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International crush day

By *ea monkey OP Man over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Apparently today is the international ‘crush’ day, in honour of this hallowed and sanctified day in all our lives (no I didn’t know either, I heard it on the radio earlier), let’s play a little game…

You’re task is to message your crush, that person/people that you’ve hotlisted but never actually messaged because you’re crushing on them hard. Send them a message saying “In honour of international crush day, I’m letting you know that I/we* have a huge crush on you.”

(*delete as appropriate)

Then let us know if you hear anything back…

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Happy crush day

I’m in

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By *lenderfoxMan over a year ago

Leeds

go on then

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By *oldyoudown41Man over a year ago

caledonian

Why not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *affron40Woman over a year ago

manchester

I’ll let City Jeans know when he scans the thread for his name

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By *indergirlWoman over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Go on then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is it someone you've never messaged... Or just someone you haven't messages to say they are hot ?

Ps in.

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By *uietly_KinkyMan over a year ago

High Wycombe

"Go on then

I'm going to fess up right here - it's you, TG

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

So not just confirming a crush then? Actual new people?

That's a bit adventurous

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By *ilverjagMan over a year ago

swansea

So long as I don't end up suffering from crush injuries, count me in.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sounds like it could be fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I couldn't

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'll have a look x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im sorry but my inbox is full for today please note me down for next year

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ears are burning

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By *issmorganWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

In and looking

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By *adyBugsWoman over a year ago

cognito

I already talk to them. Do I have to find a new crush I haven’t messaged?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Already done it! He knows who he is and yes we are friends now

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By *heekyflickWoman over a year ago

LINCOLN

I'm in

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By *ack688Man over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

Well I’m definitely international, so…

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wait. Just one? Oh Lordy….

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have to admit I have crush on one lady

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive noone on my hotlist yet

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By *ockosaurusMan over a year ago

Warwick

I'm in. Just have to build up the courage

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like many but braved it and informed the one I was scared to before now

thanks op

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By *elle xWoman over a year ago

Doire Theas

I’m in

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By *eyond PurityCouple over a year ago

Lincolnshire

A new person we’ve never messaged before?

Ok, here goes then…

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By *indergirlWoman over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

One issue.... I've messaged them all before

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm in

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By *.R.MMan over a year ago

Norfolk

Searching……

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman over a year ago

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By *nked_kittenWoman over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

Mine knows.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know hubby has 3 on here quite close a above in thread . He’s so kind in letting me know lol

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By *ea monkey OP Man over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"One issue.... I've messaged them all before

That is a problem and one that I share as well.

The simple answer is to pick the ‘top’ and message them again…

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By *imbobaMan over a year ago

Glasgow

They know. At least the ones I’ve met or am likely to meet. I don’t see the point of building up pent up frustration by teasing someone or ones self needlessly unless there is a likely resolution.

The above is not 100% true btw.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thanks OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m in and a message sent

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only four on hotlist

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By *ister-mischiefMan over a year ago

Trafford

Why not im in...

Tea this is all your fault if it goes downhill

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By *indergirlWoman over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"One issue.... I've messaged them all before

That is a problem and one that I share as well.

The simple answer is to pick the ‘top’ and message them again… "

Bullet bit

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By *adyBugsWoman over a year ago

cognito

Did people do it? Did anyone get replies?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Did people do it? Did anyone get replies?

"
I've already flirted with all the crushes on this thread

(Flirt may or may not simply mean sent pics

)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know hubby has 3 on here quite close a above in thread . He’s so kind in letting me know lol

Thats men for you lol

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By *elshkinkyMan over a year ago

south wales

Why the devil not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know hubby has 3 on here quite close a above in thread . He’s so kind in letting me know lol

Thats men for you lol

"
lols I don’t mind tbh . He’s allowed explore lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What's a crush

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know hubby has 3 on here quite close a above in thread . He’s so kind in letting me know lol

Thats men for you lol

lols I don’t mind tbh . He’s allowed explore lol

Good to know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m in x

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By *ookie46Woman over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Oh go on then

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By *adyBugsWoman over a year ago

cognito

"Did people do it? Did anyone get replies?

I've already flirted with all the crushes on this thread

(Flirt may or may not simply mean sent pics

Oooh did they reply??

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By *elshkinkyMan over a year ago

south wales

"Did people do it? Did anyone get replies?

Just working through all mine…. May need to employ a PA

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By *indergirlWoman over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"Did people do it? Did anyone get replies?

Just the one in private and one up there ^^

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know hubby has 3 on here quite close a above in thread . He’s so kind in letting me know lol

Thats men for you lol

lols I don’t mind tbh . He’s allowed explore lol

Good to know

"
oh I see lol . Well let him know

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By *orraine999Woman over a year ago

Somewhere

International Crush Day? I’m in please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"One issue.... I've messaged them all before

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know hubby has 3 on here quite close a above in thread . He’s so kind in letting me know lol

Thats men for you lol

lols I don’t mind tbh . He’s allowed explore lol

Good to know

oh I see lol . Well let him know

I maybe will

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Did people do it? Did anyone get replies?

I have informed my crush that I have a crush.

He was mighty shocked.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Heavens

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know hubby has 3 on here quite close a above in thread . He’s so kind in letting me know lol

Thats men for you lol

lols I don’t mind tbh . He’s allowed explore lol

Good to know

oh I see lol . Well let him know

I maybe will

"
ooooh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I shall join in

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By *uietly_KinkyMan over a year ago

High Wycombe

"Did people do it? Did anyone get replies?

Yes and no.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not not one

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By *ongueNcheek33Couple over a year ago

Manchester

I'm in

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By *ougie321Man over a year ago

Milford Haven

what a fantastic topic this is, Totally made my day as I sent my crush a mail and was surprised to receive a thank you in return. Of all people to have a mail off I just froze. Well done op

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By *uddly GoblinMan over a year ago

Manchester

In for a laugh

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By *ea monkey OP Man over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Heavens

Is that a good or bad thing?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh I’m in for this