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over a year ago
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As I remember…
If she’s really interested she’ll not invite you places.
Or was it the other way around?
I forget.
Great avatar picture though, you have a friendly smile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Me again…. Decided to just go with the flow with regards to the girl I’m seeing, thing is she keeps inviting me places, is she interested? "
Simple answer is yes. She’s choosing to spend her time with you OP |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Does she keep inviting you to places like the supermarket, the petrol station and the launderette and expecting you to pay ?
Nope lol cinema, like family fun days German market"
Have you kissed eachother |
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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago
Terra Firma |
"Does she keep inviting you to places like the supermarket, the petrol station and the launderette and expecting you to pay ?
Nope lol cinema, like family fun days German market"
Is she paying her way? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Me again…. Decided to just go with the flow with regards to the girl I’m seeing, thing is she keeps inviting me places, is she interested? "
Try inviting her places and see what happens |
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By *iddylad87 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Does she keep inviting you to places like the supermarket, the petrol station and the launderette and expecting you to pay ?
Nope lol cinema, like family fun days German market
Is she paying her way? "
She does offer but 9 times outta 10 I don’t let her |
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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago
Terra Firma |
"Does she keep inviting you to places like the supermarket, the petrol station and the launderette and expecting you to pay ?
Nope lol cinema, like family fun days German market
Is she paying her way?
She does offer but 9 times outta 10 I don’t let her"
Try going dutch on the next outing and see if the interest to go out again is still there |
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Ask if she fancies going to a romantic hotel for a night… or a swingers club… she may be gagging for you to make a move and may die of old age before you do… buy her some sex toys … nothing says romance like a butt plug  |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"Me again…. Decided to just go with the flow with regards to the girl I’m seeing, thing is she keeps inviting me places, is she interested? "
She may be, but you don’t seem to be otherwise you would have made a move yourself and had your answer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ask if she fancies going to a romantic hotel for a night… or a swingers club… she may be gagging for you to make a move and may die of old age before you do… buy her some sex toys … nothing says romance like a butt plug "
Or just tell her to go find someone with a clue 
I’m shit at reading signs from the better sex but I'm not this flippin stupid  |
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"Does she keep inviting you to places like the supermarket, the petrol station and the launderette and expecting you to pay ?
Nope lol cinema, like family fun days German market
Is she paying her way?
She does offer but 9 times outta 10 I don’t let her"
Start saying yes when she offers to pay. If she's into you she will still ask you to do stuff even if she is footing the bill. If she doesn't, you have to question her motives. |
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By *iddylad87 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Does she keep inviting you to places like the supermarket, the petrol station and the launderette and expecting you to pay ?
Nope lol cinema, like family fun days German market
Is she paying her way?
She does offer but 9 times outta 10 I don’t let her
Start saying yes when she offers to pay. If she's into you she will still ask you to do stuff even if she is footing the bill. If she doesn't, you have to question her motives. "
She invited me to cinema on tues I said I can’t I’ve no money, she said she will sort it does she want the d |
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"Does she keep inviting you to places like the supermarket, the petrol station and the launderette and expecting you to pay ?
Nope lol cinema, like family fun days German market
Is she paying her way?
She does offer but 9 times outta 10 I don’t let her
Start saying yes when she offers to pay. If she's into you she will still ask you to do stuff even if she is footing the bill. If she doesn't, you have to question her motives.
She invited me to cinema on tues I said I can’t I’ve no money, she said she will sort it does she want the d"
I'm i lost here? Or ...
If you know her, if you both get together , if she invites you ... are you waiting that she takes you in her arms to take you in to bed?  
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally OP, I'd say the Lass is into You.. Go with Her, have a great time and a laugh! She might be wanting to see how you cope with your clothes on and in public.. Go for it |
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By *iddylad87 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Does she keep inviting you to places like the supermarket, the petrol station and the launderette and expecting you to pay ?
Nope lol cinema, like family fun days German market
Is she paying her way?
She does offer but 9 times outta 10 I don’t let her
Start saying yes when she offers to pay. If she's into you she will still ask you to do stuff even if she is footing the bill. If she doesn't, you have to question her motives.
She invited me to cinema on tues I said I can’t I’ve no money, she said she will sort it does she want the d
I'm i lost here? Or ...
If you know her, if you both get together , if she invites you ... are you waiting that she takes you in her arms to take you in to bed?
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ye I am that shit with signals I need a girl to literally lead me
Like a girl could literally be naked in front of me askin me to fuck her an id be like you only wanna be friends? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ye I am that shit with signals I need a girl to literally lead me
Like a girl could literally be naked in front of me askin me to fuck her an id be like you only wanna be friends? "
Dude, I can sympathise with you there.. 1 of my oldest female friends is constantly taking the mick out of me as I'm crap at picking up on when women flirt with me |
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By *iddylad87 OP Man
over a year ago
kidderminster |
Like earlier she messaged me and said she wanted to pop round for a coffee, which she did well I say coffee it was actually a glass of red ???? sure she keeps fishing for compliments as well which I always pick up on |
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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago
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"Like earlier she messaged me and said she wanted to pop round for a coffee, which she did well I say coffee it was actually a glass of red ???? sure she keeps fishing for compliments as well which I always pick up on"
What is stopping you asking her out or to take your relationship to the next level? It doesn't matter if she is into you or not, ask and you will find out. Or are you the type of person who doesn't make decisions, ever, and waits sitting on the fence until someone makes a decision for you? |
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By *iddylad87 OP Man
over a year ago
kidderminster |
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She invited me to cinema on tues I said I can’t I’ve no money, she said she will sort it does she want the d
I thought she didn't have a babysitter"
She does a half day at nursery cuz she usually works tues but she has holiday this week |
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By *iddylad87 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Yeaaa ive invited her to places
Usually I avoid the cinema, as you can’t talk but as we’ve met a few times….
How much do you like her
R
I do like her yea
Does she know that
R"
Genuinely not sure, but she must be able to read between the signs |
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"Yeaaa ive invited her to places
Usually I avoid the cinema, as you can’t talk but as we’ve met a few times….
How much do you like her
R
I do like her yea
Does she know that
R
Genuinely not sure, but she must be able to read between the signs "
You're not so why do you think she automatically is
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By *iddylad87 OP Man
over a year ago
kidderminster |
"Yeaaa ive invited her to places
Usually I avoid the cinema, as you can’t talk but as we’ve met a few times….
How much do you like her
R
I do like her yea
Does she know that
R
Genuinely not sure, but she must be able to read between the signs
You're not so why do you think she automatically is
R"
She’s a female they are automatically better a reading signs |
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Next time you see her tell her how much you like her company and how much you like her.
Also ask would she like to go on a proper date with you.
That way you will know if she likes to spend time with you only as friends or more.
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By *iddylad87 OP Man
over a year ago
kidderminster |
"Next time you see her tell her how much you like her company and how much you like her.
Also ask would she like to go on a proper date with you.
That way you will know if she likes to spend time with you only as friends or more.
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I’ve already told her that I enjoy her company, and I start each meet and FaceTime with “ you look nice” |
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"Next time you see her tell her how much you like her company and how much you like her.
Also ask would she like to go on a proper date with you.
That way you will know if she likes to spend time with you only as friends or more.
I’ve already told her that I enjoy her company, and I start each meet and FaceTime with “ you look nice” "
Then say “ Look , I really like you and would like to invite you on a date. How do you feel about it? “
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By *iddylad87 OP Man
over a year ago
kidderminster |
"Next time you see her tell her how much you like her company and how much you like her.
Also ask would she like to go on a proper date with you.
That way you will know if she likes to spend time with you only as friends or more.
I’ve already told her that I enjoy her company, and I start each meet and FaceTime with “ you look nice”
Then say “ Look , I really like you and would like to invite you on a date. How do you feel about it? “
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See part of me want to but but of me thinks I shouldn’t pressure her |
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When you meet up, give her a big hug and whisper into her ear something along the lines of "you look so beautiful" then pull back slightly so your arms are still around her and look into her eyes while you're faces are still close. If she moves any closer or doesn't pull away then pucker up because she wants some smooching! |
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By *iddylad87 OP Man
over a year ago
kidderminster |
"When you meet up, give her a big hug and whisper into her ear something along the lines of "you look so beautiful" then pull back slightly so your arms are still around her and look into her eyes while you're faces are still close. If she moves any closer or doesn't pull away then pucker up because she wants some smooching!"
that sounds like a plan
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over a year ago
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"Does she keep inviting you to places like the supermarket, the petrol station and the launderette and expecting you to pay ?
Nope lol cinema, like family fun days German market
Is she paying her way?
She does offer but 9 times outta 10 I don’t let her
Try going dutch on the next outing and see if the interest to go out again is still there "
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By *iddylad87 OP Man
over a year ago
kidderminster |
"Does she keep inviting you to places like the supermarket, the petrol station and the launderette and expecting you to pay ?
Nope lol cinema, like family fun days German market
Is she paying her way?
She does offer but 9 times outta 10 I don’t let her
Try going dutch on the next outing and see if the interest to go out again is still there
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She’s just messaged asking what I want for Xmas |
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"When you meet up, give her a big hug and whisper into her ear something along the lines of "you look so beautiful" then pull back slightly so your arms are still around her and look into her eyes while you're faces are still close. If she moves any closer or doesn't pull away then pucker up because she wants some smooching! that sounds like a plan "
Just be prepared to move your face a little closer when she doesn't pull away (and actually kiss her), because if you move away she'll park you in the friends zone for life. And the friend zone sucks when you don't want to be there! |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Does she keep inviting you to places like the supermarket, the petrol station and the launderette and expecting you to pay ?
Nope lol cinema, like family fun days German market
Is she paying her way?
She does offer but 9 times outta 10 I don’t let her
Try going dutch on the next outing and see if the interest to go out again is still there
She’s just messaged asking what I want for Xmas "
All I want for Christmas is yooooo! |
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over a year ago
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"Does she keep inviting you to places like the supermarket, the petrol station and the launderette and expecting you to pay ?
Nope lol cinema, like family fun days German market
Is she paying her way?
She does offer but 9 times outta 10 I don’t let her
Try going dutch on the next outing and see if the interest to go out again is still there
She’s just messaged asking what I want for Xmas "
To me it sounds like the start of a lovely friendship/relationship. I think you just need to open with her that you really like her and just see where it leads. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is this a wind up OP ?
Why would it be a wind up? the question he’s asking surely your instinct would tell you if someone wants more with you "
Not necessarily and everybody is different. It can sometimes be very difficult to trust your instincts especially you've been hurt so I guess he was just reaching out for some advice. |
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"Is this a wind up OP ?
Why would it be a wind up? the question he’s asking surely your instinct would tell you if someone wants more with you
Not necessarily and everybody is different. It can sometimes be very difficult to trust your instincts especially you've been hurt so I guess he was just reaching out for some advice."
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"Is this a wind up OP ?
Why would it be a wind up? the question he’s asking surely your instinct would tell you if someone wants more with you
Not necessarily and everybody is different. It can sometimes be very difficult to trust your instincts especially you've been hurt so I guess he was just reaching out for some advice."
Fear of rejection can play havoc with what's in front of you. I've learned to block out out, and more often than not my instincts are right when I think someone likes me and I'm glad I take the risk. |
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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago
Terra Firma |
"Is this a wind up OP ?
Why would it be a wind up?"
2nd thread with exactly the same inputs and outputs makes me doubt the situation somewhat, I would like to be wrong but I can't help feeling something is not as it seems |
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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago
Terra Firma |
"Same old judgement "
I hope you are genuine and you do get to become a couple. However what is clouding my thoughts is you are 2 threads in and I am not sure what it is you want from the threads.
What is it you want? |
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By *iddylad87 OP Man
over a year ago
kidderminster |
"Same old judgement
I hope you are genuine and you do get to become a couple. However what is clouding my thoughts is you are 2 threads in and I am not sure what it is you want from the threads.
What is it you want?"
ermmmm advice? I did start off both threads with I need some advice |
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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago
Terra Firma |
"Same old judgement
I hope you are genuine and you do get to become a couple. However what is clouding my thoughts is you are 2 threads in and I am not sure what it is you want from the threads.
What is it you want?ermmmm advice? I did start off both threads with I need some advice "
You've had lots of advice and support over the 2 threads, is there anything specifically missing or you would like to explore further?
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By *iddylad87 OP Man
over a year ago
kidderminster |
"Same old judgement
I hope you are genuine and you do get to become a couple. However what is clouding my thoughts is you are 2 threads in and I am not sure what it is you want from the threads.
What is it you want?ermmmm advice? I did start off both threads with I need some advice
You've had lots of advice and support over the 2 threads, is there anything specifically missing or you would like to explore further?
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I’d like to post something without judgemental morons like you putting ya two Penneth in |
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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago
Terra Firma |
"Same old judgement
I hope you are genuine and you do get to become a couple. However what is clouding my thoughts is you are 2 threads in and I am not sure what it is you want from the threads.
What is it you want?ermmmm advice? I did start off both threads with I need some advice
You've had lots of advice and support over the 2 threads, is there anything specifically missing or you would like to explore further?
I’d like to post something without judgemental morons like you putting ya two Penneth in "
I asked you if you needed advice that wasn't already forthcoming and then you go onto become rather churlish in your response. Do you act like this normally, little outburst? |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Same old judgement
I hope you are genuine and you do get to become a couple. However what is clouding my thoughts is you are 2 threads in and I am not sure what it is you want from the threads.
What is it you want?ermmmm advice? I did start off both threads with I need some advice
You've had lots of advice and support over the 2 threads, is there anything specifically missing or you would like to explore further?
I’d like to post something without judgemental morons like you putting ya two Penneth in "
Wow then dont ask grow a set of balls and ask her |
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"Same old judgement
I hope you are genuine and you do get to become a couple. However what is clouding my thoughts is you are 2 threads in and I am not sure what it is you want from the threads.
What is it you want?ermmmm advice? I did start off both threads with I need some advice "
My advice would be is to get off this site or hide your profile - and concentrate on her.....
She deserves your loyalty and respect at least.
Maybe take your face off so you aren't recognised. Cos if she finds out, she might not be happy! |
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I'd say she's definitely into you. She's planning on getting you a Christmas present, that's 2 months away! I mean, She's thinking you'll still be seeing each other in 2 months.
Just kiss her god damn it!! |
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By *iddylad87 OP Man
over a year ago
kidderminster |
"I'd say she's definitely into you. She's planning on getting you a Christmas present, that's 2 months away! I mean, She's thinking you'll still be seeing each other in 2 months.
Just kiss her god damn it!!"
Just don’t want to rush it and make her think im pushing her in to something |
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"I'd say she's definitely into you. She's planning on getting you a Christmas present, that's 2 months away! I mean, She's thinking you'll still be seeing each other in 2 months.
Just kiss her god damn it!!
Just don’t want to rush it and make her think im pushing her in to something "
Wait much longer and she may assume you are gay. |
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over a year ago
kidderminster |
"I'd say she's definitely into you. She's planning on getting you a Christmas present, that's 2 months away! I mean, She's thinking you'll still be seeing each other in 2 months.
Just kiss her god damn it!!
Just don’t want to rush it and make her think im pushing her in to something
Wait much longer and she may assume you are gay."
Bestbgetbcrackin hadnt I |
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over a year ago
kidderminster |
"I'd say she's definitely into you. She's planning on getting you a Christmas present, that's 2 months away! I mean, She's thinking you'll still be seeing each other in 2 months.
Just kiss her god damn it!!
Just don’t want to rush it and make her think im pushing her in to something
Wait much longer and she may assume you are gay.
Bestbgetbcrackin hadnt I "
So we went and saw bond, we giggled made inappropriate jokes and just had a good time
Next week I’m gonna suprise her an take her to boing zone, guess it gives me the opportunity to break the touch barrier in a light hearted way |
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She obviously likes spending time with you and maybe she is just as shy.
Why don't you ask her out on an actual date, like dinner...may it clear that it is a date.
And, good luck...I really she is just as keen x |
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By *iddylad87 OP Man
over a year ago
kidderminster |
"She obviously likes spending time with you and maybe she is just as shy.
Why don't you ask her out on an actual date, like dinner...may it clear that it is a date.
And, good luck...I really she is just as keen x"
I just don’t wanna make a move and mess up the friendship x |
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"She obviously likes spending time with you and maybe she is just as shy.
Why don't you ask her out on an actual date, like dinner...may it clear that it is a date.
And, good luck...I really she is just as keen x
I just don’t wanna make a move and mess up the friendship x"
I get that and I hope that you figure it out x |
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"Me again…. Decided to just go with the flow with regards to the girl I’m seeing, thing is she keeps inviting me places, is she interested? "
I'm not sure she is bud, I think the reason she keeps inviting you out is she can't stand your company, and doesn't want to be around you... it's the only logical explanation |
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By *iddylad87 OP Man
over a year ago
kidderminster |
"Me again…. Decided to just go with the flow with regards to the girl I’m seeing, thing is she keeps inviting me places, is she interested?
I'm not sure she is bud, I think the reason she keeps inviting you out is she can't stand your company, and doesn't want to be around you... it's the only logical explanation "
sarcasm is the lowest form of wit
Lol
Nah I think I’ve got a 75% chance, but just don’t wanna ruin the friendship |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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You just carry on and develop the friendship , you’re doing fine, don’t rush… make sure to do the things that show you like her more than a friend like notice her hair, clothes, make up , give genuine compliments about her personality, get lots of eye contact and make her laugh and little gifts/gestures/surprises but don’t over do it , |
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"Me again…. Decided to just go with the flow with regards to the girl I’m seeing, thing is she keeps inviting me places, is she interested?
I'm not sure she is bud, I think the reason she keeps inviting you out is she can't stand your company, and doesn't want to be around you... it's the only logical explanation sarcasm is the lowest form of wit
Lol
Nah I think I’ve got a 75% chance, but just don’t wanna ruin the friendship "
But would you be happy to end up in the friends zone and it not go further.
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By *iddylad87 OP Man
over a year ago
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"You just carry on and develop the friendship , you’re doing fine, don’t rush… make sure to do the things that show you like her more than a friend like notice her hair, clothes, make up , give genuine compliments about her personality, get lots of eye contact and make her laugh and little gifts/gestures/surprises but don’t over do it , "
Yeaaa so she told me she likes them gonks lol so I brought her and her daughter a personalised gonk to hang on the xmas tree, I always tell her she looks nice |
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over a year ago
kidderminster |
"Me again…. Decided to just go with the flow with regards to the girl I’m seeing, thing is she keeps inviting me places, is she interested?
I'm not sure she is bud, I think the reason she keeps inviting you out is she can't stand your company, and doesn't want to be around you... it's the only logical explanation sarcasm is the lowest form of wit
Lol
Nah I think I’ve got a 75% chance, but just don’t wanna ruin the friendship
But would you be happy to end up in the friends zone and it not go further.
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Nope I wouldn’t but just see how it goes |
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over a year ago
kidderminster |
"Me again…. Decided to just go with the flow with regards to the girl I’m seeing, thing is she keeps inviting me places, is she interested?
I'm not sure she is bud, I think the reason she keeps inviting you out is she can't stand your company, and doesn't want to be around you... it's the only logical explanation sarcasm is the lowest form of wit
Lol
Nah I think I’ve got a 75% chance, but just don’t wanna ruin the friendship
But would you be happy to end up in the friends zone and it not go further.
Nope I wouldn’t but just see how it goes "
I’ve decided to bite the bullet, she’s invited me round tomorrow night |
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