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Why do people post meet wanted..but won't
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
I think that you mean, that they post to meet but won’t meet you…
I’m sure that they do meet but there’s always that pesky personal taste in regards to who people will have sex with!
Good luck with the thread OP! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I didn't know meets were arranged on first to reply basis 
I’m replying just in case 
Dam it I should have been quicker!
We can share  "
Ermmm 
I am here you know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I didn't know meets were arranged on first to reply basis
I’m replying just in case
Dam it I should have been quicker!
We can share
Ermmm
I am here you know "
So you are. Let them fight it out between thenselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I didn't know meets were arranged on first to reply basis
I’m replying just in case
Dam it I should have been quicker!
We can share
Ermmm
I am here you know
So you are. Let them fight it out between thenselves. "
Do you think they'll mud wrestle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I didn't know meets were arranged on first to reply basis
I’m replying just in case
Dam it I should have been quicker!
We can share
Ermmm
I am here you know
So you are. Let them fight it out between thenselves.
Do you think they'll mud wrestle "
I hope so |
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Sometimes my tummy rumbles when I'm hungry and I pick up a take away menu for a look. Nothing makes me drool so I have toast instead and sometimes I don't bother eating at all if there's nothing I REALLY want.
If there was something on the menu I REALLY wanted, I'd have had it.
Saying it or them are a waste of space is really fucking rude.
Saying it's bullshit is really fucking rude.
Thinking because they want a meet you'll be a perfect candidate and somehow deserve to get some action is presumptuous and really fucking rude.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes my tummy rumbles when I'm hungry and I pick up a take away menu for a look. Nothing makes me drool so I have toast instead and sometimes I don't bother eating at all if there's nothing I REALLY want.
If there was something on the menu I REALLY wanted, I'd have had it.
Saying it or them are a waste of space is really fucking rude.
Saying it's bullshit is really fucking rude.
Thinking because they want a meet you'll be a perfect candidate and somehow deserve to get some action is presumptuous and really fucking rude.
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10/10 analogy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just because they post wanting a meet doesn’t mean they will meet everyone that responds.
I go to the shop for milk, I don’t bring home every bottle of milk. I leave with one that suits my needs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just because they post wanting a meet doesn’t mean they will meet everyone that responds.
I go to the shop for milk, I don’t bring home every bottle of milk. I leave with one that suits my needs. "
Pick me pick meeeeeeeee |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd love to meet more often but the reality is I'm fussy. I want something good, enjoyable, on my terms, with someone who fancies me as much as I them. Someone who is going to match my efforts. Someone who will also be fully satisfied at the end.
To be honest that's really hard to find.
Yes if I wasn't fussy and didn't really care how enjoyable it was going to be, where or when it happens etc, I could meet lots of men easily. But most of the experiences wouldn't be worth shaving my legs for
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP you should come to the monthly Fab pick a partner darts night.
We all turn up and all the ladies photos are put up on a dart board, then one by one the men get to throw a dart at the board, whoever we hit, we get to take home for the night. It never fails. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP you should come to the monthly Fab pick a partner darts night.
We all turn up and all the ladies photos are put up on a dart board, then one by one the men get to throw a dart at the board, whoever we hit, we get to take home for the night. It never fails."
This is true. I had Big Harold last time. Still can't walk straight  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's like going to buy a car.
Sometimes you see something you like and sometimes you don't.
If you are looking for a sports car, you won't take a yaris just to have something.
There is no obligation to meet. It's an act of consent. It can change at any time, for any reason |
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"OP you should come to the monthly Fab pick a partner darts night.
We all turn up and all the ladies photos are put up on a dart board, then one by one the men get to throw a dart at the board, whoever we hit, we get to take home for the night. It never fails."
I would be taking home either the wall or the carpet if it was women throwing for men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What a waste of space... people post here... meet or whatever and it's all bull..why...??
Perhaps they just didn’t want to meet you . Build a bridge and get over it. "
I fear there are bridges burning here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's like going to buy a car.
Sometimes you see something you like and sometimes you don't.
If you are looking for a sports car, you won't take a yaris just to have something.
There is no obligation to meet. It's an act of consent. It can change at any time, for any reason"
Oo this is a good analogy.... It's going in my book with my favourite Sunday lunch analogy! |
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"I think that you mean, that they post to meet but won’t meet you…
I’m sure that they do meet but there’s always that pesky personal taste in regards to who people will have sex with!
Good luck with the thread OP! "
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
I imagine they are looking to meet but with who takes their fancy, I can only imagine how many messages people must get especially single lady’s if they put a meet up, must take forever to get through reading them |
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I'm guessing you just can't see what they can see Gary. If you could you wouldn't ask.
Do your best to not spend all your time analysing their behaviour.
Just keep looking for the folk that are exactly like you.
Believe me...... there are fucking thousands of them on here. |
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Some people say they won’t meet single males…….. but do. Some say they are looking for a meet……and do. Maybe you should try a bit harder, there’s lots of nice honest people on here, but, you need to impress otherwise they won’t be interested in meeting with you, it’s nothing personal, just people being choosy, which they have the right to do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Plus what I have come to realise on here is that some fabbers see the fact a meet request is up as an anything free for all.
I've discussed this candidly with one of my male friends and he tells me that all a male needs is an in road with female and then he'll try and convince her to do what he wants, not what she wants or not necessarily what was on the original meet.
For example, I quite often put up a request for a social meet because I want to meet someone socially before play. However, I get replies from men who try and glean the promise of a shag before even agreeing to meet socially, or they tell me they can accommodate and I should go see them. That isn't what I asked for. I'd asked for a social meet.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Plus what I have come to realise on here is that some fabbers see the fact a meet request is up as an anything free for all.
I've discussed this candidly with one of my male friends and he tells me that all a male needs is an in road with female and then he'll try and convince her to do what he wants, not what she wants or not necessarily what was on the original meet.
For example, I quite often put up a request for a social meet because I want to meet someone socially before play. However, I get replies from men who try and glean the promise of a shag before even agreeing to meet socially, or they tell me they can accommodate and I should go see them. That isn't what I asked for. I'd asked for a social meet.
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Yep.
I posted a meet, with some specific requirements, most messages completely ignored that. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"I posted a meet, with some specific requirements, most messages completely ignored that."
Ahem, in my most stern domly dim voice!
“When I want to know what you want I will tell you!”
Do I get the gig? |
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"Has the Op been told off enough yet ?
I’m sure he’s got the message, this Be Kind bollocks really is bollocks when it comes down to it.  "
this.
Unfortunately he didn’t come back to explain. Probably too bloody scared to!
Maybe he had arranged to meet the person and they didn’t turn up. Maybe he didn’t word the thread correctly. Guess we’ll never know now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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having read a few of your posts op, maybe this site isnt what your looking for, dont forget it isnt instashag, what can you offer to others? get to some socials, clubs etc and see how that goes, dont just rely on this site, plus your recent posts dont make you sound appealing tbh |
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