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By *altsea OP Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
I’ve met a few couples now and then one stand out difference is whether the Wife enjoys kissing the stranger. Some couples enjoy it but others feel that kissing is too intimate and should be saved for their own relationship. A question to couples… Do you enjoy kissing with the Single Male ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not bothered either way. Although we'd tend to avoid people that say they don't do it in order to avoid potential awkwardness.
Being fucked in the arse seems more intimate to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not bothered either way. Although we'd tend to avoid people that say they don't do it in order to avoid potential awkwardness.
Being fucked in the arse seems more intimate to me."
Ha ha yip I can relate to that one would amaze people how meny guys don’t mind sticking they wick in my ass but god for bid you try and go for a kiss
Had a couple off guys who have just stopped mid thrust and got up and left
Alway make it a point now to ask before meeting |
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By *avhonaWoman
over a year ago
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To each their own, of course but I can't help but wonder whether they have taken this idea from the film 'Pretty Woman', as I'd not even considered the idea of kissing to be seen as perhaps 'too intimate' until I heard her line about avoiding it.
For me, kissing is where the ice melts away and a lovely sexual chemical reaction begins, inevitably leading to fantastic sex.
By no means does it mean I want to marry you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d struggle without kissing it’s such an important part of the fun, it’s just adds to intensity and chemistry, gets the mind works and it’s just a lovely feeling. |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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As a couple there are things that make you a couple. If you are a swinging couple than you have to retain some of that and in a lot of cases kissing is an intimate act between couples (their link) and not to be shared |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t get how kissing is considered too intimate but being inside someone isn’t? Beyond me. 
If I’m attracted to somebody I deffo want to snog them haha x
I used to think the same and when somebody went in for a kiss (I fancied him but I was sort of seeing someone at the time) after we had sex and I backed off.. and he said.. “ so u sucked my dick but u are grossed out about a kiss?”
Man had a point
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d struggle without kissing it’s such an important part of the fun, it’s just adds to intensity and chemistry, gets the mind works and it’s just a lovely feeling. "
I agree. Each to their own though; we all have our preferences, wants akd needs, and I'll always respect that. ...but I have had a meet with a 'no kissing' couple and I won't lie I didn't quite enjoy it as much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have both always kissed.
Now we’ve started to meet men as well as women it wasn’t even a subject we discussed.
It’s just perfectly natural when making out.
Even kissing our meet goodbye at the train station xx |
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We both love kissing others (outside of the swingers scene too). Isn't is great? Who doesn't love kissing and experiencing what others kiss like? We don't see kissing as some kind a special thing between just us. Just an expression of universal love and its absolutely hot. The kisses we share are different anyway, there's just something more to them. So nothing to fear from others kisses. We're not really into sharing with others who don't kiss. To us that just doesn't feel right, but each to their own. |
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No we don't enjoy kissing our casual partners.
It's an unpopular boundary but a boundary nevertheless. Despite these threads cropping up regularly I'm always a tiny bit taken aback by the number of people who wouldn't dream of criticising other boundaries roundly condemning this one. There is also always the Pretty Woman reference as if we don't have the wherewithal to know our own mind and need to rely on a fictional sex worker to give us an idea for a boundary. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No we don't enjoy kissing our casual partners.
It's an unpopular boundary but a boundary nevertheless. Despite these threads cropping up regularly I'm always a tiny bit taken aback by the number of people who wouldn't dream of criticising other boundaries roundly condemning this one. There is also always the Pretty Woman reference as if we don't have the wherewithal to know our own mind and need to rely on a fictional sex worker to give us an idea for a boundary. "
Your boundaries, your rules. If people don’t respect them they should look elsewhere. |
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"No we don't enjoy kissing our casual partners.
It's an unpopular boundary but a boundary nevertheless. Despite these threads cropping up regularly I'm always a tiny bit taken aback by the number of people who wouldn't dream of criticising other boundaries roundly condemning this one. There is also always the Pretty Woman reference as if we don't have the wherewithal to know our own mind and need to rely on a fictional sex worker to give us an idea for a boundary.
Your boundaries, your rules. If people don’t respect them they should look elsewhere. "
Oh they make it quite clear that they do . Quite unaware that we aren't going to want to meet them either. It's simply a matter of incompatibility nothing more or less, no idea what they're worried about.  |
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As a single I've always been happy to kiss.
However when in a relationship I wasn't comfortable kissing other guys but I was kising other women.
To me at that time, kissing other blokes felt somewhat cheaty to me (to me personally regarding me and how it made me feel. It didn't feel right to me. I don't think other people are cheaty for kissing) If I was shagging another dude, it was my partner I'd want to be kissing at the time. It was him I wanted to share that moment with.
I dunno how to explain it, if I was sucking another mans dick I was pleasuring him, if I was kissing him I was connecting with him kinda thing. |
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