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Thought I was gay. Thinking I may now be bi.
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I'm in my early 30s. Thought I was gay my whole life. For the past year I have been becoming interested in trying pussy. Never thought I would be in this position. Feels kind of strange. But it's something I want to try. I think I will properly know after I try it if I truly am bi. Has any of you been in a similar position or know someone who has? |
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"I'm in my early 30s. Thought I was gay my whole life. For the past year I have been becoming interested in trying pussy. Never thought I would be in this position. Feels kind of strange. But it's something I want to try. I think I will properly know after I try it if I truly am bi. Has any of you been in a similar position or know someone who has?"
Keep going, by 60 you will be straight..  |
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Plenty of men and women come out gay after being in heterosexual relationships, so actually wanting to experiment with your own sexuality isn’t so strange.
A colleague of mine who was married once, then in a gay relationship, now thinks he could be bisexual.
You are who you are, go for it and see if you like it.  |
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Yes I go through bicurious cycles for women, currently not in one at this time. It came quite late for me, started at 39. It is why I joined originally on my first profile. I was close to having MMFs, was in discussions, but I never did.
A bi MMF is the most likely way I would do it though. I have always been relaxed and accepted being gay, came to terms with it young, so like you came as a surprise for me too.
I do wish I was full blown bi though naturally as so many beautiful women out there and it would double my choices. You cannot force or rush these things though, let it take its course
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"I think the best thing would be for me to start experimenting would be to try a mmf threesome."
Yes make sure the other man is bi though. I would feel awkward doing it with a straight man, even though I got invites from them for their ladies. Bi man is the best way so he can get you going at the start, would be awkward if you are not revved up and the lady is disappointed, she is not an object of experimentation, she will need fun too. These were just my thoughts when I was going through it |
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Life's a journey
I've been straight, gay, bi and all stops in between at some point
Curious is a good term because I am very curious about sexual dynamics between people |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I think the best thing would be for me to start experimenting would be to try a mmf threesome.
Yes make sure the other man is bi though. I would feel awkward doing it with a straight man, even though I got invites from them for their ladies. Bi man is the best way so he can get you going at the start, would be awkward if you are not revved up and the lady is disappointed, she is not an object of experimentation, she will need fun too. These were just my thoughts when I was going through it "
You go with him x |
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"Good to hear from someone who can relate a bit to what I am experiencing. I also would probably start with a MMF threesome. "
I think realising that you may be bisexual as you get older is more common than you think.
I have always found women attractive but because the way I feel about wimen is different, I didn't realise until I was in my 30s.
The best description for me is probably bisexual but heteroromamtic.
Just enjoy exploring... there's no right or wrong way. |
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"Yeah, I would make sure the other guy was bi.
If you use reply + quote we’ll know who you’re replying to xx Thanks. I'm new to the forums."
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"Good to hear from someone who can relate a bit to what I am experiencing. I also would probably start with a MMF threesome.
I think realising that you may be bisexual as you get older is more common than you think.
I have always found women attractive but because the way I feel about wimen is different, I didn't realise until I was in my 30s.
The best description for me is probably bisexual but heteroromamtic.
Just enjoy exploring... there's no right or wrong way. "
I heard the term homoflexible. That may best describe me. Not something I personally would use though. |
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I always loved men since I was a little girl, my dad was 100% my first love , I discovered the attraction to men very early on as much as I can remember to be honest.
Anyway, recently I’ve started to fantasise a bit how it’d be experimenting with another woman, but more in a MF scenario and share a man or two with her, rather than a 1on1 (I don’t think I could ever do that)
I do very much need tho the female energy I get from my closest girlfriends, like trying out new clothes together, hugging each other, watching tv cuddling, squeezing our boobs to compare. Ya know that kinda stuff  |
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"Would identify as bi find women in general attractive but it is only the very occasional guy I would find attractive.
I’d say have fun and try until you se what you like."
Thanks. That's what I'm going to do. |
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Sometimes your sexuality evolves over time. I used to be vastly more attracted to women when I was younger. My attraction to women is definitely more consistent and stable but I have found my attraction to men becoming stronger as I've gotten older though its still somewhat unpredictable. |
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"I didn’t touch my first man until I was 42…
Very quickly lost interest in women after that.  "
Is that because you thought you needed to fulfil a 'role' by being 'straight' before and now, you're being straight in the sense of who you feel you've been all along? |
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"I didn’t touch my first man until I was 42…
Very quickly lost interest in women after that.
Is that because you thought you needed to fulfil a 'role' by being 'straight' before and now, you're being straight in the sense of who you feel you've been all along?"
I guess I just tried to be what people expected me to be.
I knew I wasn’t gay. Knew who I should be but didn’t know how to be. |
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