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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess it depends on the connection you have and what you're looking for. I spoke to my partner online for a year before we could meet.
Sometimes the situation you're in can make it difficult to meet, but if they're worth it and it's meant to be it will happen eventually. Only you can decide if it's worth the wait. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How long on here would you wait fot to meet someone your talkin to i went 3 years once"
Chat off the site. Speak on the phone and set up a social meet there and then
If they or you prolong it, drama will set in.
3 yrs is insane.
Maybe you had very good reasons not to meet sooner? |
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"I’ve been here years. Probably been chatting to a few from the beginning that I would probably meet if the opportunity arose.
You make your opportunities. "
That comment is as annoying as “you make time”. Not everyone is able to just “make time or opportunities” unfortunately x |
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By *oungJayyMan
over a year ago
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"How long on here would you wait fot to meet someone your talkin to i went 3 years once"
I'm currently only at one meet within 3 years from fab, with a lovely couple who I haven't seen since, I'd love to meet alot more often.
But tbh If I message someone, I could meet say, a week later for coffee? As I like spontaneous meets like that, where I can learn them more |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
The longest for me has been a couple of years now. Circumstances change, life gets in the way and intentions broaden.
It’s not always just about connections or ‘wanting it enough’ it’s about hundreds of priorities and understanding that intent and will aren’t necessarily enough |
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