"Would love to but where I live everyone knows everyone it's a small place! "
It's the same where I live. I post a clear photo of myself, my thoughts are if someone on this site sees me, then they are here for the same reasons so who are they to judge |
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"Would love to but where I live everyone knows everyone it's a small place!
It's the same where I live. I post a clear photo of myself, my thoughts are if someone on this site sees me, then they are here for the same reasons so who are they to judge "
Is that a photo of a woman as your first pic?
Have you changed sex?? |
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"Would love to but where I live everyone knows everyone it's a small place!
It's the same where I live. I post a clear photo of myself, my thoughts are if someone on this site sees me, then they are here for the same reasons so who are they to judge
Is that a photo of a woman as your first pic?
Have you changed sex??"
No its my hands on my wifes tits she said might help me get noticed lol |
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you can ask the question a million times what am i doing wrong..... is it me .... why wont anyone meet me .... it will all come down to one thing and one thing only there are zillions of men compared to couples and women then bare in mind alot use the site just to chat /for clubs n socials .... that leaves alot of men getting nowhere ... up to you how you get around that but it will involve work as nothing is on a plate free ... good luck op |
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"You've been on here 5 weeks and have had 2 meets, that seems pretty good surely?
Men only I know I'm bi lol some female attention wouldn't go a miss  "
So you aren’t feeling invisible you just aren’t having your cake and eating it? |
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"You've been on here 5 weeks and have had 2 meets, that seems pretty good surely?
Men only I know I'm bi lol some female attention wouldn't go a miss
So you aren’t feeling invisible you just aren’t having your cake and eating it? "
Could say that I guess  |
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"Imagine you ratio was reversed and you had the odds in your favour. You have lots and lots if choice. If you read your own profile, would you choose you ?"
Well the wife wrote mine to be honest lol  |
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"Imagine you ratio was reversed and you had the odds in your favour. You have lots and lots if choice. If you read your own profile, would you choose you ?
Well the wife wrote mine to be honest lol "
Not a chance  |
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"What do you mean when you say you’re “100% genuine”? "
That my wife knows im on here and I have full permission to play feel like some may look at my profile and think bulls**t so maybe avoiding based on it  |
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I know how you feel. I went to Cupids a few days ago and no one except the bar staff even noticed I was there.
I ended up leaving after being there for a few hours as I had lost my confidence and felt really down. |
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over a year ago
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"I know how you feel. I went to Cupids a few days ago and no one except the bar staff even noticed I was there.
I ended up leaving after being there for a few hours as I had lost my confidence and felt really down."
Sorry you felt that way. I went to my first ever club few weeks ago and I really enjoyed it. I didn't chat to many people but did have some interesting convo with a one half of a couple and a hi here and there. I say don't give up though. One bad experience doesn't mean all your experiences will be the same though. Just start with a hi and who knows.. take it from someone that's an introvert like myself |
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"I know how you feel. I went to Cupids a few days ago and no one except the bar staff even noticed I was there.
I ended up leaving after being there for a few hours as I had lost my confidence and felt really down.
Sorry you felt that way. I went to my first ever club few weeks ago and I really enjoyed it. I didn't chat to many people but did have some interesting convo with a one half of a couple and a hi here and there. I say don't give up though. One bad experience doesn't mean all your experiences will be the same though. Just start with a hi and who knows.. take it from someone that's an introvert like myself "
The problem is, I don't think I've ever introduced myself to a new face. It terrifies me. |
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"I know how you feel. I went to Cupids a few days ago and no one except the bar staff even noticed I was there.
I ended up leaving after being there for a few hours as I had lost my confidence and felt really down.
Sorry you felt that way. I went to my first ever club few weeks ago and I really enjoyed it. I didn't chat to many people but did have some interesting convo with a one half of a couple and a hi here and there. I say don't give up though. One bad experience doesn't mean all your experiences will be the same though. Just start with a hi and who knows.. take it from someone that's an introvert like myself
The problem is, I don't think I've ever introduced myself to a new face. It terrifies me."
Is there a hot tub there? That's where I started most of my convos. Or even at the bar. Surprisingly I even had convos with people at the room where the bags where kept. Take a plunge and start with a hi. You just never know bud |
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i agree with a lot of the posts here add more pics (i cant talk much) and try get involved with convos and forum stuff, i haven't met anyone off of here but do quite often get a reply (normally no thanks) and/or (omg what happened to your face).
You are a fish in a small pond my friend. |
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7wks in trumping already .. oh dear
Okay..... basics of FAB...
Establish a good profile - look around successful profiles to get an idea of what works. Ask those individuals for help and support.
Network online - chat rooms,forums.
Network offline - socialise - local events, clubs.
Gain trust.
Gain respect.
Begin to meet individuals socially.
Become part of the community.
Enjoy an active and varied sex life.
You haven't even got to the first rung of the ladder!!! |
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"I know how you feel. I went to Cupids a few days ago and no one except the bar staff even noticed I was there.
I ended up leaving after being there for a few hours as I had lost my confidence and felt really down.
Sorry you felt that way. I went to my first ever club few weeks ago and I really enjoyed it. I didn't chat to many people but did have some interesting convo with a one half of a couple and a hi here and there. I say don't give up though. One bad experience doesn't mean all your experiences will be the same though. Just start with a hi and who knows.. take it from someone that's an introvert like myself
The problem is, I don't think I've ever introduced myself to a new face. It terrifies me.
Is there a hot tub there? That's where I started most of my convos. Or even at the bar. Surprisingly I even had convos with people at the room where the bags where kept. Take a plunge and start with a hi. You just never know bud "
There is a hot tub but I don't use it even if I wanted to. |
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I’ve joined all sorts of clubs over the years. Running, Motorcycle, Walking, Single Parents etc… in each case it’s taken a couple of regular visits before I got to know some people and felt as I was part of the club.
So my advice persevere don’t think each time will be like the last …or first time.  |
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