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How has your fab journey changed?
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By *ibonacciMan
over a year ago
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I've probably become more vanilla in a sense.
I think experimenting on Fab has allowed me to explore what I really enjoy, what I had to try, what was out of my comfort zone and what I just had to tick a box for.
So no I've got he T-shirt for a number of things and am more sure what I like now, which is mainly 1 on 1 with a little bit of dominance, teasing and kink. And love videoing and pics.
Would prob not have met the right ladies in the 'real' world to find that out.
Still wouldn't say no to an MFF though  |
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"I started out wanting sex.
Now I don't even want to be desired.
I feel a bit similar. I find it quite liberating "
Me too. Loving myself a lot more I have to admit and I think that comes with having less anxiety about who I interact with. No silly mind games, no lies, no manipulation, no second guessing, no worrying. Nothing. |
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It’s changed completely.
We both were here as singles, looking for sex - C went down rabbit holes pushing her boundaries and vanilla type attitudes. We were both looking for good connections.
Now as a couple our boundaries are ever changing - we are putting ourselves into situations we didn’t think we’d do, getting all over the country visiting clubs and just enjoying the experiences that we are being given…
It’s the start of something pretty damn incredible and we are enjoying every step… 
K |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s changed completely.
We both were here as singles, looking for sex - C went down rabbit holes pushing her boundaries and vanilla type attitudes. We were both looking for good connections.
Now as a couple our boundaries are ever changing - we are putting ourselves into situations we didn’t think we’d do, getting all over the country visiting clubs and just enjoying the experiences that we are being given…
It’s the start of something pretty damn incredible and we are enjoying every step…
K"
This is cute. Do you mean that you met each other on Fab? |
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"It’s changed completely.
We both were here as singles, looking for sex - C went down rabbit holes pushing her boundaries and vanilla type attitudes. We were both looking for good connections.
Now as a couple our boundaries are ever changing - we are putting ourselves into situations we didn’t think we’d do, getting all over the country visiting clubs and just enjoying the experiences that we are being given…
It’s the start of something pretty damn incredible and we are enjoying every step…
K
This is cute. Do you mean that you met each other on Fab?"
Yes we met as singles on here…become FB’s then realised we wanted more. So we are a couple enjoying this journey together now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s changed completely.
We both were here as singles, looking for sex - C went down rabbit holes pushing her boundaries and vanilla type attitudes. We were both looking for good connections.
Now as a couple our boundaries are ever changing - we are putting ourselves into situations we didn’t think we’d do, getting all over the country visiting clubs and just enjoying the experiences that we are being given…
It’s the start of something pretty damn incredible and we are enjoying every step…
K
This is cute. Do you mean that you met each other on Fab?
Yes we met as singles on here…become FB’s then realised we wanted more. So we are a couple enjoying this journey together now "
Ah, I love it!! |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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Apart from natural progression, I think we are basically the same as when we joined FAB. We dip in and out, change the profile when the fancy takes us and meet when we are attracted to another couple and they to us.
But we have been doing that way before FAB! It wasn't quite so easy back in the 1990's but we managed. Then along came the tinterweb thingy and that is when our "style" changed. FAB made it easier to contact, easier to arrange and meet. The biggest thing is that it is FREE! Makes it easier for all the playing aways to have an account.
Not met many from FAB and not for a while now. I guess that would be the ages on our profile. Ours are genuine, more than I can say for others. |
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No I've gone from raging in the sweetshop
Pretty specific fantasy and role-playing
Built a stable of regular partners
Party socialite
I'm just basking this year in what I have
Next year is going to be my club tour bucket list |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met my gorgeous husband to be on here, we are now very much exclusive so everything has changed for us both. Still enjoy the forum and cstching up with friends, but not looking for playmates these days x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I met my gorgeous husband to be on here, we are now very much exclusive so everything has changed for us both. Still enjoy the forum and cstching up with friends, but not looking for playmates these days x"
there’s lovely miss xx
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
Initially I was a kid in a sweet shop. Hit the ground running and at times literally pinched myself in disbelief at the experiences I was having.
Then came organised socials and the discovery of clubs and the fun of co hosting events.
It was an amazing run until COVID hit and priorities re aligned afterwards. I'm content with my current situation and mostly lurk, rarely coming on now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you still play in the same way as you did when you first joined?
We started as ff fun then sex with own partner's, now anything goes
Claire xx"
When I joined I really didn’t know what to expect or know exactly what I was looking for.
I had some ‘interesting’ meets early on which helped me determine what I don’t want. Then
I was lucky enough to meet some very special people on here who have helped me open my eyes, guided me through some incredible experiences but also influenced my confidence and I have never felt to sexually liberated!
It’s been quite a journey and I have definitely grown in many ways. There’s still plenty I want to experience   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You dont get to keep the people you really want so I have stopped all meeting and gone into sulk mode. 
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I'll use chains next time, strings get chewed through.  |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"You dont get to keep the people you really want so I have stopped all meeting and gone into sulk mode.
I'll use chains next time, strings get chewed through. "
Chains and triple locks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In ways, me and my ex partner never shared as such just enjoyed exhibition. I wouldnt say im a swinger, ive joined other couples as a third wheel and exploredbmy own sexuality. The only way id say its changed is i dont get into bed with anyone that shows me interest like the early days. Now i kinda know exactly what does it for me and dont particularly deviate from that. I stick around for the forums and the fab friends ive met along the way   |
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Completely changed my whole outlook since joining! If someone told me some of the things I've done in last few years say as little ago as 5 years I would have never believed them! All for the better though! I've never felt so libaratedx |
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"Do you still play in the same way as you did when you first joined?
We started as ff fun then sex with own partner's, now anything goes
Claire xx"
I was looking for BBW's (still am) but my Husband found me here instead, so yeah, it's changed lol |
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Totally different… originally joined for mmf with an ex. Stayed as a single to tick a few things off alone. Now I’m bored of giving back ones I like so have no intention of meeting anyone who can’t be regular and sociable and not looking to meet everyone. |
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Changed massively, started out as myself and Mrs mischief just couple only play, then into hosting for a long long time then out of hosting because of work hours. Now we are both looking for fwb each as it suits our lifestyle and time and its an added bonus.
Still looking for that elusive fwb |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I joined after being recommended by a friend, had a bucket list which I did and then got outed by someone who was in all intents and purposes, a nutter. Had to hide a bit as it’s a small island and now I’m back.
No bucket list this time round . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing much has really changed, still getting rejected left right and center, and messages being ignored haha.
But it's got a lot better, interacting in the forums a little more and have had a couple meets so all in all could be worse.
Still have so much I want to try and experience though... |
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