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Why do a lot of women skip the guys who don’t go clubs but can bring club fun to the bedroom?
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I don't think a man could bring club fun to the bedroom.
Has he a crowd of people to chat to, a variety of people to have sex with, plenty of differently decorated bedrooms, a jacuzzi, dungeon, dancefloor etc |
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over a year ago
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"Just an observation I noticed on here but I suppose some ppl feel safer in numbers can’t blame anyone these days"
That's definitely a factor. 
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"I don't think a man could bring club fun to the bedroom.
Has he a crowd of people to chat to, a variety of people to have sex with, plenty of differently decorated bedrooms, a jacuzzi, dungeon, dancefloor etc"
This is true.
And there is a communal energy in a club. You are surrounded by others fucking, the noises of sex is all you can hear, you are aware of everyone and of no one. At the end of the night there is a surge of energy and emotions and its magical |
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How does a woman bring club fun to the bedroom? Does she charge you a gender-biased entry fee and limit the times you're allowed in? Is the comfortable bed with real sheets and pillows replaced with a judo mat? |
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"Mainly a question for straight or bi woman "
Unless you go to clubs and not just one time and not just one club you will never know as a couple we like the variety and the party atmosphere sees all the sexy people have fun just gets the blood going.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I often see posts regarding people that are excluded for whatever reason.
Me I Focus on the ladies who fit my criteria.. its a waste of energy focussing on those who do not."
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"I’m going to say security, if the guy turns into a nutter in the bedroom then unlike in a club there is no one there to stop him "
It can partly be about security but also it's just a completely different experience and environment in a club so I guess it just depends what you are looking for. |
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Clubs are a good place to meet as there is no pressure to play. If you don't connect there are others to try your luck with. The person you meet will have been vetted as ID is required for membership. There are staff and fellow swingers that can see if something is getting to "hairy". If you get stood up you can play with others.
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"Can that same man also ensure there are people around to step in if consent is withdrawn?
Or give me an easy away to get away if I decide not to go ahead with the meet? "
can’t speak for others but any female in my presence will have my 100 backing against any foul play |
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"Clubs are a good place to meet as there is no pressure to play. If you don't connect there are others to try your luck with. The person you meet will have been vetted as ID is required for membership. There are staff and fellow swingers that can see if something is getting to "hairy". If you get stood up you can play with others.
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thanks mite consider one day somewhere away from my normal surroundings |
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By *utie91Woman
over a year ago
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I prefer clubs. Great atmosphere, great people.
If you meet somebody at the club and don’t feel up for it then there is no pressure and you can both look for fun elsewhere.
A lot more options.
And clubs are safer as other members will help and protect you if things go wrong. |
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