Is there any point being on a site like this when you have a body like mine (fat)?
As it seems especially around where I live all that’s wanted is gym buff Geordie love Essex Chelsea types!!
I’m trying to loose weight but I’ve yoyo’d so many times over the years it’s hard.  |
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I think it’s difficult for men whatever body shape. I was chatting to a man some may consider “the perfect man”. Gym bod, good looking, tall etc. I said to him I bet you’re inundated with offers. He said no he never gets any messages. Stick with it op, I think it’s more a man thing than a body shape thing x |
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over a year ago
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"Is there any point being on a site like this when you have a body like mine (fat)?
As it seems especially around where I live all that’s wanted is gym buff Geordie love Essex Chelsea types!!
I’m trying to loose weight but I’ve yoyo’d so many times over the years it’s hard. "
I had lots of meets and I am 20 stone.
Go to socials where people get to see the person and not the profile |
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over a year ago
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Good for you for posting photos of yourself. The husband is 17 stone and would never let me post of him. There are women who aren’t into gym fit guys most of us probably prefer a dad bod/something to snuggle into |
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"Is there any point being on a site like this when you have a body like mine (fat)?
As it seems especially around where I live all that’s wanted is gym buff Geordie love Essex Chelsea types!!
I’m trying to loose weight but I’ve yoyo’d so many times over the years it’s hard. "
I would consider myself someone who’s athletic and gym fit but I have no luck either. You have a lot of verifications so maybe you’re doing something right |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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You have to love yourself first, be happy in who you are and what you have achieved. We all want to make changes but be proud of what you have already. There is somebody for everybody on here keep strutting your stuff. |
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Thanks everyone
I struggle with my body and confidence, since I had an operation at 15 which buggered me I’ve yo-yo,d massively from 14-21 stone!
At the moment I’m 18.5 but slowly lowering it 
I am a jokey take the piss impersonation type person
so do tend to do better chatting than on paper. I’ve been to a club once which was good and I’m looking forward to going again when I can.
Thanks for all being kind and supportive
Means a lot
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