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New to this and not getting much luck
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe a photo of you not sat on a toilet might be more enticing!
A picture instead of the standard avatar as some can block people without a photo.
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Can't beat knocking out a no. 2 |
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I think you might be confusing this site with Instashag.
What exactly do you think makes you do irresistible that leads you to expect woman to leap into bed with you? It certainly won't be saying things like "Help me to fuck".
One specific tip I can give you is most silhouette avatars will be ignored. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"By giving me a chance to chat,meet as i barely don't get reply in here."
OP, press reply and quote button when you're replying to someone.
Your first picture is you sat on the loo with your pants round your ankles .... just no.
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By *929Man
over a year ago
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Look at it with the tables turned round mate would you chat with view to meeting based on just a close up of a vagina? Then imagine the numbers are reversed and there are hundreds of other profiles to choose from which show a bit more so builds a better picture of what to expect. It’s notoriously hard for men on here as it is |
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Many of us do care about others here. Ultimately, single people are alone, stuck out connected by wire, far from anyone else. As swingers, this will predominantly be until they visit Swinging clubs or get involved in fab social events.
The biggest thing single men can do is to create realistic expectations. Including the need for hard work here.
Browse the forum and look at the posts from other single guys. Consider the advice given to them, often about using their profile to sell themselves, including giving people the type of photos they'd need to know if someone is attractive or not. With so much choice here, every single man who hasn't given their profile viewer what they need, has probably missed their only chance, as a long line of other single men will have done it better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"New, naughty cheeky fun horney but noone seems to care as everyone here seems to be on the next level...help me to fuck"
OP, click on +quote and it will show which post you are replying to. |
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By *ack69123 OP Man
over a year ago
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"New, naughty cheeky fun horney but noone seems to care as everyone here seems to be on the next level...help me to fuck
OP, click on +quote and it will show which post you are replying to."
Ok thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Got it thanks. Problem i don't have your kind of body just normal one so not sure to be noticed..."
I don't have a body like his either. I hide mine under clothes.   |
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By *ack69123 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Got it thanks. Problem i don't have your kind of body just normal one so not sure to be noticed...
I don't have a body like his either. I hide mine under clothes. "
Still look sharper than me lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe a photo of you not sat on a toilet might be more enticing!
A picture instead of the standard avatar as some can block people without a photo.
Can't beat knocking out a no. 2
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She meant in reference to your sitting on the loo pic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Got it thanks. Problem i don't have your kind of body just normal one so not sure to be noticed...
I don't have a body like his either. I hide mine under clothes.
Still look sharper than me lol"
Pretty hard not to look sharper than a shadow avatar, in all fairness. |
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By *ack69123 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Got it thanks. Problem i don't have your kind of body just normal one so not sure to be noticed...
I don't have a body like his either. I hide mine under clothes.
Still look sharper than me lol
Pretty hard not to look sharper than a shadow avatar, in all fairness. "
Will change that asap |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Got it thanks. Problem i don't have your kind of body just normal one so not sure to be noticed...
I don't have a body like his either. I hide mine under clothes.
Still look sharper than me lol
Pretty hard not to look sharper than a shadow avatar, in all fairness.
Will change that asap"
Good man.
The thing is, treat the Forum as some fun, like going down to the park or the pub to meet people. Some will become friends and others just make up a lively crowd. Stay and chat and people will get to know you over time.
The one thing you mustn't do is try to 'pull' everyone. I don't know if you do that in your daily life but I doubt it. Just chat to people first. Stop trying to fuck, despite what this site is and you might enjoy the journey, whether you actually get to do the deed or not eventually. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"New, naughty cheeky fun horney but noone seems to care as everyone here seems to be on the next level...help me to fuck
Same."
You just have high standards.  |
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By *ack69123 OP Man
over a year ago
hillingdon |
"Got it thanks. Problem i don't have your kind of body just normal one so not sure to be noticed...
I don't have a body like his either. I hide mine under clothes.
Still look sharper than me lol
Pretty hard not to look sharper than a shadow avatar, in all fairness.
Will change that asap
Good man.
The thing is, treat the Forum as some fun, like going down to the park or the pub to meet people. Some will become friends and others just make up a lively crowd. Stay and chat and people will get to know you over time.
The one thing you mustn't do is try to 'pull' everyone. I don't know if you do that in your daily life but I doubt it. Just chat to people first. Stop trying to fuck, despite what this site is and you might enjoy the journey, whether you actually get to do the deed or not eventually."
I might take you as a mentor??probably started here in the wrong way, will adapt. Only change is constant?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"New, naughty cheeky fun horney but noone seems to care as everyone here seems to be on the next level...help me to fuck
Same.
You just have high standards. "
 do I??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Got it thanks. Problem i don't have your kind of body just normal one so not sure to be noticed...
I don't have a body like his either. I hide mine under clothes.
Still look sharper than me lol
Pretty hard not to look sharper than a shadow avatar, in all fairness.
Will change that asap
Good man.
The thing is, treat the Forum as some fun, like going down to the park or the pub to meet people. Some will become friends and others just make up a lively crowd. Stay and chat and people will get to know you over time.
The one thing you mustn't do is try to 'pull' everyone. I don't know if you do that in your daily life but I doubt it. Just chat to people first. Stop trying to fuck, despite what this site is and you might enjoy the journey, whether you actually get to do the deed or not eventually.
I might take you as a mentor??probably started here in the wrong way, will adapt. Only change is constant?? "
There are many mentors here and many who will lend support when you need it. Just because it's a site meant for liaisons of the flesh doesn't mean everyone does it willy nilly (pun intended! ). Most will want to get to know you first, just like in daily life.
You don't walk up to a woman and plop your tackle out without so much as a how do you do and expect her to jump in bed with you, do you? Especially when she already has 10 roomful to choose from already. It's just the same here.
Behind the screen is a normal person, just like the one you meet in your daily life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"New, naughty cheeky fun horney but noone seems to care as everyone here seems to be on the next level...help me to fuck
Same.
You just have high standards.
do I???"
Don't you?  I'm clearly overdressed. |
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I saw the toilet photo and thought "if that ain't a dude taking a sly pic so the wife don't get suspicious, I'll eat my own shit"
Then had a read of the text.
I'm fucking good at this.
Why should anyone help you to fuck? |
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"I saw the toilet photo and thought "if that ain't a dude taking a sly pic so the wife don't get suspicious, I'll eat my own shit"
Then had a read of the text.
I'm fucking good at this.
Why should anyone help you to fuck? "
Peachy, you know your shite detector is strong *strong arm emoji* |
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