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"you're all about the deep questions this morning OP.
he hurt me, and didn't care.
i retaliated, and didn't care.
and that's the story in balamory.
Px "
Well I tend to think of random shit when I wake myself up around 3am each morning   lol.
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We had a child together and he was cheating on me. We split up, he apologised, I fell for it, he kept cheating on me. I arranged it so we'd remain amicable for our sons sake, he'd pay my half of any loans we had together instead of him paying child maintenance to me - instead he went bankrupt, didn't tell me and left me with all the debt and no child maintenance. At the time he still saw our son, however 7 years on from when he last dropped him home and said "I'll get him in 2 weeks" we haven't seen nor heard from him.
I prefer it this way, as does my son who now looks at my husband as dad for being there for 13 of his 16 years.
The guy is the epitome of a waste of space. We live and learn! |
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She was visiting London from her home in Paris at short notice and was pissed off that I couldn’t put her up and spend a long weekend with her.
I was off to South of France for a cycle holiday.
She went berserk on the phone.
I do attract them. No more dating for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He ghosted me and broke what little of my heart I'd repaired from my split with my ex"
I hate ghosters! My first bf ghosted me after a year and a half together and plans and it broke me, I still am scarred about people leaving without saying anything and it terrifies me! X
Sorry that arsehole didn’t have the balls to close the chapter with you properly. And have some respect
My last one broke things off with me because he wasn’t over his ex Mrs, and then we had 5-6 months of back and forth till I had enough and said no more, I’m worth more than these shitty breadcrumbs.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What was the reason why the last person you dated stop pursuing each other?"
He bl@ckmailed me into an abortion (not being there was the breaking point) but to rub salt into the wound, he told me I shouldn't have gone ahead and done it!
How heartless can one human being be.
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His wife was unaware they were supposedly separated. One thing I'm thankful for lockdown for, no hiding behind working away to give cover for living a double life.
Yeah, bye, sort that shit out and leave me alone. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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He could be rather controlling at times, gaslighted me so I'd have to check what was actually said a lot which really makes you question things! It got to the point where I'd search to make sure I wasn't going mad/being an awful bitch and imagining things.
Long periods of silence (like days) but would get annoyed/make comments if I didn't reply within a set timeframe. Disliked me talking to others but had no problem last minute letting me know about socials with others or prioritizing fab meets over me.
I just think we weren't that compatible really; maybe something about me brought out the negative in him? Who knows. He wasn't a bad man. We just weren't right together. |
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"He could be rather controlling at times, gaslighted me so I'd have to check what was actually said a lot which really makes you question things! It got to the point where I'd search to make sure I wasn't going mad/being an awful bitch and imagining things.
Long periods of silence (like days) but would get annoyed/make comments if I didn't reply within a set timeframe. Disliked me talking to others but had no problem last minute letting me know about socials with others or prioritizing fab meets over me.
I just think we weren't that compatible really; maybe something about me brought out the negative in him? Who knows. He wasn't a bad man. We just weren't right together."
Controlling people are one of the WORST! Like 100%
And totally get also them ones who would ask you to be present but they have the balls to disappear for days. Like , no, thank you!! |
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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago
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We dated for 12 weeks, things were going really well. Then I got the text, it's not you it's me
I ran into him a few months later, asked what happened as I was curious. He said that things were going so well it was messing with his anxiety waiting for me to be a bitch in some way 
I'm just me, can't be anyone else. Turns out I dodged a bullet anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He had an alcohol and co*e problem and was just going around in circles. I had to just cut ties.
And before that, father of my 2 boys, cheated while I was pregnant (and very ill) on our youngest. And when I say cheated I mean there were dozens of women and prostitutes. A sex addict who would literally shag anyone who would let him.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dated for a year and I called it off. Lovely girl but just didn't feel right and I couldn't put my finger on it. I loved her but wasn't "in love" with her. As I'm an all or nothing type of guy I'm now pretty much resigned to the fact I may never settle down (which really sucks for a guy that wants a family!  ) |
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He was alright in the sense of I've had alot worse but he was completely socially inept, especially around my family, only showed affection when he was d*unk, I was left pretty much paying for everything we did together and the sex life was abysmal. I swore to myself that I'd be alot stricter with my standards after that one! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She had a behaviour pattern that hurt me. Over 13 years or so the behaviour pattern became more and more part of every day life. Every time I challenged it there was a reason given outside of her control for the behaviour. I spent years asking for counselling but she refused. I cheated, had a breakdown and left.
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"He ghosted me and broke what little of my heart I'd repaired from my split with my ex"
Same, I was ghosted. I should of know better as there were warning signs and he was in the military. Was never going to work  |
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She was going up the relationship escalator so fast we'd have been launched off the top and gone into orbit.
I, on the other hand, wanted to actually enjoy my life, so I let her go. No regrets. It just meant breaking her heart sooner rather than later. |
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She was lovely. Genuinely and in many ways people would think I was mad for ending it. But there was no “whoosh”. I had to lead with everything, sexually, and I was tired of that, I didn’t want someone I had to mould to my desires, I wanted someone fully formed with their own desires.
In the end I was honest but hopefully kind. Do I regret it? No not really. You can’t be half-hearted in these things and you should set someone free and enable them to find the right person, rather than stringing them along until someone else turns your head. |
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Have to ask him? Last i heard he would see me soon after staying the night he seems to be a ghost! Silly me letting someone get close again. Lol His loss anyway! Theirs plenty more winkles in the world. Hahaha   |
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over a year ago
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"She was lovely. Genuinely and in many ways people would think I was mad for ending it. But there was no “whoosh”. I had to lead with everything, sexually, and I was tired of that, I didn’t want someone I had to mould to my desires, I wanted someone fully formed with their own desires.
In the end I was honest but hopefully kind. Do I regret it? No not really. You can’t be half-hearted in these things and you should set someone free and enable them to find the right person, rather than stringing them along until someone else turns your head. "
 you are a good guy ! X you have done the right thing for the both of ya x |
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but she was just too needy. I like independent people 
