dom has over the sub. Complete trust in each other is vital and any punishment is taken gratefully. The dom will always treat their sub as they wish but its not about humiliation. Spanking is fun for many (including me!) but not to be confused with the real deal.
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