So tonight I decided to bite the bullet and upload a completely unfiltered photo of my stomach that is covered in stretch marks and not taut due to being a mum. It’s been a mixed bag of responses!
Every meet we’ve had so far, I make sure I wear lingerie that covers my stomach.. however I really love completely naked sex but feel too self conscious to strip off!
My question to everyone is.. would you find someone attractive that had a lot of stretch marks? Are they a turn off? Does a ‘mum tum’ make a woman less desirable?
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Firstly you look absolutely beautiful.
Secondly, a very well done on posting the photo, I know how difficult it will of been for you as I feel the same about my ugly scar on my stomach.
Thirdly, I would get naked with you any day of the week
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"So tonight I decided to bite the bullet and upload a completely unfiltered photo of my stomach that is covered in stretch marks and not taut due to being a mum. It’s been a mixed bag of responses!
Every meet we’ve had so far, I make sure I wear lingerie that covers my stomach.. however I really love completely naked sex but feel too self conscious to strip off!
My question to everyone is.. would you find someone attractive that had a lot of stretch marks? Are they a turn off? Does a ‘mum tum’ make a woman less desirable?
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I also love naked sex but find that, at least initially, most women like to hide their mummy bellies and stretch marks.
I consider it one of my roles to try to convince a lady that she is beautiful naked. The comfort and relief I usually see when women can be desired while nude is very gratifying.  |
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Your pics all look stunning, we all have "real" bodies that have lived in. For years I hated taking my shirt off because I have some stretch marks that date back to when I was quite a bit bigger. However now, as I have got older, I'm in the mindset of it's my body, I've lived in it, and I'm going to do what I like with it. |
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A mum tum is beautiful because it provided a home for a rug rat.
Stretch marks do not bother me in the slightest, I think it's fantastic that more women are having the courage and confidence to show off their bodies.
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over a year ago
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I have a thing for stretch marks. Idk why but they just work for me
Unfortunately social media has driven the bad connotations of stretch marks and now a lot of women are self conscious of them which is quite sad tbh. They're natural and you should be happy to show them off, good on you |
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"So tonight I decided to bite the bullet and upload a completely unfiltered photo of my stomach that is covered in stretch marks and not taut due to being a mum. It’s been a mixed bag of responses!
Every meet we’ve had so far, I make sure I wear lingerie that covers my stomach.. however I really love completely naked sex but feel too self conscious to strip off!
My question to everyone is.. would you find someone attractive that had a lot of stretch marks? Are they a turn off? Does a ‘mum tum’ make a woman less desirable?
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We both think you’re super sexy. Get naked, be happy and show off that sexy bod. |
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In a word no. You are very sexy. I’m a male who is 6ft 5” and obviously not gone through the joy/tribulations of child birth but still have plenty of stretch marks due to my height. We all have a marks which makes us unique ?? |
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Amazing how many men also have stretch marks… I myself try and see the approach of how I see them on other people… and the answer is… who cares! NOBODY is perfect.
I enjoy the person and their company |
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"Firstly you look absolutely beautiful.
Secondly, a very well done on posting the photo, I know how difficult it will of been for you as I feel the same about my ugly scar on my stomach.
Thirdly, I would get naked with you any day of the week
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Thank you 
You are so kind!
You should know how gorgeous you are and that body of yours is banging!
I would happily lay naked with you too  x |
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over a year ago
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i think tiger stripes are fucking incredible.
wear them with pride.
mine are silver and purple and trust me, aren't just reserved for the stomach 
the ones who have an issue, aren't the ones you should be meeting in the first place.
you're amazing  Px |
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Glorious pic OP 
Personally I really like tiger stripes and when I find them I'll often play or touch them if whoever owns them is OK with me doing so, marks and scars on a body are a beautiful thing and show your body has been doing whatever it needs to.
As has been said above, be proud of them and anyone who doesn't appreciate them doesn't deserve to get to see them.
Enjoy naked sex with your whole body on show as you've got a fabulous figure, be proud of you |
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Absolutely fantastic, and good on you for doing that! How did it make you feel once the pic was up on public view??
I sometimes throw in a random pic of myself, one that steps out of my comfort zone and makes me feel very vulnerable I guess! Thank you for inspiring me to do that again, my mum tum is here to stay, so I need to start embracing it I think  |
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"So tonight I decided to bite the bullet and upload a completely unfiltered photo of my stomach that is covered in stretch marks and not taut due to being a mum. It’s been a mixed bag of responses!
Every meet we’ve had so far, I make sure I wear lingerie that covers my stomach.. however I really love completely naked sex but feel too self conscious to strip off!
My question to everyone is.. would you find someone attractive that had a lot of stretch marks? Are they a turn off? Does a ‘mum tum’ make a woman less desirable?
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Looked at and fabbed your picture. You look lovely and I would happily be naked with you
Stretch marks and mum tums are a natural part of life and don’t affect how desirable a woman is to me. I can understand why people are self conscious about them (I’m self conscious about my tummy) but they aren’t a turn off at all as far as I’m concerned |
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You look incredible!!
I wish I had the confidence to uncover my stretch mark covered tum  I have no issues with stretch marks on the rest of me, will happily show arms and legs, just not my tum...
Anyway can I say again you look amazing!
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"So tonight I decided to bite the bullet and upload a completely unfiltered photo of my stomach that is covered in stretch marks and not taut due to being a mum. It’s been a mixed bag of responses!
Every meet we’ve had so far, I make sure I wear lingerie that covers my stomach.. however I really love completely naked sex but feel too self conscious to strip off!
My question to everyone is.. would you find someone attractive that had a lot of stretch marks? Are they a turn off? Does a ‘mum tum’ make a woman less desirable?
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I get it.
I hate mine with a passion and do not do naked always some form of lingerie to cover up bits.
On others it doesn’t bother me at all! Would never not meet and I’ve never had any complaints either..it seems what we see about ourselves isn’t what others see...
We also need to remember there more to us than mum tum and stretch marks/scarring
You are beautiful.xx |
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over a year ago
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I get it. I have a full frontal that shows my mum tum and stretch marks. I was nervous uploading it but it actually made me more confident in person. It’s still my least favourite part of my body but I’ve found that it doesn’t really seem to bother guys that I’ve met. |
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Brave OP.
If it's a boundary you've pushed, great, fabulous!
I've been lucky with very few stretch marks, even yo-yo dieted didn't give me the stripes - I'll always cover up the belly though. Plus I spend a lot of money on lingerie and play clothes for sex!
Naked definitely isn't for me ... |
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"So tonight I decided to bite the bullet and upload a completely unfiltered photo of my stomach that is covered in stretch marks and not taut due to being a mum. It’s been a mixed bag of responses!
Every meet we’ve had so far, I make sure I wear lingerie that covers my stomach.. however I really love completely naked sex but feel too self conscious to strip off!
My question to everyone is.. would you find someone attractive that had a lot of stretch marks? Are they a turn off? Does a ‘mum tum’ make a woman less desirable?
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I fabbed your picture as there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. If I have a mental connection with someone the body is not important. It’s part and parcel of the whole package. |
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Good for you. I know it takes a lot to show a picture. I have the same issue. If anyone likes the rest of us they're not put off by the tummy. P.s I haven't had kids. |
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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago
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I'd do ya.
I've got wicked stretch marks, no one has ever mentioned them other than two guys that really liked them. I've had a couple of conversations where guys have just shrugged and said they focus on the bits they DO like (with a grin in place)
They're not going anywhere so you may as well learn to yourself X |
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Hi guys, I’ve not been at home so I couldn’t log on to fab to read your comments until just now. Sorry for the delay!
Honestly, I'm blown away by the lovely comments from you all! I wasn’t expecting such a reaction and it’s actually made me feel quite emotional!
Thank you.. you’ve really helped someone’s confidence grow today and I will look at myself a little kinder from now on x |
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"Hi guys, I’ve not been at home so I couldn’t log on to fab to read your comments until just now. Sorry for the delay!
Honestly, I'm blown away by the lovely comments from you all! I wasn’t expecting such a reaction and it’s actually made me feel quite emotional!
Thank you.. you’ve really helped someone’s confidence grow today and I will look at myself a little kinder from now on x"
Sorry, mate to the mix, but I would kiss every single one of them. You look amazing and should be proud of your body |
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I honestly don't even take much notice when I see stretch marks on someone else. And that's why I've embraced my flaws more over the last year or so, because we are our own worst critic.
You look fantastic in your photos!! And you should always get naked because I promise your stretch marks won't make the experience less enjoyable. I think being more accepting about this kind of thing makes sex even better. |
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