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By *adyJayne OP Woman
over a year ago
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So, I'm finally getting the gastric bypass surgery that I've been waiting for.
(I don't want or need judgement/opinions on my reasoning for it. I'm doing it for me, my health and my happiness)...
But... It's going to be a while before I can afford the additional surgery that will need to follow... So tummy tuck/boob job....
Would you be put off meeting someone who had excess skin?
Would you be put off meeting someone who kept that skin contained (in a club/bedroom situation) with sexy lingerie or latex wear that wouldn't be removed during fun? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've just looked at your pictures and you look gorgeous. And I'm not just saying.
To answer your question though, I have net someone that had excess skin after losing a fair amount of weight. It's just part of the person and their journey in life. I think lots would meet you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I lost a significant amount of weight about 7 years ago and have lose skin on my tummy. I am booked in for a fleur de lys tummy tuck in March and after that will sort out lose skin on my boobs, I don't want breast augmentation surgery.
In answer to your question I have never had any negative comments regarding my tummy from lovers.
Good luck to you OP, its an exciting yet nervous journey as I know only too well.
NBVN x |
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OP I asked a similar question a long time ago as I'd lost a lot of weight.
Most people said it wouldn't bother them. A few said they prefer the fat.
So the true answer is do what you want to for yourself and no one else  |
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I met a chap who had lost a considerable amount of weight following a gastric surgery.
He had managed to work out the best positions and stuff so that the loose skin wasn’t even something that needed to be considered. I don’t think it’s an issue.
Good luck op. Hope everything goes as well as it can possibly go x |
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By *an4funMan
over a year ago
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I think threads like this would benefit from a poll functionality where the OP sets the question and the choices for answers. We all get one vote which would be anonymous.
You would get a more accurate idea of what the majority thinks. The vast majority of responses, otherwise, will be, "no, it really doesn't bother me. It's the connection plus you look great" etc etc |
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I love your body but respect your choice all the best with it. I know plenty it's worked well for.
As a lover or lingerie and latex, a woman keeping it on wouldn't bother me a joy. It'd be a bonus. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think threads like this would benefit from a poll functionality where the OP sets the question and the choices for answers. We all get one vote which would be anonymous.
You would get a more accurate idea of what the majority thinks. The vast majority of responses, otherwise, will be, "no, it really doesn't bother me. It's the connection plus you look great" etc etc"
How would that help though?
The majority of men wouldn't touch me with someone else's cock. 2 men would and do and that's cool. Why would I need to know about the other 20 trillion? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think threads like this would benefit from a poll functionality where the OP sets the question and the choices for answers. We all get one vote which would be anonymous.
You would get a more accurate idea of what the majority thinks. The vast majority of responses, otherwise, will be, "no, it really doesn't bother me. It's the connection plus you look great" etc etc"
Why would you want anonymous bunch of strangers tell you what to do.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think threads like this would benefit from a poll functionality where the OP sets the question and the choices for answers. We all get one vote which would be anonymous.
You would get a more accurate idea of what the majority thinks. The vast majority of responses, otherwise, will be, "no, it really doesn't bother me. It's the connection plus you look great" etc etc
Why would you want anonymous bunch of strangers tell you what to do...."
And how to feel about yourself. People can make you feel so crap finding you at your vulnerable time. |
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By *an4funMan
over a year ago
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"I think threads like this would benefit from a poll functionality where the OP sets the question and the choices for answers. We all get one vote which would be anonymous.
You would get a more accurate idea of what the majority thinks. The vast majority of responses, otherwise, will be, "no, it really doesn't bother me. It's the connection plus you look great" etc etc
Why would you want anonymous bunch of strangers tell you what to do...."
Nobody would be telling anyone what to do. It's a poll. More accurate than the platitudes that will be posted |
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By *an4funMan
over a year ago
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"I think threads like this would benefit from a poll functionality where the OP sets the question and the choices for answers. We all get one vote which would be anonymous.
You would get a more accurate idea of what the majority thinks. The vast majority of responses, otherwise, will be, "no, it really doesn't bother me. It's the connection plus you look great" etc etc
Why would you want anonymous bunch of strangers tell you what to do....
And how to feel about yourself. People can make you feel so crap finding you at your vulnerable time. "
If I am not prepared to hear harsh realities then I wouldn't ask the question.
When I ask a question I want to hear truths as I am sure most people do. Don't they? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Keeping an eye on this post as I’m awaiting a bariatric referral myself for after I’ve managed to loose some myself.
My best friend had a sleeve gastrectomy and she’s gone from 32 stone to about 13. She’s had to have so many ops after for her skin though. She’s like a patchwork doll. I can send you her IG privately if you want to see pics and progress. The unfortunate thing about these surgeries is the weight comes off so fast as opposed to loosing it gradually. You’ll always be left with loose skin  .
Wishing you well with your journey OP and anyone else on this road. Xx |
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By *adyJayne OP Woman
over a year ago
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"When I ask a question I want to hear truths as I am sure most people do. Don't they?"
Thanks your your answers so far guys but this is spot on...
I enjoy going to clubs and the last thing I want is to feel all false confidence turning up because of this thread and then be done kind of flappy skinned pariah all night 
I wasn't expecting such a love in, which is nice, and appreciated, especially from such a gorgeous bunch... Made me feel quite  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not in the slightest would it bother me
Size isn't really a thing for me in general as I'm much more interested in playing with people i enjoy being around in the first place..nothing turns me on more than smiles and knowing someones enjoying themself when we meet.
Besides which i have my own experience of the issue that's troubling the OP..a bit of loosened particularly around the tops of the legs and to a much lesser extent in my stomach from losing 12st just over 10 years ago.
I can't speak for anyone else but its never really bothered me and its probably not as much as i perceive it to be due to the exercise regime during my weight loss and the exercise and my enduring love of cycling.
OP.. your gorgeous now and you'll be gorgeous after. |
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