I am planning on joining a dating 'fetish' site and I am terrible at writing profiles not sure if it's me or a man thing lol
Let me know if this sounds OK so far?
'Hello my name is Chris, I am a friendly and kind guy, who enjoys relaxing evenings in enjoying a good film...
I Like to travel when possible, I can be shy to start off with but become more open and relaxed when I get to know people..
I enjoy watersports but not had much experience.'
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe have a look at other men's profiles and get some ideas from what they have written. 
I'm shit at profiles. I prefer to chat to the person like a human being, not a tick box. But it seems I'm in the minority.  |
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"Maybe have a look at other men's profiles and get some ideas from what they have written.
I'm shit at profiles. I prefer to chat to the person like a human being, not a tick box. But it seems I'm in the minority. "
You're also a single female so it matters not what your profile is like whenever you choose to make it public, you'll still get interest
Frank |
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"Maybe have a look at other men's profiles and get some ideas from what they have written.
I'm shit at profiles. I prefer to chat to the person like a human being, not a tick box. But it seems I'm in the minority.
You're also a single female so it matters not what your profile is like whenever you choose to make it public, you'll still get interest
Frank"
Yeah I get messages even with no pics and 'fill in later' text.  |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"I think it sounds fine but it doesn't really stand out. Try to include something funny or interesting to make you a bit more memorable. "
Good advice.
How about;
“I enjoy watersports but not had much experience”….. but I’m hoping to buy a Jet Ski this year  |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"Maybe have a look at other men's profiles and get some ideas from what they have written.
I'm shit at profiles. I prefer to chat to the person like a human being, not a tick box. But it seems I'm in the minority.
You're also a single female so it matters not what your profile is like whenever you choose to make it public, you'll still get interest
Frank"
Men will die of thirst in a desert, whilst woman will die of thirst in the middle of the ocean. They need profiles to stand out more than men ! |
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"I think it sounds fine but it doesn't really stand out. Try to include something funny or interesting to make you a bit more memorable.
Good advice.
How about;
“I enjoy watersports but not had much experience”….. but I’m hoping to buy a Jet Ski this year "
very funny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely pad it out a little more, some interesting snippets of your likes and wants. Something fun and some interesting nuggets of info about you in general. |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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Same applies to all genders,
It should have text and pictures that describe your wants and desires, the words and pictures you use hopefully will entice and create interest from those who have similatlr interests..
if theres little info on there how can anyone know?, If that's the case its likely to get the shotgun approach.
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
OP.... Are you joining a fetish site or a dating site.
I would suggest if its a fetish site you will need to elaborate a lot more on your fetishes, what you like to do, have done, how you like to dress (pvc, leather, studs, collars, masks etc). Master/dom scenarios, pain/no pain, bondage...... Think you get the picture.
If it's a dating site then elaborate on your likes/dislikes and hobbies, holidays, etc xxxxxx just a suggestion xxxx Suzi |
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Again thanks
Yer kinda stuck on the fetish part as really kinda vanilla when it comes to all that. I feel that anything anal these days is normal for example rimming. The only fetish thats an odd one is I enjoy porn with oral sex with uncut men I think this is due to me not having foreskin. Of late I am starting to think I have a fetish on feet but not sure.. But I do look at woman's feet and think how I like to massage them |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
"And yes it's a dating fetish site didn't want to put the site on here just in case it breaks the rules "
For a fetish site I think possibly you may need more experience on the fet scene. Some are very good at guiding novices. But a fet club may be a good start and see whether it really is for you |
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Well I was going to join a regular dating site, but because I do have a fetish I thought I try a fetish dating site.. I have been to 2 fetish clubs but that was years ago and we don't get many in Derby sadly. |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
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"Well I was going to join a regular dating site, but because I do have a fetish I thought I try a fetish dating site.. I have been to 2 fetish clubs but that was years ago and we don't get many in Derby sadly. "
May I suggest joining a dating site as the best option to begin with hun. Then see how things go. Xxxxx |
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"Maybe have a look at other men's profiles and get some ideas from what they have written.
I'm shit at profiles. I prefer to chat to the person like a human being, not a tick box. But it seems I'm in the minority.
You're also a single female so it matters not what your profile is like whenever you choose to make it public, you'll still get interest
Frank
Men will die of thirst in a desert, whilst woman will die of thirst in the middle of the ocean. They need profiles to stand out more than men ! "
Have you typed that out correctly? Are you saying that women need their profiles to stand out more than men? Or have I just read it wrong?
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Thanks for all the tips and advice I have added a bit more info
Hello my name is Chris, I am a friendly and kind guy, who enjoys relaxing evenings in enjoying a good film, a bit of a movie geek I have been collecting autographs for good 20 years and pretty proud of my collection..speaking of geek i do enjoy the odd vintage gaming session.
I Like to travel when possible, been to many countries and have an apartment in Bulgaria.
can be shy to start off with but become more open and relaxed when I get to know people..
I do enjoy watersports but not had much experience. |
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"Thanks for all the tips and advice I have added a bit more info
Hello my name is Chris, I am a friendly and kind guy, who enjoys relaxing evenings in enjoying a good film, a bit of a movie geek I have been collecting autographs for good 20 years and pretty proud of my collection..speaking of geek i do enjoy the odd vintage gaming session.
I Like to travel when possible, been to many countries and have an apartment in Bulgaria.
can be shy to start off with but become more open and relaxed when I get to know people..
I do enjoy watersports but not had much experience."
Have you had any interest yet? |
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"Thanks for all the tips and advice I have added a bit more info
Hello my name is Chris, I am a friendly and kind guy, who enjoys relaxing evenings in enjoying a good film, a bit of a movie geek I have been collecting autographs for good 20 years and pretty proud of my collection..speaking of geek i do enjoy the odd vintage gaming session.
I Like to travel when possible, been to many countries and have an apartment in Bulgaria.
can be shy to start off with but become more open and relaxed when I get to know people..
I do enjoy watersports but not had much experience."
That's more like it. It's no good being intresting, well travelled and having passions in life if you don't tell people.
Obviously it is a fet dating site so you want to communicate that you are there to primarily to date but also a bit more passion and detail about your fetish/s are and what sort of person you are looking (both in terms of dating and fetish). People go on a fet dating site to match dating compatability with their unconventional sexual preferences. |
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"Thanks for all the tips and advice I have added a bit more info
Hello my name is Chris, I am a friendly and kind guy, who enjoys relaxing evenings in enjoying a good film, a bit of a movie geek I have been collecting autographs for good 20 years and pretty proud of my collection..speaking of geek i do enjoy the odd vintage gaming session.
I Like to travel when possible, been to many countries and have an apartment in Bulgaria.
can be shy to start off with but become more open and relaxed when I get to know people..
I do enjoy watersports but not had much experience.
That's more like it. It's no good being intresting, well travelled and having passions in life if you don't tell people.
Obviously it is a fet dating site so you want to communicate that you are there to primarily to date but also a bit more passion and detail about your fetish/s are and what sort of person you are looking (both in terms of dating and fetish). People go on a fet dating site to match dating compatability with their unconventional sexual preferences. "
Thanks, I will add more to it about what I am looking for didn't think of that lol |
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"Thanks for all the tips and advice I have added a bit more info
Hello my name is Chris, I am a friendly and kind guy, who enjoys relaxing evenings in enjoying a good film, a bit of a movie geek I have been collecting autographs for good 20 years and pretty proud of my collection..speaking of geek i do enjoy the odd vintage gaming session.
I Like to travel when possible, been to many countries and have an apartment in Bulgaria.
can be shy to start off with but become more open and relaxed when I get to know people..
I do enjoy watersports but not had much experience.
Have you had any interest yet? "
Not yet fully joined the site...i am waiting till get my profile correct and maybe some new photos.
Plus there is a lady I do like and want to see how things go there as I am not 100% sure if she is single or not |
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