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"Do you regard yourself as a submissive man or have a side that's submissive that sometimes comes out? As a submissive man do you like humiliation, degradation, pain, bdsm, impact play, cock cages, pegging, rough, or are you more sensual? Or something else? I'm curious. " I'm not at all submissive, or dominant either. I do enjoy pegging though, just none of the less sensual stuff that often goes with it (humiliation, aggression, feminisation etc...) I don't mind being told what to do sometimes, but that's all. Cal | |||
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"Do you regard yourself as a submissive man or have a side that's submissive that sometimes comes out? As a submissive man do you like humiliation, degradation, pain, bdsm, impact play, cock cages, pegging, rough, or are you more sensual? Or something else? I'm curious. " I occasionally enjoy being submissive for sensual play and some rough stuff but nothing too extreme. I think it's because I have to make decision and be quite authoritive in my professional life, so it allows me to escape. | |||
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 I'm very much on the sensual side of things. Until I'm not  | |||
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"I would say that, if I was to be described in shipping forecast terms, I'm submissive veering neutral/equal. I do enjoy impact play and being pegged. But not roughly. I would argue that it is completely possible to be spanked, if not gently, then in a gentle, sensual way. I like Teasing, edging, being touched but not being allowed to touch. That kind of thing I'm very much on the sensual side of things. Until I'm not " me too | |||
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"Do you regard yourself as a submissive man or have a side that's submissive that sometimes comes out? As a submissive man do you like humiliation, degradation, pain, bdsm, impact play, cock cages, pegging, rough, or are you more sensual? Or something else? I'm curious. " I would say that being pegged isn’t necessarily submissive in its own right | |||
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"No, I am way too controlled to be submissive The thought of someone taking any of that control away, physically or otherwise, is terrifying to me Giving that control readily or easily is not a possibility for me, even with trust" Whilst I am not controlling of others, my phobias relating to relinquishing any control often dictates that I am better suited to those who are willing to be brought along for the ride as opposed to those who like to be in the driving seat | |||
"Do you regard yourself as a submissive man or have a side that's submissive that sometimes comes out? As a submissive man do you like humiliation, degradation, pain, bdsm, impact play, cock cages, pegging, rough, or are you more sensual? Or something else? I'm curious. I would say that being pegged isn’t necessarily submissive in its own right" Neither are some of the other things I listed. | |||
"Do you regard yourself as a submissive man or have a side that's submissive that sometimes comes out? As a submissive man do you like humiliation, degradation, pain, bdsm, impact play, cock cages, pegging, rough, or are you more sensual? Or something else? I'm curious. I would say that being pegged isn’t necessarily submissive in its own right Neither are some of the other things I listed. " Some would say everything listed could be submissive, some would say not Submission can also be about pleasing and following direction and guidance | |||
"Do you regard yourself as a submissive man or have a side that's submissive that sometimes comes out? As a submissive man do you like humiliation, degradation, pain, bdsm, impact play, cock cages, pegging, rough, or are you more sensual? Or something else? I'm curious. " I would definitely say I was submissive with male ,female and couples and very much enjoy being submissive and have explored this a fair bit. I have met a couple a number of times now that I met off fet*life. I take the submissive role and let them dominate me and control the meets fully , we have explored bi mmf , chastity, pegging , cuckold where she was fucked by her husband and a guy they brought in and I kept the guys happy while she got ready then after was on clean up ,licking he pussy clean and not stopping till she orgasmed . I have also found when talking to girls now more often than not they ask if I would be up for ass play more focused on me | |||
"Do you regard yourself as a submissive man or have a side that's submissive that sometimes comes out? As a submissive man do you like humiliation, degradation, pain, bdsm, impact play, cock cages, pegging, rough, or are you more sensual? Or something else? I'm curious. I would say that being pegged isn’t necessarily submissive in its own right Neither are some of the other things I listed. Some would say everything listed could be submissive, some would say not Submission can also be about pleasing and following direction and guidance " I would suggest that power exchange might be the determining factor as to whether submission is involved or not? | |||
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"Do you regard yourself as a submissive man or have a side that's submissive that sometimes comes out? As a submissive man do you like humiliation, degradation, pain, bdsm, impact play, cock cages, pegging, rough, or are you more sensual? Or something else? I'm curious. " I switch. Whether I'm dominant, submissive or in between depends entirely on the dynamic with the person at the time. Generally speaking I'm called upon to dominate my partners, presumably because I'm so fucking big. Getting to sub is a rare treat for me. Two important notes about submission for me, though: – I'm submissive, not masochistic. Pain does nothing for me. Waaay too many people conflate those two things. – BDSM is *inherently* sexual for me. It's *foreplay*. An attractive and assertive woman making me her sex sl*ve, cruelly using me for her gratification, and then casting me aside when done? Great, amazing, let's go. Putting me in a cock cage, making me clean their kitchen, and then that's all? Not for me, I'm sorry. | |||
"Do you regard yourself as a submissive man or have a side that's submissive that sometimes comes out? As a submissive man do you like humiliation, degradation, pain, bdsm, impact play, cock cages, pegging, rough, or are you more sensual? Or something else? I'm curious. I switch. Whether I'm dominant, submissive or in between depends entirely on the dynamic with the person at the time. Generally speaking I'm called upon to dominate my partners, presumably because I'm so fucking big. Getting to sub is a rare treat for me. Two important notes about submission for me, though: – I'm submissive, not masochistic. Pain does nothing for me. Waaay too many people conflate those two things. – BDSM is *inherently* sexual for me. It's *foreplay*. An attractive and assertive woman making me her sex sl*ve, cruelly using me for her gratification, and then casting me aside when done? Great, amazing, let's go. Putting me in a cock cage, making me clean their kitchen, and then that's all? Not for me, I'm sorry. " Nice response! I wouldn't make someone clean for me with nothing in return. | |||
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"Do you regard yourself as a submissive man or have a side that's submissive that sometimes comes out? As a submissive man do you like humiliation, degradation, pain, bdsm, impact play, cock cages, pegging, rough, or are you more sensual? Or something else? I'm curious. I switch. Whether I'm dominant, submissive or in between depends entirely on the dynamic with the person at the time. Generally speaking I'm called upon to dominate my partners, presumably because I'm so fucking big. Getting to sub is a rare treat for me. Two important notes about submission for me, though: – I'm submissive, not masochistic. Pain does nothing for me. Waaay too many people conflate those two things. – BDSM is *inherently* sexual for me. It's *foreplay*. An attractive and assertive woman making me her sex sl*ve, cruelly using me for her gratification, and then casting me aside when done? Great, amazing, let's go. Putting me in a cock cage, making me clean their kitchen, and then that's all? Not for me, I'm sorry. Nice response! I wouldn't make someone clean for me with nothing in return. " For some the pleasure got from pleasing or being of use is the only return they need it's what makes it all fascinating | |||
"Do you regard yourself as a submissive man or have a side that's submissive that sometimes comes out? As a submissive man do you like humiliation, degradation, pain, bdsm, impact play, cock cages, pegging, rough, or are you more sensual? Or something else? I'm curious. " Slightly and sensual... basically want to please,I don't require anything in return to get off. | |||
"Do you regard yourself as a submissive man or have a side that's submissive that sometimes comes out? As a submissive man do you like humiliation, degradation, pain, bdsm, impact play, cock cages, pegging, rough, or are you more sensual? Or something else? I'm curious. " Don’t forget: Service submissives / Maids Sissification / forced fem CBT Paypiggies Boot blackers / leather fetishists Rubber cult / sex dollies CFNM fans | |||
"Do you regard yourself as a submissive man or have a side that's submissive that sometimes comes out? As a submissive man do you like humiliation, degradation, pain, bdsm, impact play, cock cages, pegging, rough, or are you more sensual? Or something else? I'm curious. I switch. Whether I'm dominant, submissive or in between depends entirely on the dynamic with the person at the time. Generally speaking I'm called upon to dominate my partners, presumably because I'm so fucking big. Getting to sub is a rare treat for me. Two important notes about submission for me, though: – I'm submissive, not masochistic. Pain does nothing for me. Waaay too many people conflate those two things. – BDSM is *inherently* sexual for me. It's *foreplay*. An attractive and assertive woman making me her sex sl*ve, cruelly using me for her gratification, and then casting me aside when done? Great, amazing, let's go. Putting me in a cock cage, making me clean their kitchen, and then that's all? Not for me, I'm sorry. Nice response! I wouldn't make someone clean for me with nothing in return. For some the pleasure got from pleasing or being of use is the only return they need it's what makes it all fascinating "
For some, the person who gains control is the one who gets, the person who hands over control gives.
For others its a more level playing field of give and take.
Its why you need to find people who you are compatible with. | |||
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"Do you regard yourself as a submissive man or have a side that's submissive that sometimes comes out? As a submissive man do you like humiliation, degradation, pain, bdsm, impact play, cock cages, pegging, rough, or are you more sensual? Or something else? I'm curious. I switch. Whether I'm dominant, submissive or in between depends entirely on the dynamic with the person at the time. Generally speaking I'm called upon to dominate my partners, presumably because I'm so fucking big. Getting to sub is a rare treat for me. Two important notes about submission for me, though: – I'm submissive, not masochistic. Pain does nothing for me. Waaay too many people conflate those two things. – BDSM is *inherently* sexual for me. It's *foreplay*. An attractive and assertive woman making me her sex sl*ve, cruelly using me for her gratification, and then casting me aside when done? Great, amazing, let's go. Putting me in a cock cage, making me clean their kitchen, and then that's all? Not for me, I'm sorry. Nice response! I wouldn't make someone clean for me with nothing in return. For some the pleasure got from pleasing or being of use is the only return they need it's what makes it all fascinating
For some, the person who gains control is the one who gets, the person who hands over control gives.
For others its a more level playing field of give and take.
Its why you need to find people who you are compatible with."Yes, quite right. Other people experience and express their submission differently, and it's all equally valid. I was merely talking about my own personal relationship with it, which is by no means representative of anyone else's! | |||
I do find fab is not a great platform for submissive males unfortunately  | |||
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"I've been a submissive for years now and enjoy so many aspects of the role. From BDSM to domestic duties it's all great fen really
I do find fab is not a great platform for submissive males unfortunately "You've got some fantastic pics btw x | |||
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Loves getting humiliated some light bdsm some times out the cock cage on him, and to finish him of a rough pegging | |||
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This time next week it might be the other way around | |||
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"Do you regard yourself as a submissive man or have a side that's submissive that sometimes comes out? As a submissive man do you like humiliation, degradation, pain, bdsm, impact play, cock cages, pegging, rough, or are you more sensual? Or something else? I'm curious. Don’t forget: Service submissives / Maids Sissification / forced fem CBT Paypiggies Boot blackers / leather fetishists Rubber cult / sex dollies CFNM fans " Boot blackers? What is this? | |||
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"Do you regard yourself as a submissive man or have a side that's submissive that sometimes comes out? As a submissive man do you like humiliation, degradation, pain, bdsm, impact play, cock cages, pegging, rough, or are you more sensual? Or something else? I'm curious. Don’t forget: Service submissives / Maids Sissification / forced fem CBT Paypiggies Boot blackers / leather fetishists Rubber cult / sex dollies CFNM fans Boot blackers? What is this?" Urban Dictionary states - a shoe polisher..... | |||
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"Do you regard yourself as a submissive man or have a side that's submissive that sometimes comes out? As a submissive man do you like humiliation, degradation, pain, bdsm, impact play, cock cages, pegging, rough, or are you more sensual? Or something else? I'm curious. Don’t forget: Service submissives / Maids Sissification / forced fem CBT Paypiggies Boot blackers / leather fetishists Rubber cult / sex dollies CFNM fans Boot blackers? What is this? Urban Dictionary states - a shoe polisher....." Thats what Google came up with too....dont see where the sexual stimulation comes from with this act? | |||
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