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By *use4me OP Man
over a year ago
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Ok its my presumptions by present and past lovers that generally women like it hard and fast. For me, hard and fast loses a lot of sensation, yes I can still cum, but it lacks the intensity and I definitely feel I am doing it for the women's pleasure over my own. What feels nicest for me is quite slow deep thrusts. Are us men conceding some of our own pleasure to make sure women get that hard and fast pleasure they seem to prefer? Maybe its just me re slow sensation is more intense, but interested to know others perspective on this both women and men what do you prefer and what feels nicest. thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to pop my cork quickly and move onto the snacks and pillow talk. I know my strengths. 
What a stud you are Mr Blooms  "
Heh, it'll be the best four minutes sex of your life !  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Either neither both, somewhere in between?
Not a sprint or a marathon, maybe the 800 metres? Slow start and gradually build to a heart pounding surge on the last lap |
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"I like to pop my cork quickly and move onto the snacks and pillow talk. I know my strengths.
What a stud you are Mr Blooms
Heh, it'll be the best four minutes sex of your life ! "
Won't even have to break a sweat either..... |
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"Ok its my presumptions by present and past lovers that generally women like it hard and fast. For me, hard and fast loses a lot of sensation, yes I can still cum, but it lacks the intensity and I definitely feel I am doing it for the women's pleasure over my own. What feels nicest for me is quite slow deep thrusts. Are us men conceding some of our own pleasure to make sure women get that hard and fast pleasure they seem to prefer? Maybe its just me re slow sensation is more intense, but interested to know others perspective on this both women and men what do you prefer and what feels nicest. thanks."
I tend to agree with you OP but I have to admit that there have been three occasions that what I liked wasn't exactly what they liked. One was actually a verification, but he did say that I was too gentle with her, and if we were to play again I would need to be a lot rougher with her. Another lady who wanted to date long term said to me that I would never make a dom as I am too nice a guy, but she could go and scratch that itch when needed. The third was a hotel meet that was a hard and fast fuck and go. As I suggested a slow sensual experience, the lady told me that what I like is not what everyone likes. As I left so another guy came up the corridor and knocked the door. Seems like it was a target driven timed call. So with those experiences in mind, I try to get a feel for what different people like before we play. |
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"Either neither both, somewhere in between?
Not a sprint or a marathon, maybe the 800 metres? Slow start and gradually build to a heart pounding surge on the last lap"
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