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Is life really over at 55!?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Having just passed the 55 mark in life, i can't believe how many people have their upper age limit set at 55.
It's making me feel totally past it, which i'm not.
Just as horny and capable as i've ever been. I feel like i'm in my prime but considered a pensioner!  |
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Firstly let me say that your life isn't over because you can't find a meet on a swinger's site. That's a little bit dramatic 
Single men find getting meets difficult on here whatever their age. One suggestion I will make is to set your search criteria to only include people looking for those of 55 and over. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Look at it as moving away from the designer label to the niche market. I didn't join here until I was 52 so I'm just getting warmed up "
The niche market seems to be all beige without much colour on the rails!  |
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Others control who they interact with and you control how you respond to the reality outside of you, including that.
Keep your focus on those things that could help you to meet your objectives here, including those wanting your age group etc. Anything else is a distraction |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Firstly let me say that your life isn't over because you can't find a meet on a swinger's site. That's a little bit dramatic
Single men find getting meets difficult on here whatever their age. One suggestion I will make is to set your search criteria to only include people looking for those of 55 and over. "
What, set it only to wrinklies? Lmao  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hope not, I turned 55 at the weekend 
I think you'll find woman have no trouble at any age x"
I see that your limit is 58 never sure how people set their ranges when age is but a number lol |
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"I hope not, I turned 55 at the weekend
I think you'll find woman have no trouble at any age x
I see that your limit is 58 never sure how people set their ranges when age is but a number lol"
It’s not to me … |
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"Firstly let me say that your life isn't over because you can't find a meet on a swinger's site. That's a little bit dramatic
Single men find getting meets difficult on here whatever their age. One suggestion I will make is to set your search criteria to only include people looking for those of 55 and over.
What, set it only to wrinklies? Lmao "
 if you don't want wrinklies, why should any one else ?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Firstly let me say that your life isn't over because you can't find a meet on a swinger's site. That's a little bit dramatic
Single men find getting meets difficult on here whatever their age. One suggestion I will make is to set your search criteria to only include people looking for those of 55 and over.
What, set it only to wrinklies? Lmao
if you don't want wrinklies, why should any one else ? "
I might be old but still have a playful sense of humour |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have an upper age limit also. Does that mean life ends at 65?
The older you get the smaller the pool of people who’s re attracted to you gets, that’s just life. Always best to focus on those who are interested rather than those who aren’t. |
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"I hope not, I turned 55 at the weekend
I think you'll find woman have no trouble at any age x"
Trust me they do. I'm soon going to be 65. That is out of most people's age range. I don't expect younger people to want to have sex with me and I don't think I'm entitled to sex from people my own age and older. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hope not, I turned 55 at the weekend
I think you'll find woman have no trouble at any age x
I see that your limit is 58 never sure how people set their ranges when age is but a number lol"
It’s just a number to you, it isn’t just a number to everyone else and that’s fine.
Not everyone wants to sleep with someone young enough to be their daughter/son or old enough to be their mum/dad/grandparent. |
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"Firstly let me say that your life isn't over because you can't find a meet on a swinger's site. That's a little bit dramatic
Single men find getting meets difficult on here whatever their age. One suggestion I will make is to set your search criteria to only include people looking for those of 55 and over.
What, set it only to wrinklies? Lmao
if you don't want wrinklies, why should any one else ?
I might be old but still have a playful sense of humour"
I don't think sense of humour changes. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Firstly let me say that your life isn't over because you can't find a meet on a swinger's site. That's a little bit dramatic
Single men find getting meets difficult on here whatever their age. One suggestion I will make is to set your search criteria to only include people looking for those of 55 and over.
What, set it only to wrinklies? Lmao
if you don't want wrinklies, why should any one else ?
I might be old but still have a playful sense of humour
I don't think sense of humour changes. "
It does, i used to like Les Dawson but he hasn't come out with any new material for ages so not it's all gone Lee Mack. Almost identical apart from the swearing though i guess. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being older on here often reduces the connections with potential play partners. Having at aged 66 been at a club recently, I have had greater success in meeting ladies for whom age is not an issue. I’m now convinced I should not spend as much time on here messaging but attend clubs regularly. |
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"I hope not, I turned 55 at the weekend
I think you'll find woman have no trouble at any age x
Trust me they do. I'm soon going to be 65. That is out of most people's age range. I don't expect younger people to want to have sex with me and I don't think I'm entitled to sex from people my own age and older. "
Are you joking me? Id love to have sex with you... Just tell me where and when and im jumping on a plane xx |
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"I hope not, I turned 55 at the weekend
I think you'll find woman have no trouble at any age x
Trust me they do. I'm soon going to be 65. That is out of most people's age range. I don't expect younger people to want to have sex with me and I don't think I'm entitled to sex from people my own age and older.
Are you joking me? Id love to have sex with you... Just tell me where and when and im jumping on a plane xx"
I'm not joking . |
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"I hope not, I turned 55 at the weekend
I think you'll find woman have no trouble at any age x
Trust me they do. I'm soon going to be 65. That is out of most people's age range. I don't expect younger people to want to have sex with me and I don't think I'm entitled to sex from people my own age and older.
Are you joking me? Id love to have sex with you... Just tell me where and when and im jumping on a plane xx
I'm not joking . "
Me neither xx |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I hope not, I turned 55 at the weekend
I think you'll find woman have no trouble at any age x
I see that your limit is 58 never sure how people set their ranges when age is but a number lol"
Some people like a smaller number |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Firstly let me say that your life isn't over because you can't find a meet on a swinger's site. That's a little bit dramatic
Single men find getting meets difficult on here whatever their age. One suggestion I will make is to set your search criteria to only include people looking for those of 55 and over.
What, set it only to wrinklies? Lmao
if you don't want wrinklies, why should any one else ?
I might be old but still have a playful sense of humour"
So do some people with wrinkles |
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By *VK2018Man
over a year ago
Preston |
You stand a better chance meeting real people in clubs than here. I have met people here whose age limit is 40 but ended up playing with me in clubs. But most importantly, look after yourself. Stay fit, healthy and trendy to be relevant to women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've changed my upper limit to 99 now. FUCK! if you only just make it i think i'd better have an oxygen tank on stand by! Lol"
Would you really sleep with a 99 year old though?
I mean it’s your profile do what you like, I don’t know about anyone else but when I see 18-99 on a profile I just think they’re not fussy and will have anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not at all i'm 60 and still attract and get along with ladies much younger than myself. 60 the new 40."
Flipping heck. You look a lot younger than your age! You have a body to rival or surpass the 20 something's. Well done on your fitness. I would, just sayin'  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've changed my upper limit to 99 now. FUCK! if you only just make it i think i'd better have an oxygen tank on stand by! Lol
Would you really sleep with a 99 year old though?
I mean it’s your profile do what you like, I don’t know about anyone else but when I see 18-99 on a profile I just think they’re not fussy and will have anyone. "
As i'm sure most blokes will agree, you're one of those women who makes a blokes think " i really can't win!" Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've changed my upper limit to 99 now. FUCK! if you only just make it i think i'd better have an oxygen tank on stand by! Lol
Would you really sleep with a 99 year old though?
I mean it’s your profile do what you like, I don’t know about anyone else but when I see 18-99 on a profile I just think they’re not fussy and will have anyone.
As i'm sure most blokes will agree, you're one of those women who makes a blokes think " i really can't win!" Lol"
I’m one person. My opinion alone doesn’t matter that much I was just saying.
Plenty of women have said the same on here before.
You should do your profile how you see fit, and not what you think appeals to most women.  |
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By *andy2123Couple
over a year ago
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"Firstly let me say that your life isn't over because you can't find a meet on a swinger's site. That's a little bit dramatic
Single men find getting meets difficult on here whatever their age. One suggestion I will make is to set your search criteria to only include people looking for those of 55 and over. "
Think it is for us, can't get a meet anymore on here. xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I will be 56,sweet 55 very soon,I don't give a shit if some find us too old,If we are not what they are looking for,and because of that they are most definitely not what we are looking for
We concentrate on those looking our age range,not those that aren't
Remember on fab there is someone for everyone,not everyone for someone |
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Being 61 is proving to be a bit of a nightmare with getting any meets and it's not going to get any easier. I'm just concentrating on trying to find some friends to chat with and write a few dirty stories for them and see what happens. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm now 63 and generally use Fab for the forums. Outside Fab I've had 3 different sexual partners this year so I don't think I'm over the hill yet, just struggling a bit on the steep sections |
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Age is just a number, but for some of us a rather large one! Having said that I find I'm one of those lucky women who's sex drive increased post menopause and I'm loving it.
To all us oldies we have something the youngsters haven't - experience and we know what we want and how we want it or at least I do xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Age is just a number, but for some of us a rather large one! Having said that I find I'm one of those lucky women who's sex drive increased post menopause and I'm loving it.
To all us oldies we have something the youngsters haven't - experience and we know what we want and how we want it or at least I do xx"
But not every older person has experience and knows what they want. Equally as not every young person is inexperienced and indecisive.
That’s a misconception. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I've just turned 60 and find the same maybe not so much on fab always some unsuitable trying thier luck, but definitely on dating sites.
Profile stays hidden these days as got completely dispondant! |
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"Age is just a number, but for some of us a rather large one! Having said that I find I'm one of those lucky women who's sex drive increased post menopause and I'm loving it.
To all us oldies we have something the youngsters haven't - experience and we know what we want and how we want it or at least I do xx
But not every older person has experience and knows what they want. Equally as not every young person is inexperienced and indecisive.
That’s a misconception. "
Noted, I should have worded it differently x |
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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago
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Would you really sleep with a 99 year old though?
I mean it’s your profile do what you like, I don’t know about anyone else but when I see 18-99 on a profile I just think they’re not fussy and will have anyone. "
I doubt it's ever likely to happen! I can see why people ask this, but I tend to view it from the opposite side. I'm less likely to meet people from the outer ends of the age spectrum and mord likely to play with people my own age, but why set a limit? I'm happy to play with people of all ages if I find then attractive, it's not very likely I'd find myself playing with someone, say, over 60 but I'm sure there are a few 61 year olds out there I would play with. So set it at 61? But what about that hot 62 year old over there in the hot tub? And so on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Mr M is 55 and he's far from over the hill.
Bits falling off him but still in good working order.
Mrs Mx"
Ypu're not doing so bad yourself Mrs. MX. In fact, damned fabulous for 53!! |
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"I hope not, I turned 55 at the weekend
I think you'll find woman have no trouble at any age x
I see that your limit is 58 never sure how people set their ranges when age is but a number lol"
Age is more than just a number to me, I don't want to be in bed with someone young enough to be my son or old enough to be my dad. |
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"Mr M is 55 and he's far from over the hill.
Bits falling off him but still in good working order.
Mrs Mx
Ypu're not doing so bad yourself Mrs. MX. In fact, damned fabulous for 53!!"
Seeing a guy aged 40 at the moment, he's keeping me young and I am keeping up with him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having just passed the 55 mark in life, i can't believe how many people have their upper age limit set at 55.
It's making me feel totally past it, which i'm not.
Just as horny and capable as i've ever been. I feel like i'm in my prime but considered a pensioner! "
If the heart still beats, it's not over. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No it's not OP but the hot twenty somethings you might want to fuck might not want to fuck you. The majority of people on here are getting on a bit, you should be ok.  "
 Im a twenty something in my head |
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By *rad670Man
over a year ago
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I'm a few years older than your 55, at first it seems you limit your chances on here and in life in general, in reality you have a wealth of wisdom and experience and some more select people on here will recognise that. I have been contacted by people who have their age limits set well below my age and some even saying not looking for single guys, the good thing is that they will choose you and them kind of meets are well worth waiting for. I hear so many bad stories about the younger guys on here so being over 55 doesn't bother me anymore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Would you really sleep with a 99 year old though?
I mean it’s your profile do what you like, I don’t know about anyone else but when I see 18-99 on a profile I just think they’re not fussy and will have anyone.
I doubt it's ever likely to happen! I can see why people ask this, but I tend to view it from the opposite side. I'm less likely to meet people from the outer ends of the age spectrum and mord likely to play with people my own age, but why set a limit? I'm happy to play with people of all ages if I find then attractive, it's not very likely I'd find myself playing with someone, say, over 60 but I'm sure there are a few 61 year olds out there I would play with. So set it at 61? But what about that hot 62 year old over there in the hot tub? And so on. "
But yours is currently set at 65… I get what you’re saying but it doesn’t really go with what’s on your profile.
I think there’s a limit for most people to be honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm 54 and loving life, might not gets meets from fab but it's not fab or nothing, well not for me.
Go out and enjoy life and if you get a meet from here take it as a bonus |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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It depends on how you define over. If you are male and over 55 you are padt your fab shag by date. So.many threads on ageism.
If you are female and have a pulse age is meaningless here.
As for life being over after 55 far from it but just don't expect anything from FAB . Male age in the FAB world really does matter |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It depends on how you define over. If you are male and over 55 you are padt your fab shag by date. So.many threads on ageism.
If you are female and have a pulse age is meaningless here.
As for life being over after 55 far from it but just don't expect anything from FAB . Male age in the FAB world really does matter "
No it doesn't unless you have let yourself go  |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
Life’s certainly not over in fact for many guys 50s are the decade of huge impact & significance. Free from raising kids and pushing hard on career/business, it’s a decade when you can really live life to the max, especially if you’ve made good decisions and are fit, healthy, sharp and financially secure.
As for here , I guess it will tail off a bit 55-60 but that’s probably a good thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Crikey! I hope not. I'm way past 55 but still alive and kicking. I may not be meeting on here any more due to circumstances in real life which are much more important but I'm a long way off hanging up my clogs. At 55 you're a youngster and there are always people who will meet you if you look and make a connection. Keep going as long as you want to. |
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. Also use two other sites. There yes get some messages from females nearer age range. They only want companion etc. No physical contact . One who messaged put very clear. She wanted male to go out with. Even away etc. But separate rooms. I live in hope lol 
