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By *ntbpl OP Man
over a year ago
Blackpool/Preston |
I work with a lady, about 20 years older than me. Lovely lady and very sexy. I’m really into her and I feel like she’s into me too, I’m picking up vibes but I feel like maybe she wouldn’t expect that I’d be into her in that way.
I really wanna make a move but I'm not sure how to play it. The thing is, if I’m wrong about her being into me I don’t want it to be awkward at work because I sit right near her and I give her lifts home once or twice a week etc. I usually don’t go for work colleagues due to the potential for awkwardness but I will make an exception here.
Guys and gals of fab, how would you play this one? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I work with a lady, about 20 years older than me. Lovely lady and very sexy. I’m really into her and I feel like she’s into me too, I’m picking up vibes but I feel like maybe she wouldn’t expect that I’d be into her in that way.
I really wanna make a move but I'm not sure how to play it. The thing is, if I’m wrong about her being into me I don’t want it to be awkward at work because I sit right near her and I give her lifts home once or twice a week etc. I usually don’t go for work colleagues due to the potential for awkwardness but I will make an exception here.
Guys and gals of fab, how would you play this one? "
Just tell her  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Make a move! What's the worst that could happen? I always think that the possibility of happiness should outweigh the risk of embarrassment when making a decision. Good luck. |
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By *eardybobMan
over a year ago
the Goldilocks Zone |
"On a lift home ask if she fancies going for a drink.
If she says she can’t because hubby is expecting her, then you’re still in the safe and platonic zone  "
^ this... but I'd strongly recommend not mixing business with pleasure! Waaaaaay too much potential for complication - not to mention gossip that could get you both down. Probably not what you want to hear  |
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By *ntbpl OP Man
over a year ago
Blackpool/Preston |
"On a lift home ask if she fancies going for a drink.
If she says she can’t because hubby is expecting her, then you’re still in the safe and platonic zone "
Hubby is in Greece with a new, younger girlfriend lol. I suppose I just need to get a grip and ask her don’t I |
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By *ntbpl OP Man
over a year ago
Blackpool/Preston |
"On a lift home ask if she fancies going for a drink.
If she says she can’t because hubby is expecting her, then you’re still in the safe and platonic zone
^ this... but I'd strongly recommend not mixing business with pleasure! Waaaaaay too much potential for complication - not to mention gossip that could get you both down. Probably not what you want to hear "
Oh yeah I’ve been in that kinda situation before which is why I tend to try and avoid it. I’m not looking to get into anything serious and I don’t believe she would be looking to either tho. I reckon this could be kept on the down-lo |
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"On a lift home ask if she fancies going for a drink.
If she says she can’t because hubby is expecting her, then you’re still in the safe and platonic zone
Hubby is in Greece with a new, younger girlfriend lol. I suppose I just need to get a grip and ask her don’t I "
My advice, don’t have a relationship with a work colleague as I wished I’d taken my own advice  |
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By *ntbpl OP Man
over a year ago
Blackpool/Preston |
"On a lift home ask if she fancies going for a drink.
If she says she can’t because hubby is expecting her, then you’re still in the safe and platonic zone
Hubby is in Greece with a new, younger girlfriend lol. I suppose I just need to get a grip and ask her don’t I
My advice, don’t have a relationship with a work colleague as I wished I’d taken my own advice "
Aye, I’ve been there myself too, I’m a gluten for punishment what can I say ha. Not looking for an actual relationship though to be honest. |
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"Make a move! What's the worst that could happen? I always think that the possibility of happiness should outweigh the risk of embarrassment when making a decision. Good luck. "
He could get into trouble at work, if it's deemed inappropriate! |
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