What is there to do when you still have a healthy sex drive but your other half’s is dead and regardless of what you try there is no response???? Married, still in love, but missing sex. Am I resigned to masterbation for the rest of my life.. we once had an amazing sex life and enjoyed fab together then out of the blue … nothing. It’s been about 4 years now… do I Divorce due to lack of sex when everything else is good?? Cheat and enjoy sex? Knowing my other half won’t be that upset if found out (as they did the same in the past) Or just resign myself to sex was good but it’s finished for me even although I’ve lots more to give ??? answers on a post card … thanks for any input |
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While it's never justified to cheat, it's also not acceptable for one person to expect the other to accept a sexless relationship if that person still desire it. Seems very black and white when written down like this but I've been in the very same situation and after many months of trying to talk things through, it was best for us to end out marrage |
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" What is there to do when you still have a healthy sex drive but your other half’s is dead and regardless of what you try there is no response???? Married, still in love, but missing sex. Am I resigned to masterbation for the rest of my life.. we once had an amazing sex life and enjoyed fab together then out of the blue … nothing. It’s been about 4 years now… do I Divorce due to lack of sex when everything else is good?? Cheat and enjoy sex? Knowing my other half won’t be that upset if found out (as they did the same in the past) Or just resign myself to sex was good but it’s finished for me even although I’ve lots more to give ??? answers on a post card … thanks for any input "
You have 2 verifications on a single guys profile so I think your already cheating |
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over a year ago
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I cheated now I live on my own in a sexless life so best stick with it dude at least you have someone to cuddle with and chat to . Worst thing I ever did . The grass isn't greener |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Young buck here with some advice: Talk to your wife.
It’s REALLY easy to go have sex with people, in the UK and mainland Europe. Connections are much harder to build and need to be maintaining like a good bike.
If your wife is against communication, I’d reach out for counseling and then maybe divorce. Having witnessed a few military divorces, divorce counseling is also a thing and should be utilized. |
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Explain to her that you can't live your life without sex, and how it's making you feel. If she really loves you she will listen and try to reach some sort of compromise. It isn't fair that she expects you to give up sex just because she doesn't want sex anymore. It also definitely isn't fair to cheat on her either though.
Talk about it and I hope you find a solution that you both can live with happily.
Good luck. |
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By *929Man
over a year ago
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I take it you have discussed it with her to no resolve?
Similar situation myself she has complications from hysterectomy has twice told me to do what I like as she don’t expect me to go without but difficult deciding what to do hard to put in practice without feeling like making mockery of family ect I don’t know
Interested to hear how you get on sorry can’t be offer any advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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clearly she is not happy unless she has a medical condition.
I've noted over the years that when people lose interest in their OH and/or cheating, the sex drive is the first to go |
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"you can accom? Does she not realise when the ladies pop round?
Some say accommodate but with that, I think they mean hotels."
I didn't realise that was a thing lol say can accommodate meaning hotel. Just assumed be can't accom and maybe mention in comments. Good swerve tho |
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