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Anything on here that you can do that isn't going to upset someone or other.
Now even just fabbing pictures seems to leave people suspicious or pissed off.
If you delete messages it's wrong, if you don't delete them it's wrong  . Don't you just feel like shouting I give up sometimes! |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
In short, no.
Fab is often a hedonists playground, people do what they want when they want but are often quick to call foul if something or someone gets in their way.
Try not to let others get to you too much.
I try to behave ethically and treat others as I want to be treated but beyond that, it’s not really here or there. If I care about a person then I’d likely take them into consideration but for randomers? It really doesn’t matter |
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Probably not pablo. Each to their own but even be nice threads or positive threads end up with someone on there taking offence or making a comment just to stir things up.it’s starting to leave me not want to comment anymore. But there are far more good people on here than not so I’ll plod along for now  |
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You’ll always get some that forget it’s just a website and normal social manners don’t apply.
Yes you can ignore someone.
You didn’t ask for their message, so you don’t have to reply.
Site rules are there to be read, it’s your fault if you don’t read them.
It’s a comment on a forum, doesn’t make me a bad person for having a different opinion.
However it’s not rude or bullying to question your comment.
I owe you nothing. You are a stranger to me, we haven’t created a bond or relationship yet. So get off your high horse if you think a few messages mean you’re owed something.
Just random thoughts I have about the site  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In short, no.
Fab is often a hedonists playground, people do what they want when they want but are often quick to call foul if something or someone gets in their way.
Try not to let others get to you too much.
I try to behave ethically and treat others as I want to be treated but beyond that, it’s not really here or there. If I care about a person then I’d likely take them into consideration but for randomers? It really doesn’t matter "
Well said Tea, nothing wrong with a little chuckle to ones self at some of the snowflakery either! |
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The list is just evergrowing here.
“Fab pictures”
“No responses”
“Single guys”
“Single women”
“Single couples”
“Deleted messages”
“No responses”
“Rude responses”
Can’t aim to please everyone, and certainly in the current environment it’s gotten worse. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Anything on here that you can do that isn't going to upset someone or other.
Now even just fabbing pictures seems to leave people suspicious or pissed off.
If you delete messages it's wrong, if you don't delete them it's wrong . Don't you just feel like shouting I give up sometimes!"
Xxxx
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
Passed Beyond Reach |
As have said before many times, forums are just one big pissing contest. One-upmanship, saying things that you hope will win a prize.
Most posts are badly disgised One-upmanship. Like kids in playground playing trumps. My self important post beats your less value post - don't you agree ladies?
As other thread FABs are given as a way of gaining favour of the ladies, cocks out let the jousting begin
You will never please all of the people all of the time. But people like attention even if it given without any kind of sincerity.
It is what it is, FABing for a lot of people, like hollow complements is seen as shallow. Moaning about the moaners isn't going to change that.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anything on here that you can do that isn't going to upset someone or other.
Now even just fabbing pictures seems to leave people suspicious or pissed off.
If you delete messages it's wrong, if you don't delete them it's wrong . Don't you just feel like shouting I give up sometimes!"
 
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
I know what you mean OP; if you send a friendly short message it gets ignored; if you send a long thoughtout message giving lots of detail about yourself, it gets ignored; if don't have any verifications, you're ignored; if you have verifications stating that you're a great person that is reliable, respectful and friendly, you're ignored; if you participate on the Forum without being hateful or aggressive, you're ignored; if you go to clubs and get a reputation as being one of the good guys, guess what? Yep, you're ignored.
So OP, you're right, there's nothing left for you to do but to stick your head out of the window and shout (infact use a mega-phone on max volume) "FOR GOOD SAKE FAB!" No one will hear you though as you'll be drowned out by the massed voices of the decent rule following, non-time wasting, Fab males. |
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"As have said before many times, forums are just one big pissing contest. One-upmanship, saying things that you hope will win a prize.
Most posts are badly disgised One-upmanship. Like kids in playground playing trumps. My self important post beats your less value post - don't you agree ladies?
As other thread FABs are given as a way of gaining favour of the ladies, cocks out let the jousting begin
You will never please all of the people all of the time. But people like attention even if it given without any kind of sincerity.
It is what it is, FABing for a lot of people, like hollow complements is seen as shallow. Moaning about the moaners isn't going to change that.
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I fab people as I like their pictures as I'm sure a lot of people do. No hidden agendas behind it and no pissing contest to be had. |
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"Anything on here that you can do that isn't going to upset someone or other.
Now even just fabbing pictures seems to leave people suspicious or pissed off.
If you delete messages it's wrong, if you don't delete them it's wrong . Don't you just feel like shouting I give up sometimes!"
Need to be thick skinned on here otherwise you will go crazy for sure.x |
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"Anything on here that you can do that isn't going to upset someone or other.
Now even just fabbing pictures seems to leave people suspicious or pissed off.
If you delete messages it's wrong, if you don't delete them it's wrong . Don't you just feel like shouting I give up sometimes!
Need to be thick skinned on here otherwise you will go crazy for sure.x"
Oh I'm thick skinned, but you think about it over the months of all the things that someone has taken offence to, if we stopped doing it all, what could we actually do? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As have said before many times, forums are just one big pissing contest. One-upmanship, saying things that you hope will win a prize.
Most posts are badly disgised One-upmanship. Like kids in playground playing trumps. My self important post beats your less value post - don't you agree ladies?
As other thread FABs are given as a way of gaining favour of the ladies, cocks out let the jousting begin
You will never please all of the people all of the time. But people like attention even if it given without any kind of sincerity.
It is what it is, FABing for a lot of people, like hollow complements is seen as shallow. Moaning about the moaners isn't going to change that.
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And yet you choose to comment on the forums??  |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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"As have said before many times, forums are just one big pissing contest. One-upmanship, saying things that you hope will win a prize.
Most posts are badly disgised One-upmanship. Like kids in playground playing trumps. My self important post beats your less value post - don't you agree ladies?
As other thread FABs are given as a way of gaining favour of the ladies, cocks out let the jousting begin
You will never please all of the people all of the time. But people like attention even if it given without any kind of sincerity.
It is what it is, FABing for a lot of people, like hollow complements is seen as shallow. Moaning about the moaners isn't going to change that.
And yet you choose to comment on the forums?? "
Maybe still stupidly believe things may change, hopless case things may change in my last days. |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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"As have said before many times, forums are just one big pissing contest. One-upmanship, saying things that you hope will win a prize.
Most posts are badly disgised One-upmanship. Like kids in playground playing trumps. My self important post beats your less value post - don't you agree ladies?
As other thread FABs are given as a way of gaining favour of the ladies, cocks out let the jousting begin
You will never please all of the people all of the time. But people like attention even if it given without any kind of sincerity.
It is what it is, FABing for a lot of people, like hollow complements is seen as shallow. Moaning about the moaners isn't going to change that.
And yet you choose to comment on the forums?? "
Maybe still stupidly believe things may change, hopless case things may change in my last days. |
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"Anything on here that you can do that isn't going to upset someone or other.
Now even just fabbing pictures seems to leave people suspicious or pissed off.
If you delete messages it's wrong, if you don't delete them it's wrong . Don't you just feel like shouting I give up sometimes!"
Quitters offend me ! |
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"Anything on here that you can do that isn't going to upset someone or other.
Now even just fabbing pictures seems to leave people suspicious or pissed off.
If you delete messages it's wrong, if you don't delete them it's wrong . Don't you just feel like shouting I give up sometimes!
(emoji answers the way forward)"
We need more emojis to cover every possible base for that to work, but I like your thinking |
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"Wearing blue underwear doesn't seem to piss anyone off.
Sadly we are yet to see you wear any 
Incoming.
(Don't say I didn't warn you)  "
Very nice, as are the dungarees, even though you are looking slightly jaundice in that one lol |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Wearing blue underwear doesn't seem to piss anyone off.
Sadly we are yet to see you wear any
Incoming.
(Don't say I didn't warn you)
Very nice, as are the dungarees, even though you are looking slightly jaundice in that one lol"
I think it was the filter on the camera. At least I was clean shaven. |
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