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By *ack688Man
over a year ago
abruzzo Italy (and UK) |
I don’t see Fab as being a specifically fetish/kink site, it’s a part of a lot of peoples wants, but I think plenty of people here are still looking for some good, regular fun sex. |
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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"I don’t see Fab as being a specifically fetish/kink site, it’s a part of a lot of peoples wants, but I think plenty of people here are still looking for some good, regular fun sex. "
Thanks I’m still hoping!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you're in a loving relationship then the vanilla side is there more than the kinkier side. I think it is what keeps are relationship strong. As we keep both very separate. We will play at clubs or away on holiday. But are very much vanilla in are home life. |
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As a couple we get that between ourselves, so we are looking for more variety and something different.
Not to say we don’t do vanilla on meets…it’s not unusually kinky…we look to add elements which tick things off each other’s lists.
One meet, both me and another guy massaged C…she was in heaven… 
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Sensuality and passion are very much on top of my list , bar my liking of group sex …I’m fairly vanilla.
Many of my friends are on the same page, any “deviancies” are occasional treats rather than a way of life. A way of mixing things up a little.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have always wondered when sex stops being vanilla and starts being kinky.
Where is the line?
If you twist a nip are you excluded from the vanilla world?
My personal opinion is that everyone sits somewhere on the kink spectrum.
If you like missionary position but hold your partners hands down at one point ... does that make you kinky? That's restraint!!
Or passionate kissing where you are left gasping for air ... breath play.
Or sliding a silky nightdress over her head ... sensation play you filthy kinkster you!
squirting ... water play
Ejectulation ... cum play... maybe even humiliation play
Some people like more kink than others. Just find the people at your level. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really dislike it being called vanilla because the inference is that it is boring.
Maybe we should call non vanilla ‘marmite sex’ as it’s not for everyone |
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By *ack688Man
over a year ago
abruzzo Italy (and UK) |
"I really dislike it being called vanilla because the inference is that it is boring.
Maybe we should call non vanilla ‘marmite sex’ as it’s not for everyone "
When you’re baking cakes and biscuits, it’s amazing how many recipes have some vanilla in, to the point that you realise how great vanilla is, especially in anything sweet!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Morning Is there anyone else who is just looking for good horny but fairly vanilla sex ? Lots of passionate kissing and foreplay does it for me . Is thus considered too boring for fab ?"
Fab is a swinging site not just a kink site. It attracts people who are into kink as they can be open about it. There are many people who like ‘vanilla’ just as much OP |
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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"Morning Is there anyone else who is just looking for good horny but fairly vanilla sex ? Lots of passionate kissing and foreplay does it for me . Is thus considered too boring for fab ?
Fab is a swinging site not just a kink site. It attracts people who are into kink as they can be open about it. There are many people who like ‘vanilla’ just as much OP"
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"Morning Is there anyone else who is just looking for good horny but fairly vanilla sex ? Lots of passionate kissing and foreplay does it for me . Is thus considered too boring for fab ?"
I think this would be the majority of our club experiences.
Not everyone brings a flogger to a meet. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"Best sex is what some people consider vanilla.
Completely agree  "
Indeed.
Though what is it that people consider vanilla sex?
I can imagine it will have varied means to different people. Is it a case of it viewed as lifeless and emotionless missionary with only a single position? At what point does sex cross over from being vanilla? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really dislike it being called vanilla because the inference is that it is boring.
Maybe we should call non vanilla ‘marmite sex’ as it’s not for everyone "
Um, isn't that anal?  |
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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"Nothing wrong with Vanilla sex at all....
Sometimes it works out better with better results than all the kinky stuff
A good mix of both is healthy also "
Sounds like a good plan xx I’d love a good mix with you !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing wrong with Vanilla sex at all....
Sometimes it works out better with better results than all the kinky stuff
A good mix of both is healthy also
Sounds like a good plan xx I’d love a good mix with you !!"
Charmer you!  |
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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"Nothing wrong with Vanilla sex at all....
Sometimes it works out better with better results than all the kinky stuff
A good mix of both is healthy also
Sounds like a good plan xx I’d love a good mix with you !!
Charmer you! "
I try my best !! I’ve sent you a message if you want to continue the conversation xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Vanilla is just as good as any other spice. Depending on the mood of course.
Definitely xx great pics by the way!! Xx Thank you 
No problem!! Shame I’m unable to message you xxx"
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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"Vanilla is just as good as any other spice. Depending on the mood of course.
Definitely xx great pics by the way!! Xx Thank you
No problem!! Shame I’m unable to message you xxx
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Ok xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Morning Is there anyone else who is just looking for good horny but fairly vanilla sex ? Lots of passionate kissing and foreplay does it for me . Is thus considered too boring for fab ?"
I wouldn't necessarily class what you describe as vanilla... Sensual build up, anticipation and lovemaking is my alternative to your description and is definitely enjoyable and underestimated.
What floats your boat is what you enjoy so don't question it |
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"I really dislike it being called vanilla because the inference is that it is boring.
Maybe we should call non vanilla ‘marmite sex’ as it’s not for everyone "
Omg! Marmite is for toast not sex lol |
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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"Morning Is there anyone else who is just looking for good horny but fairly vanilla sex ? Lots of passionate kissing and foreplay does it for me . Is thus considered too boring for fab ?
I wouldn't necessarily class what you describe as vanilla... Sensual build up, anticipation and lovemaking is my alternative to your description and is definitely enjoyable and underestimated.
What floats your boat is what you enjoy so don't question it "
A nice alternative description xx and you definitely float my boat !! Xxx |
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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"I really dislike it being called vanilla because the inference is that it is boring.
Maybe we should call non vanilla ‘marmite sex’ as it’s not for everyone
Omg! Marmite is for toast not sex lol "
It certainly is xx champagne however .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really dislike it being called vanilla because the inference is that it is boring.
Maybe we should call non vanilla ‘marmite sex’ as it’s not for everyone
Omg! Marmite is for toast not sex lol "
Marmite is for the bin  |
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"I really dislike it being called vanilla because the inference is that it is boring.
Maybe we should call non vanilla ‘marmite sex’ as it’s not for everyone
Omg! Marmite is for toast not sex lol
Marmite is for the bin "
Snogging is not an option if they have just eaten marmite |
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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"I really dislike it being called vanilla because the inference is that it is boring.
Maybe we should call non vanilla ‘marmite sex’ as it’s not for everyone
Omg! Marmite is for toast not sex lol
Marmite is for the bin
Snogging is not an option if they have just eaten marmite "
Good point although some people love it apparently!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really dislike it being called vanilla because the inference is that it is boring.
Maybe we should call non vanilla ‘marmite sex’ as it’s not for everyone
Um, isn't that anal? "
I laughed out loud at that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Morning Is there anyone else who is just looking for good horny but fairly vanilla sex ? Lots of passionate kissing and foreplay does it for me . Is thus considered too boring for fab ?"
There's nothing wrong with plenty of passionate kissing and loads of foreplay x |
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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"Morning Is there anyone else who is just looking for good horny but fairly vanilla sex ? Lots of passionate kissing and foreplay does it for me . Is thus considered too boring for fab ?
There's nothing wrong with plenty of passionate kissing and loads of foreplay x"
I couldn’t agree more xxx I see you aren’t far away from me ? Xxx |
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Vanilla is a beautiful flavour when it is fresh and is as lovely in the mouth as sensual touch is against the skin. Mix in a mind full of mischief and adventure with a kindred spirit and the sex should take care of itself and be forever unforgettable. |
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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"Vanilla is a beautiful flavour when it is fresh and is as lovely in the mouth as sensual touch is against the skin. Mix in a mind full of mischief and adventure with a kindred spirit and the sex should take care of itself and be forever unforgettable."
You have convinced me!!! Xxx |
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"Vanilla is a beautiful flavour when it is fresh and is as lovely in the mouth as sensual touch is against the skin. Mix in a mind full of mischief and adventure with a kindred spirit and the sex should take care of itself and be forever unforgettable.
You have convinced me!!! Xxx"
My work here is done. |
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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"I’m not one for labels and names. Kinky and vanilla are too subjective. I don’t find any sex boring with the right person. "
Good point it’s how you feel together xx not that I’ll ever get the chance unfortunately!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What is kinky?
Spanking
Breast slapping
Pussy spanking
Restraints
Candle wax
Blindfolds
Butt plugs
Rimming
Spitting
Face slapping
Pee play
Gangbangs
Group sex /orgies
Cuckolding
Verbal humiliation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is kinky?
Spanking
Breast slapping
Pussy spanking
Restraints
Candle wax
Blindfolds
Butt plugs
Rimming
Spitting
Face slapping
Pee play
Gangbangs
Group sex /orgies
Cuckolding
Verbal humiliation"
I think some people would describe several of those as vanilla activity wouldn't they? |
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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"What is kinky?
Spanking
Breast slapping
Pussy spanking
Restraints
Candle wax
Blindfolds
Butt plugs
Rimming
Spitting
Face slapping
Pee play
Gangbangs
Group sex /orgies
Cuckolding
Verbal humiliation
I think some people would describe several of those as vanilla activity wouldn't they? "
Good point xx care to try ? Lol xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is kinky?
Spanking
Breast slapping
Pussy spanking
Restraints
Candle wax
Blindfolds
Butt plugs
Rimming
Spitting
Face slapping
Pee play
Gangbangs
Group sex /orgies
Cuckolding
Verbal humiliation
I think some people would describe several of those as vanilla activity wouldn't they?
Good point xx care to try ? Lol xxxx"
Try all of them? I'd say blindfolds and wax at the very least. I know plenty of people who's describe themselves as vanilla who try those plus a bit of spanking and bondage. Nothing is set in stone. |
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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"What is kinky?
Spanking
Breast slapping
Pussy spanking
Restraints
Candle wax
Blindfolds
Butt plugs
Rimming
Spitting
Face slapping
Pee play
Gangbangs
Group sex /orgies
Cuckolding
Verbal humiliation
I think some people would describe several of those as vanilla activity wouldn't they?
Good point xx care to try ? Lol xxxx
Try all of them? I'd say blindfolds and wax at the very least. I know plenty of people who's describe themselves as vanilla who try those plus a bit of spanking and bondage. Nothing is set in stone. "
I’d be happy to try all of them with you unfortunately can’t send you a direct message!! Frustrating!! Xxxx |
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"I really dislike it being called vanilla because the inference is that it is boring.
Maybe we should call non vanilla ‘marmite sex’ as it’s not for everyone
Omg! Marmite is for toast not sex lol
It certainly is xx champagne however ...."
Well you already know my views on champagne |
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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"I really dislike it being called vanilla because the inference is that it is boring.
Maybe we should call non vanilla ‘marmite sex’ as it’s not for everyone
Omg! Marmite is for toast not sex lol
It certainly is xx champagne however ....
Well you already know my views on champagne "
I do xx love where that Champagne bottle is !! Would love to continue this conversation but I’m unable to message you xx Maybe you could message me? Xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is kinky?
Spanking
Breast slapping
Pussy spanking
Restraints
Candle wax
Blindfolds
Butt plugs
Rimming
Spitting
Face slapping
Pee play
Gangbangs
Group sex /orgies
Cuckolding
Verbal humiliation
I think some people would describe several of those as vanilla activity wouldn't they?
Good point xx care to try ? Lol xxxx
Try all of them? I'd say blindfolds and wax at the very least. I know plenty of people who's describe themselves as vanilla who try those plus a bit of spanking and bondage. Nothing is set in stone.
I’d be happy to try all of them with you unfortunately can’t send you a direct message!! Frustrating!! Xxxx"
I don't know why but fraid I'm ethically non-monogamous anyway. |
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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"What is kinky?
Spanking
Breast slapping
Pussy spanking
Restraints
Candle wax
Blindfolds
Butt plugs
Rimming
Spitting
Face slapping
Pee play
Gangbangs
Group sex /orgies
Cuckolding
Verbal humiliation
I think some people would describe several of those as vanilla activity wouldn't they?
Good point xx care to try ? Lol xxxx
Try all of them? I'd say blindfolds and wax at the very least. I know plenty of people who's describe themselves as vanilla who try those plus a bit of spanking and bondage. Nothing is set in stone.
I’d be happy to try all of them with you unfortunately can’t send you a direct message!! Frustrating!! Xxxx
I don't know why but fraid I'm ethically non-monogamous anyway. "
Ok xx if only I understood what that meant!! |
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"Morning Is there anyone else who is just looking for good horny but fairly vanilla sex ? Lots of passionate kissing and foreplay does it for me . Is thus considered too boring for fab ?"
No. Only boring, stale and unfulfilling sex is considered too boring for fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What is kinky?
I think some people would describe several of those as vanilla activity wouldn't they?
Good point xx care to try ? Lol xxxx
Try all of them? I'd say blindfolds and wax at the very least. I know plenty of people who's describe themselves as vanilla who try those plus a bit of spanking and bondage. Nothing is set in stone.
I’d be happy to try all of them with you unfortunately can’t send you a direct message!! Frustrating!! Xxxx
I don't know why but fraid I'm ethically non-monogamous anyway.
Ok xx if only I understood what that meant!!"
It means I'd only be with men if their partners were ok about it. Its a pretty standard term these days. |
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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"What is kinky?
I think some people would describe several of those as vanilla activity wouldn't they?
Good point xx care to try ? Lol xxxx
Try all of them? I'd say blindfolds and wax at the very least. I know plenty of people who's describe themselves as vanilla who try those plus a bit of spanking and bondage. Nothing is set in stone.
I’d be happy to try all of them with you unfortunately can’t send you a direct message!! Frustrating!! Xxxx
I don't know why but fraid I'm ethically non-monogamous anyway.
Ok xx if only I understood what that meant!!
It means I'd only be with men if their partners were ok about it. Its a pretty standard term these days."
Fair enough xxx |
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By *egoMan
over a year ago
Preston |
That’s all I’m really after when I want intimacy. I describe myself as enthusiastic vanilla when asked. As folks generally think I’m a kinky bugger when I’m talking. But there’s nothing too kinky I don’t think.
Plenty of fumbles and foreplay, variety of fairly normal positions. Maybe a thumb in the bum during doggy escalating to anal if they request. But that’s all vanilla to me. |
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