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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does anyone describe themselves as a "bully"? If so, why?
I've seen it quite a lot on here and it always makes me feel really intimidated. I like it a bit rougher than the next person, but that word makes me feel uneasy for some reason. From anyone who likes it - what's the appeal? |
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"Does anyone describe themselves as a "bully"? If so, why?
I've seen it quite a lot on here and it always makes me feel really intimidated. I like it a bit rougher than the next person, but that word makes me feel uneasy for some reason. From anyone who likes it - what's the appeal? "
What rough things do you like but at the same time make you feel uneasy? I am just trying to understand… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can’t image that would be attractive to many women on here. They want reassurance they’ll be safe with the stranger they’re meeting, not bullied, seems the wrong choice of words to me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Surprised to see so many people that have never come across it on here. I tend to notice it a lot more on younger guys' profiles, so it might be the demographics we're looking at? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Does anyone describe themselves as a "bully"? If so, why?
I've seen it quite a lot on here and it always makes me feel really intimidated. I like it a bit rougher than the next person, but that word makes me feel uneasy for some reason. From anyone who likes it - what's the appeal?
What rough things do you like but at the same time make you feel uneasy? I am just trying to understand…"
The word makes me uncomfortable. |
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"Does anyone describe themselves as a "bully"? If so, why?
I've seen it quite a lot on here and it always makes me feel really intimidated. I like it a bit rougher than the next person, but that word makes me feel uneasy for some reason. From anyone who likes it - what's the appeal?
What rough things do you like but at the same time make you feel uneasy? I am just trying to understand…
The word makes me uncomfortable. "
if you could give some examples of what you would famcy in a controlled emvirnoment (safe for you)? For the sake of the discussion. |
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"Does anyone describe themselves as a "bully"? If so, why?
I've seen it quite a lot on here and it always makes me feel really intimidated. I like it a bit rougher than the next person, but that word makes me feel uneasy for some reason. From anyone who likes it - what's the appeal?
What rough things do you like but at the same time make you feel uneasy? I am just trying to understand…
The word makes me uncomfortable.
if you could give some examples of what you would famcy in a controlled emvirnoment (safe for you)? For the sake of the discussion."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone describe themselves as a "bully"? If so, why?
I've seen it quite a lot on here and it always makes me feel really intimidated. I like it a bit rougher than the next person, but that word makes me feel uneasy for some reason. From anyone who likes it - what's the appeal?
What rough things do you like but at the same time make you feel uneasy? I am just trying to understand…
The word makes me uncomfortable.
if you could give some examples of what you would famcy in a controlled emvirnoment (safe for you)? For the sake of the discussion."
It’s not what you do, it’s the way it’s done. I can be thrown around, slapped, ch*k*d, humiliated, but it’s consensual and I know he always has my best interest foremost in his mind.
This is not what comes to mind with the term bully. |
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"Does anyone describe themselves as a "bully"? If so, why?
I've seen it quite a lot on here and it always makes me feel really intimidated. I like it a bit rougher than the next person, but that word makes me feel uneasy for some reason. From anyone who likes it - what's the appeal?
What rough things do you like but at the same time make you feel uneasy? I am just trying to understand…
The word makes me uncomfortable.
if you could give some examples of what you would famcy in a controlled emvirnoment (safe for you)? For the sake of the discussion.
It’s not what you do, it’s the way it’s done. I can be thrown around, slapped, ch*k*d, humiliated, but it’s consensual and I know he always has my best interest foremost in his mind.
This is not what comes to mind with the term bully."
I see… With the wrong person, such a situation can turn unpleasant I am afraid… |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone describe themselves as a "bully"? If so, why?
I've seen it quite a lot on here and it always makes me feel really intimidated. I like it a bit rougher than the next person, but that word makes me feel uneasy for some reason. From anyone who likes it - what's the appeal?
What rough things do you like but at the same time make you feel uneasy? I am just trying to understand…
The word makes me uncomfortable.
if you could give some examples of what you would famcy in a controlled emvirnoment (safe for you)? For the sake of the discussion.
It’s not what you do, it’s the way it’s done. I can be thrown around, slapped, ch*k*d, humiliated, but it’s consensual and I know he always has my best interest foremost in his mind.
This is not what comes to mind with the term bully.
I see… With the wrong person, such a situation can turn unpleasant I am afraid…"
Which is why those with the term bully, are to be avoided. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seen the term being sed on the forums last year during the first lockdown
Guy got tore a new one
Personal I wouldn’t want a bully
Yes domanite me but I also want to feel in control off the situation |
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By *yronMan
over a year ago
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I can't say that it sounds like someone who would endear themselves to me, Urban Dictionary has this definition of it:
"Bedroom Bully
A man who controls and dominates the bedroom, he can be aggressive and forceful during sexual activity! Serve you pain and pleasure while making you wet enjoying the pleasure of pleasuring. He has far and few limits with the attitude of “just do what daddy say”!"
Sounds pretty horrific.
https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Bedroom%20Bully
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By *yronMan
over a year ago
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"I've not come across it but bully to me comes across as without consent. As a bully doesn't ask before they bully their victim. I would be uncomfortable with someone who would use this term."
As I understand it, it means exactly that: in all honesty, it sounds like someone who'd end up with a Police report. |
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"Maybe Shabba Ranks has joined Fab his daddy was a bedroom bully 
Yes! Shabba! God that gave me some memories haha That's what came to mind when I saw the thread "
Fair play! The 1 for me that comes to mind is of course Mr Loverman |
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