I'm a polite individual who in the first message I ask shall we get to know each other?
I send A FACE picture and I either get deleted or just read and ignored. I know I'm not everyone's cup of tea but surely I'm not that bad am I? |
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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago
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No, you are not bad. However, personally, I would delete such a message, too, or reply I'm not interested.
It is important to me to read in a first message something that shows they have read my profile, and something that tells me why they are interested and why they are what I'm looking for. Basically, context for their message.
I need to get a sense of their personality through the first message. For me, a picture is not enough to feel attracted. |
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OP your post is much longer than your profile.
Men are greatly outnumbered on here, you need to stand out in a positive way. Think of your profile as your shop window... all it tells me at the moment, is that you're a bloke who wants a shag. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My big bare is people who send “let’s get to know each other.”
I like guys to start a conversation. Give me something to work with. Most are just, hi how are you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d say you’re on the right lines already but as has been said maybe just expand a little more on the type of person you’re hoping to find and what makes you different from anyone else here.
Personally I like that you’ve just used “everyday” photos for want of a better word on your profile , it would get my interest far more than the body and cock shots.
As for tips for first messages, always try to include something that shows you’ve read their profile. why you think you may be of interest to them and give them something to reply to , maybe ask a question or two ?
Wishing you best of luck  |
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Thank you x.
How hard was it for you to change and who knew?
I have a cousin that went Scotland as Ben and they're now Lauren and are scared/afraid or uncomfortable to see the family. How can I get the message to them that they're still my little cousin? |
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Sounds like u looking for relationships saying u want women who u would meet the parents most people on here are looking for chats n fun nothing serious
2nd you got face pic all over yet u saying u need to be discreet
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