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Gotta be both surely?
But if I had to pick one? For a playmate? Looks. She’s a playmate, not a partner, so I’d prefer someone I can actually be turned on by than a troll that I enjoy the company of. For a playmate anyways |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Gotta be both surely?
But if I had to pick one? For a playmate? Looks. She’s a playmate, not a partner, so I’d prefer someone I can actually be turned on by than a troll that I enjoy the company of. For a playmate anyways "
You have a way with words
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"Do you make your choice of playmate purely based on looks or does personality play a big part"
For someone I get together once in awhile to have sex with or play out fantasies. Bollocks to their personality if our fantasies match and the sex is great. Just kick them out afterwards…until next time  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Both really. Obviously I want a clit twitch whenever I look at them but I also want that bit more, personality that's compatible with mine. The more I like someone's personality the more I'll find their physical appearance attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say it's split, but personality is more important for me. I still need to be attracted to them though but I don't like men that are pretty love island boys. That is a huge turn off! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks always grab my attention first. But I don’t care how hot she is, if there’s no connection it won’t go any further. I like to enjoy getting to know someone while arranging a weekend meet up. Back and forth banter and flirting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you make your choice of playmate purely based on looks or does personality play a big part"
Both.
There has to be physical attraction as well as a good personality to make the two a full package. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Both for me but probably looks first if I’m honest. If I don’t like the face it wouldn’t matter about anything else. "
Definitely this... And the same the other way around... If I do like the face (and personality) then like whatever body type they are too... But a crappy personality can kill it too |
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"Do you make your choice of playmate purely based on looks or does personality play a big part"
Looks. Just looking to f**k not to find a relationship. I don't want to have to put a bag over his head. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't put one over the other, they're both as equally important ...but I would say if there is no personality I'm not going to get excited or engaged. |
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By *TK421-Man
over a year ago
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In the old days of pulling on nights out it was based on looks wasn't it.
It was luck if they came with a cracking personality but as it was primarily about the sex there was no need......
Now what I'm looking for is mainly personality. Looks are subjective. But that's my situation. If your personality isn't doing it for me then I'm not likely to meet you.
Your situation is your own. You do you.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks matter. A playmate needs both for me. If they only have a great personality but I'm not attracted to them at all, well then that's a friend isn't it? |
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On here personality is usually what makes me interested, and looks are secondary. But obvious in the normal world looks probably are more important as you can’t stop personality from the other end of a bar. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it has to be a bit of both, but I prefer personality over looks any day. You have to get on with each other and I prefer someone who doesn't take themselves seriously and can have a laugh and joke about life rather than be up their own bottoms 
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By *ibonacciMan
over a year ago
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Physical attraction is the first gate for me. I need to be physically attracted; Now that is not necessarily the persons facial features.
Then they have to have a sense of humour and be intelligent. |
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