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"You have settled this in your own conscience... stick to your guns; and leave graciously. Good luck in whatever comes next... "I plan to do just that Thank you lovely xx | |||
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"For handing in my notice today and I know it will be a shit conversation. Ugh, please send vibes from the positivity possum and cake... Thanks in advance Miss D" It’s a tough decision on you’ve obviously not taken it right. It sounds as though it’s the right thing to do for you x  | |||
"For handing in my notice today and I know it will be a shit conversation. Ugh, please send vibes from the positivity possum and cake... Thanks in advance Miss D" Have you got a better job to go to? Look forward. Good luck. Xx | |||
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"Good luck with it, it’s a stepping stone to better things " Thank you. It definitely is Someone at work has made my life difficult from day one, undermining me and telling lies to my boss. Monday on my day off she went to my boss and told her that I had a job interview across town Last week I had a day off because I was feeling rough she told my boss she saw me shopping 
Another colleague said to me yesterday "there is lots of stuff flying around about you" so decided enough is enough. Mentally and emotionally
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"For handing in my notice today and I know it will be a shit conversation. Ugh, please send vibes from the positivity possum and cake... Thanks in advance Good luck in handing in your notice today You post a super profile x Miss D" | |||
"Good luck with it, it’s a stepping stone to better things Thank you. It definitely is Someone at work has made my life difficult from day one, undermining me and telling lies to my boss. Monday on my day off she went to my boss and told her that I had a job interview across town Last week I had a day off because I was feeling rough she told my boss she saw me shopping
Another colleague said to me yesterday "there is lots of stuff flying around about you" so decided enough is enough. Mentally and emotionally
Awwww bless you....
You have had a tough time of it xx
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"Good luck with it, it’s a stepping stone to better things Thank you. It definitely is Someone at work has made my life difficult from day one, undermining me and telling lies to my boss. Monday on my day off she went to my boss and told her that I had a job interview across town Last week I had a day off because I was feeling rough she told my boss she saw me shopping
Another colleague said to me yesterday "there is lots of stuff flying around about you" so decided enough is enough. Mentally and emotionally
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"Good luck with it, it’s a stepping stone to better things Thank you. It definitely is Someone at work has made my life difficult from day one, undermining me and telling lies to my boss. Monday on my day off she went to my boss and told her that I had a job interview across town Last week I had a day off because I was feeling rough she told my boss she saw me shopping
Another colleague said to me yesterday "there is lots of stuff flying around about you" so decided enough is enough. Mentally and emotionally
"If it was me I'd feel the urge to confront that particular person and in front of the boss. However not knowing the dynamics,, the environment you are in sounds toxic. Your health and well being are far more important obviously | |||
"Good luck with it, it’s a stepping stone to better things Thank you. It definitely is Someone at work has made my life difficult from day one, undermining me and telling lies to my boss. Monday on my day off she went to my boss and told her that I had a job interview across town Last week I had a day off because I was feeling rough she told my boss she saw me shopping
Another colleague said to me yesterday "there is lots of stuff flying around about you" so decided enough is enough. Mentally and emotionally
"No-one needs this in their life, you gotta do what you gotta do….a smack in the chops wouldn’t go amiss for the lying biatch either | |||
"For handing in my notice today and I know it will be a shit conversation. Ugh, please send vibes from the positivity possum and cake... Thanks in advance Miss D" Sending u all the positive vibes to you lovely! U can do it and think of all the good things, one door closes… another opens! | |||
"Good luck with it, it’s a stepping stone to better things Thank you. It definitely is Someone at work has made my life difficult from day one, undermining me and telling lies to my boss. Monday on my day off she went to my boss and told her that I had a job interview across town Last week I had a day off because I was feeling rough she told my boss she saw me shopping
Another colleague said to me yesterday "there is lots of stuff flying around about you" so decided enough is enough. Mentally and emotionally
"Have you raised the issues you are facing with your HR dept? In my company any harassment cases are immediately investigated as part of a confidential investigation. There is also a zero retaliation policy to protect employees You should perhaps get some legal advice .. This sounds like a potential constructive dismissal case ?? | |||
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"Good luck with it, it’s a stepping stone to better things Thank you. It definitely is Someone at work has made my life difficult from day one, undermining me and telling lies to my boss. Monday on my day off she went to my boss and told her that I had a job interview across town Last week I had a day off because I was feeling rough she told my boss she saw me shopping
Another colleague said to me yesterday "there is lots of stuff flying around about you" so decided enough is enough. Mentally and emotionally
"I’m confused why people can be so mean to the point they have to use these dirty tricks to put you in bad spot with your boss/bosses. It makes me wanna vomit x 
In an ideal world she should be the one going, but well done for lovin yourself more and virtually saying “fuck off all of u” | |||
its a horrible feeling isnt it especially when you have no gripes with a workplace | |||
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"Sounds like a bullying complaint is more in order than your notice but only you know if that's's a fight you would be able to win or one you have the strength for. Whatever you do, good luck and I hope the future is better than the present. Sending a hug. Mr" | |||
"Good luck with it, it’s a stepping stone to better things Thank you. It definitely is Someone at work has made my life difficult from day one, undermining me and telling lies to my boss. Monday on my day off she went to my boss and told her that I had a job interview across town Last week I had a day off because I was feeling rough she told my boss she saw me shopping
Another colleague said to me yesterday "there is lots of stuff flying around about you" so decided enough is enough. Mentally and emotionally
If it was me I'd feel the urge to confront that particular person and in front of the boss. However not knowing the dynamics,, the environment you are in sounds toxic. Your health and well being are far more important obviously " | |||
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"For handing in my notice today and I know it will be a shit conversation. Ugh, please send vibes from the positivity possum and cake... Thanks in advance Miss D" Good luck. I did this myself a few months ago and am now near the end of my notice period. Firms try to create beliefs that people belong in a firm, or owe the firm loyalty to stay, or whatever, but this is really simple ... you have a contract of employment with them, and one of the rights in that contract is to terminate it and leave. It’s just business. It’s just business when they make decisions that staff are unhappy about and it’s just business when you decide to take your life or career in a different direction. The firm may not be happy that you are leaving, and if that is the case that’s a positive, shows you were doing a good job. But most of all, you leaving is an inconvenience for them, as they need to replace you, are losing experience etc. But that is their problem! Don’t let them try to make their problem your problem. Good luck! | |||
"Good luck with it, it’s a stepping stone to better things Thank you. It definitely is Someone at work has made my life difficult from day one, undermining me and telling lies to my boss. Monday on my day off she went to my boss and told her that I had a job interview across town Last week I had a day off because I was feeling rough she told my boss she saw me shopping
Another colleague said to me yesterday "there is lots of stuff flying around about you" so decided enough is enough. Mentally and emotionally
"Sounds like a right cow. You have to wonder why people behave like that. Chances are she is just jealous of you as you look amazing. Feel free to point the finger right at this person when you are asked why you are leaving. Quite possible that this sort of behaviour is not news to your bosses | |||
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"For handing in my notice today and I know it will be a shit conversation. Ugh, please send vibes from the positivity possum and cake... Thanks in advance Miss D" Good luck today! Think of it as one door closing & another opening! | |||
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"Good luck with it, it’s a stepping stone to better things Thank you. It definitely is Someone at work has made my life difficult from day one, undermining me and telling lies to my boss. Monday on my day off she went to my boss and told her that I had a job interview across town Last week I had a day off because I was feeling rough she told my boss she saw me shopping
Another colleague said to me yesterday "there is lots of stuff flying around about you" so decided enough is enough. Mentally and emotionally
"You don't need that and pretty sure it's not deserved... so look at it as their loss and that so much better things will come for you. Well done for standing up and good luck x | |||
"For handing in my notice today and I know it will be a shit conversation. Ugh, please send vibes from the positivity possum and cake... Thanks in advance Miss D It’s a tough decision on you’ve obviously not taken it right. It sounds as though it’s the right thing to do for you x "They should’ve said light not right! Worst possible time to miss spell something! Sorry!  | |||
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"For handing in my notice today and I know it will be a shit conversation. Ugh, please send vibes from the positivity possum and cake... Thanks in advance Miss D" How did it go? | |||
I never got the opportunity to speak to my boss, she was either busy or out
And I agree with everyone saying it being a grievance. I plan to I just want to see what her response is to it first before I raise it formally
In the past I've requested a mediation meeting with this person who has refused it. | |||
"Thank you all! It means a lot to have so much love and support from you all
I never got the opportunity to speak to my boss, she was either busy or out
And I agree with everyone saying it being a grievance. I plan to I just want to see what her response is to it first before I raise it formally
In the past I've requested a mediation meeting with this person who has refused it. "That’s disappointing for you after getting ready for it
Stick at it, you’re doing the right thing | |||
"Thank you all! It means a lot to have so much love and support from you all
I never got the opportunity to speak to my boss, she was either busy or out
And I agree with everyone saying it being a grievance. I plan to I just want to see what her response is to it first before I raise it formally
In the past I've requested a mediation meeting with this person who has refused it. "Shit, what a let-down for you! I hope you can speak to her soon, and get things sorted one way or another x | |||
"Thank you all! It means a lot to have so much love and support from you all
I never got the opportunity to speak to my boss, she was either busy or out
And I agree with everyone saying it being a grievance. I plan to I just want to see what her response is to it first before I raise it formally
In the past I've requested a mediation meeting with this person who has refused it. "Definitely got grounds for constructive dismissal. Speak to a union or employment solicitor | |||
"Thank you all! It means a lot to have so much love and support from you all
I never got the opportunity to speak to my boss, she was either busy or out
And I agree with everyone saying it being a grievance. I plan to I just want to see what her response is to it first before I raise it formally
In the past I've requested a mediation meeting with this person who has refused it. "I’m so sorry you are experiencing this. I had something similar but the culprit was my own boss. I put up with it for years and put in grievances but she was “friends” with HR director & the grievance was handled by a VP instead of her peer. They didn’t uphold it which I expected but they recommended mediation and I agreed but my “boss” never agreed to a date. I’m the end I moved to a different role in a new department and had never been happier. It was my dream job without even knowing it. I’m only sharing my experience because sometimes your gut instinct to move on or away is the right one. You can fight back but you still end up moving on. I hope you get support and peace soon lovely if not do you want us to beat her up and steal hers sandwiches?? | |||
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"Thank you all! It means a lot to have so much love and support from you all
I never got the opportunity to speak to my boss, she was either busy or out
And I agree with everyone saying it being a grievance. I plan to I just want to see what her response is to it first before I raise it formally
In the past I've requested a mediation meeting with this person who has refused it.
I’m so sorry you are experiencing this. I had something similar but the culprit was my own boss. I put up with it for years and put in grievances but she was “friends” with HR director & the grievance was handled by a VP instead of her peer. They didn’t uphold it which I expected but they recommended mediation and I agreed but my “boss” never agreed to a date. I’m the end I moved to a different role in a new department and had never been happier. It was my dream job without even knowing it.
I’m only sharing my experience because sometimes your gut instinct to move on or away is the right one. You can fight back but you still end up moving on.
I hope you get support and peace soon lovely if not do you want us to beat her up and steal hers sandwiches?? "Oh god! What a nightmare!!! Just makes my blood boil that people can put others through that! I've had issues since I started there and always thought that it must be me, am I too sensitive? Could I have deeper issues I tried to raise the issues during supervisions and she would query my mental health, am I perceiving things because of how I felt and I thought well it must be me.... Now I know it's not, the place was causing my mental health, it is a vicious circle Glad you got free and much happier x | |||
Apparently my mental health factors in my perception of what things are said
As for the lies that was met with "yeah well people assume"
But on the plus side I only have to give 3 weeks notice as the 4tg week is my annual leave anyway | |||
"So I handed in my notice. My boss was as expected "maybe this isn't for you" speech I relayed my reasons and concerns which was met with "oh you know what working with women is like" I responded "and there was me thinking I an working in a professional environment with grown adults
Apparently my mental health factors in my perception of what things are said
As for the lies that was met with "yeah well people assume"
But on the plus side I only have to give 3 weeks notice as the 4tg week is my annual leave anyway "Yaay, well done | |||
I'm sorry you've been treated so shit. Let's have it, even if it WAS your mental health, they have a duty of care to protect that. I just hope you have somewhere better to go x
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"So I handed in my notice. My boss was as expected "maybe this isn't for you" speech I relayed my reasons and concerns which was met with "oh you know what working with women is like" I responded "and there was me thinking I an working in a professional environment with grown adults
Apparently my mental health factors in my perception of what things are said
As for the lies that was met with "yeah well people assume"
But on the plus side I only have to give 3 weeks notice as the 4tg week is my annual leave anyway "Wow, that is terrible - How can they not recognise and take action when you've highlighted its a toxic environment 
I can't believe the response you got, it is staggering to think this will happen again to other people
... Will you get to do an exit interview with HR? | |||
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"For handing in my notice today and I know it will be a shit conversation. Ugh, please send vibes from the positivity possum and cake... Thanks in advance Miss D" You’ve got this! You’ve outgrown the company cos you’re fab and the next part of your journey will be awesome!! Good luck | |||
"So I handed in my notice. My boss was as expected "maybe this isn't for you" speech I relayed my reasons and concerns which was met with "oh you know what working with women is like" I responded "and there was me thinking I an working in a professional environment with grown adults
Apparently my mental health factors in my perception of what things are said
As for the lies that was met with "yeah well people assume"
But on the plus side I only have to give 3 weeks notice as the 4tg week is my annual leave anyway "Sounds like your boss isn't willing, nor capable, of acknowledging there's a serious problem in the work place. Mentioning mental health could be grounds for discrimination though. Still though, you're out of there now. The only way is up. | |||
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"For handing in my notice today and I know it will be a shit conversation. Ugh, please send vibes from the positivity possum and cake... Thanks in advance Miss D Good luck. I did this myself a few months ago and am now near the end of my notice period. Firms try to create beliefs that people belong in a firm, or owe the firm loyalty to stay, or whatever, but this is really simple ... you have a contract of employment with them, and one of the rights in that contract is to terminate it and leave. It’s just business. It’s just business when they make decisions that staff are unhappy about and it’s just business when you decide to take your life or career in a different direction. The firm may not be happy that you are leaving, and if that is the case that’s a positive, shows you were doing a good job. But most of all, you leaving is an inconvenience for them, as they need to replace you, are losing experience etc. But that is their problem! Don’t let them try to make their problem your problem. Good luck! " Great post, puts it all in perspective | |||
"So I handed in my notice. My boss was as expected "maybe this isn't for you" speech I relayed my reasons and concerns which was met with "oh you know what working with women is like" I responded "and there was me thinking I an working in a professional environment with grown adults
Apparently my mental health factors in my perception of what things are said
As for the lies that was met with "yeah well people assume"
But on the plus side I only have to give 3 weeks notice as the 4tg week is my annual leave anyway "Oh I think you've made the right choice to go if that's their response. Definitely. But I'd also think you may have a case for constructive dismissal. If you've got any work emails related to the difficulties you've had - make sure you save them so you've got the evidence trail. I found it so stressful that I didn't take them to tribunal but wish I had in hindsight. Employers need to be kept accountable for this behaviour - blaming your mental health ffs. Hope you feel great now you've done it! | |||
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"So I handed in my notice. My boss was as expected "maybe this isn't for you" speech I relayed my reasons and concerns which was met with "oh you know what working with women is like" I responded "and there was me thinking I an working in a professional environment with grown adults
Apparently my mental health factors in my perception of what things are said
As for the lies that was met with "yeah well people assume"
But on the plus side I only have to give 3 weeks notice as the 4tg week is my annual leave anyway "Can we all come to your leaving drinks to wish you well? | |||
"So I handed in my notice. My boss was as expected "maybe this isn't for you" speech I relayed my reasons and concerns which was met with "oh you know what working with women is like" I responded "and there was me thinking I an working in a professional environment with grown adults
Apparently my mental health factors in my perception of what things are said
As for the lies that was met with "yeah well people assume"
But on the plus side I only have to give 3 weeks notice as the 4tg week is my annual leave anyway "Wow that's awful! You are better off without them. Hope the 3 weeks go fast. Maybe if your 'mental health' is so bad they should pay you to leave now so that 'you' don't cause any more problems. Dicks. X | |||
"So I handed in my notice. My boss was as expected "maybe this isn't for you" speech I relayed my reasons and concerns which was met with "oh you know what working with women is like" I responded "and there was me thinking I an working in a professional environment with grown adults
Apparently my mental health factors in my perception of what things are said
As for the lies that was met with "yeah well people assume"
But on the plus side I only have to give 3 weeks notice as the 4tg week is my annual leave anyway "I’m so proud of you for getting out! Using mental health to gaslight you and as a tool to constructively dismiss you is unacceptable. Make sure you take any examples of things that have happened with you when you leave and if you do have someone there you trust ask them if they be a witness to any situations they saw that you have a record of. If you have stuff like this it’ll help you at citizens advice to take legal action. I think you have up to 3 years after leaving to follow it up if you want to. I know you might want to leave it all behind you but consider it because it might help any doubts you have about yourself. And enjoy that week off knowing you have a better work life ahead of you xx | |||
"So I handed in my notice. My boss was as expected "maybe this isn't for you" speech I relayed my reasons and concerns which was met with "oh you know what working with women is like" I responded "and there was me thinking I an working in a professional environment with grown adults
Apparently my mental health factors in my perception of what things are said
As for the lies that was met with "yeah well people assume"
But on the plus side I only have to give 3 weeks notice as the 4tg week is my annual leave anyway
Wow, that is terrible - How can they not recognise and take action when you've highlighted its a toxic environment
I can't believe the response you got, it is staggering to think this will happen again to other people
... Will you get to do an exit interview with HR? "My boss is also the director and the HR lol Just happy that I stood my ground and told her concisely challenged her points....At least it's out there The next 3 weeks will be interesting x | |||
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"Thank you for all the support and kind comments. I'm torn at taking it further, she can't keep doing it. However I feel the best action to take is to walk out with my held high. And I got offered another job, same as what I am doing now but in a place closer to home. I worked there a few years ago and offered me the job straight off the bat and cancelled meeting everyone else they were due to interview So it feels like a weight has lifted " That’s fantastic! I’m so happy for you!!! x x | |||
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"Thank you for all the support and kind comments. I'm torn at taking it further, she can't keep doing it. However I feel the best action to take is to walk out with my held high. And I got offered another job, same as what I am doing now but in a place closer to home. I worked there a few years ago and offered me the job straight off the bat and cancelled meeting everyone else they were due to interview So it feels like a weight has lifted " Great news. As for your boss, maybe when the next person becomes a victim but goes the whole way with a complaint then he will realise what he has allowed to happen. But you walk away knowing you’ve come out of it a better person x | |||
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"Thank you for all the support and kind comments. I'm torn at taking it further, she can't keep doing it. However I feel the best action to take is to walk out with my held high. And I got offered another job, same as what I am doing now but in a place closer to home. I worked there a few years ago and offered me the job straight off the bat and cancelled meeting everyone else they were due to interview So it feels like a weight has lifted " I’m glad you’ve got something to go to, along with saying your peace to your boss, although not greatly received they do like to bury their heads ! Three weeks will by and you can leave it all behind and start your next chapter. | |||
"Thank you for all the support and kind comments. I'm torn at taking it further, she can't keep doing it. However I feel the best action to take is to walk out with my held high. And I got offered another job, same as what I am doing now but in a place closer to home. I worked there a few years ago and offered me the job straight off the bat and cancelled meeting everyone else they were due to interview So it feels like a weight has lifted " Brilliant new about the new job! At the very least now you have raised awareness that persons bad attitude and unprofessional behaviour. Should this situation reoccur it may make it easier for the next person to e 'heard' And yes you can walk out of there head held high. Good luck with new job....exciting new adventures ahead of you x | |||
"Thank you for all the support and kind comments. I'm torn at taking it further, she can't keep doing it. However I feel the best action to take is to walk out with my held high. And I got offered another job, same as what I am doing now but in a place closer to home. I worked there a few years ago and offered me the job straight off the bat and cancelled meeting everyone else they were due to interview So it feels like a weight has lifted I’m glad you’ve got something to go to, along with saying your peace to your boss, although not greatly received they do like to bury their heads ! Three weeks will by and you can leave it all behind and start your next chapter. " Thank you! And I Will continue to do my job as best as I can and then they have nothing to bitch about and I can really walk out holding my head high
They really need me more than I need them right now as she has jobs out and no applicants and staff who seem to take it in turns to be off sick all the time....she is always short staffed | |||
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"Good for you, onward and upwards, congrats x" Thank you and thank you for the support xx | |||
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Seriously though I just thought “you cannot cross the ocean if you fear losing sight of the shore” | |||
"Thank you for all the support and kind comments. I'm torn at taking it further, she can't keep doing it. However I feel the best action to take is to walk out with my held high. And I got offered another job, same as what I am doing now but in a place closer to home. I worked there a few years ago and offered me the job straight off the bat and cancelled meeting everyone else they were due to interview So it feels like a weight has lifted " That sounds like a positive move on your part and the loss of a great employee on theirs! Good for you for taking the brave step. The fact you walked into another job straight away says it all. Well done you and I hope settling back in to your old shoes feels comfortable | |||
"Thank you for all the support and kind comments. I'm torn at taking it further, she can't keep doing it. However I feel the best action to take is to walk out with my held high. And I got offered another job, same as what I am doing now but in a place closer to home. I worked there a few years ago and offered me the job straight off the bat and cancelled meeting everyone else they were due to interview So it feels like a weight has lifted " It sounds like a weight has been lifted from shoulders now that you know you are leaving and you know the end is in sight.Congratulations on finding a new job so quickly.Best of luck with everything. | |||
"I’m doing the same tomorrow!! Kudos cheeks. Imma gonna get a day off! (In 3 months )
Seriously though I just thought “you cannot cross the ocean if you fear losing sight of the shore”"Nice quote! Good luck both of you | |||
"I’m doing the same tomorrow!! Kudos cheeks. Imma gonna get a day off! (In 3 months )
Seriously though I just thought “you cannot cross the ocean if you fear losing sight of the shore”"I hope it's not under similar circumstances! Good luck lovely. When you know you know xx Great quote and so true | |||
"Thank you for all the support and kind comments. I'm torn at taking it further, she can't keep doing it. However I feel the best action to take is to walk out with my held high. And I got offered another job, same as what I am doing now but in a place closer to home. I worked there a few years ago and offered me the job straight off the bat and cancelled meeting everyone else they were due to interview So it feels like a weight has lifted I’m glad you’ve got something to go to, along with saying your peace to your boss, although not greatly received they do like to bury their heads ! Three weeks will by and you can leave it all behind and start your next chapter. Thank you! And I Will continue to do my job as best as I can and then they have nothing to bitch about and I can really walk out holding my head high
They really need me more than I need them right now as she has jobs out and no applicants and staff who seem to take it in turns to be off sick all the time....she is always short staffed "Congrats on the new job, walk out head high like you said. That one will trip herself up soon enough-they always do- and people will see her true colours. X | |||
"I’m doing the same tomorrow!! Kudos cheeks. Imma gonna get a day off! (In 3 months )
Seriously though I just thought “you cannot cross the ocean if you fear losing sight of the shore”
I hope it's not under similar circumstances!
Good luck lovely. When you know you know xx
Great quote and so true "In a way similar. But it is time that, perhaps, both of us need to be a little bit more kind to ourselves. It is time that someone learned the value of respect and though it will benefit me not, it may benefit my wonderful team and demonstrate their value and that is worth more than me staying. I shall ride horses and laugh at the rain for a while, I think I may have earned it. As for you. Though no one gives you value, save yourself, I am joyed to see that you have found that worth in yourself and are now giving those riches to people that deserve them. You will be good. And that is warming too xx | |||
"I’m doing the same tomorrow!! Kudos cheeks. Imma gonna get a day off! (In 3 months )
Seriously though I just thought “you cannot cross the ocean if you fear losing sight of the shore”
I hope it's not under similar circumstances!
Good luck lovely. When you know you know xx
Great quote and so true
In a way similar. But it is time that, perhaps, both of us need to be a little bit more kind to ourselves. It is time that someone learned the value of respect and though it will benefit me not, it may benefit my wonderful team and demonstrate their value and that is worth more than me staying.
I shall ride horses and laugh at the rain for a while, I think I may have earned it. As for you. Though no one gives you value, save yourself, I am joyed to see that you have found that worth in yourself and are now giving those riches to people that deserve them. You will be good. And that is warming too xx"Kind and true to ourselves....and that means realising our worth and realising that we deserve better than this. You are worth more.... I am amazing at my job, I know. 25 years of supporting families and caring for other peoples children. Children who now as 25 year olds remember me tell me this. Managing staff through nurturing and supporting people is key, my staff need love, support and positivity just as the children do. Why would they not? People rarely remember what you say but they do remember how you made them feel I've looked after babies of babies I used to care for and each one precious. I love seeing them grow wondering what they will be as adults, kids career or ASBO
Treating people crappily in business tells me that you don't respect your business or yourself, why lower that standard? Self reflection is crucial here
You deserve to ride horses and laugh at the rain, and you deserve so much more than those things as well. This is your time....
Will be thinking of you tomorrow, head up, stay strong and move forward xx
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"I’m doing the same tomorrow!! Kudos cheeks. Imma gonna get a day off! (In 3 months )
Seriously though I just thought “you cannot cross the ocean if you fear losing sight of the shore”
I hope it's not under similar circumstances!
Good luck lovely. When you know you know xx
Great quote and so true
In a way similar. But it is time that, perhaps, both of us need to be a little bit more kind to ourselves. It is time that someone learned the value of respect and though it will benefit me not, it may benefit my wonderful team and demonstrate their value and that is worth more than me staying.
I shall ride horses and laugh at the rain for a while, I think I may have earned it. As for you. Though no one gives you value, save yourself, I am joyed to see that you have found that worth in yourself and are now giving those riches to people that deserve them. You will be good. And that is warming too xx
Kind and true to ourselves....and that means realising our worth and realising that we deserve better than this. You are worth more....
I am amazing at my job, I know. 25 years of supporting families and caring for other peoples children. Children who now as 25 year olds remember me tell me this.
Managing staff through nurturing and supporting people is key, my staff need love, support and positivity just as the children do. Why would they not? People rarely remember what you say but they do remember how you made them feel
I've looked after babies of babies I used to care for and each one precious. I love seeing them grow wondering what they will be as adults, kids career or ASBO
Treating people crappily in business tells me that you don't respect your business or yourself, why lower that standard? Self reflection is crucial here
You deserve to ride horses and laugh at the rain, and you deserve so much more than those things as well. This is your time....
Will be thinking of you tomorrow, head up, stay strong and move forward xx
"You see how golden you are? It puts the sunset to shame. I’ve always said there is one thing that cannot be taught and that is passion. And here in your simple message, you have demonstrated just why you are so valuable, because of that passion. You are worth a world of opportunity. And now, you step into a new dawn, one that can barely match your own promise. As for me, it breaks me to leave my team, but I leave them knowing that they are beyond measure, that each of them was a gift to my little life and that I am richer for having, just for a short while, harvested their passion and made the world a little bit better xx | |||
"I’m doing the same tomorrow!! Kudos cheeks. Imma gonna get a day off! (In 3 months )
Seriously though I just thought “you cannot cross the ocean if you fear losing sight of the shore”
I hope it's not under similar circumstances!
Good luck lovely. When you know you know xx
Great quote and so true
In a way similar. But it is time that, perhaps, both of us need to be a little bit more kind to ourselves. It is time that someone learned the value of respect and though it will benefit me not, it may benefit my wonderful team and demonstrate their value and that is worth more than me staying.
I shall ride horses and laugh at the rain for a while, I think I may have earned it. As for you. Though no one gives you value, save yourself, I am joyed to see that you have found that worth in yourself and are now giving those riches to people that deserve them. You will be good. And that is warming too xx
Kind and true to ourselves....and that means realising our worth and realising that we deserve better than this. You are worth more....
I am amazing at my job, I know. 25 years of supporting families and caring for other peoples children. Children who now as 25 year olds remember me tell me this.
Managing staff through nurturing and supporting people is key, my staff need love, support and positivity just as the children do. Why would they not? People rarely remember what you say but they do remember how you made them feel
I've looked after babies of babies I used to care for and each one precious. I love seeing them grow wondering what they will be as adults, kids career or ASBO
Treating people crappily in business tells me that you don't respect your business or yourself, why lower that standard? Self reflection is crucial here
You deserve to ride horses and laugh at the rain, and you deserve so much more than those things as well. This is your time....
Will be thinking of you tomorrow, head up, stay strong and move forward xx
You see how golden you are? It puts the sunset to shame. I’ve always said there is one thing that cannot be taught and that is passion. And here in your simple message, you have demonstrated just why you are so valuable, because of that passion. You are worth a world of opportunity. And now, you step into a new dawn, one that can barely match your own promise.
As for me, it breaks me to leave my team, but I leave them knowing that they are beyond measure, that each of them was a gift to my little life and that I am richer for having, just for a short while, harvested their passion and made the world a little bit better xx"I just know what I know and I do what is natural to me. Hell I can even recite the Gruffalo from memory and create bear hunts in the garden! That makes me cool as fuck in any 3 year olds eyes
See, you are a natural giver, a nurturer. I bet you will leave a lasting impression on your team too....But you won't have left them, not while they take your knowledge and guidance with them as you go. Signs of a great leader, never underestimate the force of that x
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"I’m doing the same tomorrow!! Kudos cheeks. Imma gonna get a day off! (In 3 months )
Seriously though I just thought “you cannot cross the ocean if you fear losing sight of the shore”
I hope it's not under similar circumstances!
Good luck lovely. When you know you know xx
Great quote and so true
In a way similar. But it is time that, perhaps, both of us need to be a little bit more kind to ourselves. It is time that someone learned the value of respect and though it will benefit me not, it may benefit my wonderful team and demonstrate their value and that is worth more than me staying.
I shall ride horses and laugh at the rain for a while, I think I may have earned it. As for you. Though no one gives you value, save yourself, I am joyed to see that you have found that worth in yourself and are now giving those riches to people that deserve them. You will be good. And that is warming too xx
Kind and true to ourselves....and that means realising our worth and realising that we deserve better than this. You are worth more....
I am amazing at my job, I know. 25 years of supporting families and caring for other peoples children. Children who now as 25 year olds remember me tell me this.
Managing staff through nurturing and supporting people is key, my staff need love, support and positivity just as the children do. Why would they not? People rarely remember what you say but they do remember how you made them feel
I've looked after babies of babies I used to care for and each one precious. I love seeing them grow wondering what they will be as adults, kids career or ASBO
Treating people crappily in business tells me that you don't respect your business or yourself, why lower that standard? Self reflection is crucial here
You deserve to ride horses and laugh at the rain, and you deserve so much more than those things as well. This is your time....
Will be thinking of you tomorrow, head up, stay strong and move forward xx
You see how golden you are? It puts the sunset to shame. I’ve always said there is one thing that cannot be taught and that is passion. And here in your simple message, you have demonstrated just why you are so valuable, because of that passion. You are worth a world of opportunity. And now, you step into a new dawn, one that can barely match your own promise.
As for me, it breaks me to leave my team, but I leave them knowing that they are beyond measure, that each of them was a gift to my little life and that I am richer for having, just for a short while, harvested their passion and made the world a little bit better xx
I just know what I know and I do what is natural to me.
Hell I can even recite the Gruffalo from memory and create bear hunts in the garden! That makes me cool as fuck in any 3 year olds eyes
See, you are a natural giver, a nurturer. I bet you will leave a lasting impression on your team too....But you won't have left them, not while they take your knowledge and guidance with them as you go. Signs of a great leader, never underestimate the force of that x
"New chapters. New books. I haven’t felt this free for some time. What will be, will be Ms Gruffalo x | |||
"I’m doing the same tomorrow!! Kudos cheeks. Imma gonna get a day off! (In 3 months )
Seriously though I just thought “you cannot cross the ocean if you fear losing sight of the shore”
I hope it's not under similar circumstances!
Good luck lovely. When you know you know xx
Great quote and so true
In a way similar. But it is time that, perhaps, both of us need to be a little bit more kind to ourselves. It is time that someone learned the value of respect and though it will benefit me not, it may benefit my wonderful team and demonstrate their value and that is worth more than me staying.
I shall ride horses and laugh at the rain for a while, I think I may have earned it. As for you. Though no one gives you value, save yourself, I am joyed to see that you have found that worth in yourself and are now giving those riches to people that deserve them. You will be good. And that is warming too xx
Kind and true to ourselves....and that means realising our worth and realising that we deserve better than this. You are worth more....
I am amazing at my job, I know. 25 years of supporting families and caring for other peoples children. Children who now as 25 year olds remember me tell me this.
Managing staff through nurturing and supporting people is key, my staff need love, support and positivity just as the children do. Why would they not? People rarely remember what you say but they do remember how you made them feel
I've looked after babies of babies I used to care for and each one precious. I love seeing them grow wondering what they will be as adults, kids career or ASBO
Treating people crappily in business tells me that you don't respect your business or yourself, why lower that standard? Self reflection is crucial here
You deserve to ride horses and laugh at the rain, and you deserve so much more than those things as well. This is your time....
Will be thinking of you tomorrow, head up, stay strong and move forward xx
You see how golden you are? It puts the sunset to shame. I’ve always said there is one thing that cannot be taught and that is passion. And here in your simple message, you have demonstrated just why you are so valuable, because of that passion. You are worth a world of opportunity. And now, you step into a new dawn, one that can barely match your own promise.
As for me, it breaks me to leave my team, but I leave them knowing that they are beyond measure, that each of them was a gift to my little life and that I am richer for having, just for a short while, harvested their passion and made the world a little bit better xx
I just know what I know and I do what is natural to me.
Hell I can even recite the Gruffalo from memory and create bear hunts in the garden! That makes me cool as fuck in any 3 year olds eyes
See, you are a natural giver, a nurturer. I bet you will leave a lasting impression on your team too....But you won't have left them, not while they take your knowledge and guidance with them as you go. Signs of a great leader, never underestimate the force of that x
New chapters. New books. I haven’t felt this free for some time. What will be, will be Ms Gruffalo x"Oh no, didn't you know! There is no such thing as a Gruffalo! A Gruffalo? What's a Gruffalo? Why! Didn't you know
Good, glad you feel that weight lift...and it is a weight xx | |||
"I’m doing the same tomorrow!! Kudos cheeks. Imma gonna get a day off! (In 3 months )
Seriously though I just thought “you cannot cross the ocean if you fear losing sight of the shore”
I hope it's not under similar circumstances!
Good luck lovely. When you know you know xx
Great quote and so true
In a way similar. But it is time that, perhaps, both of us need to be a little bit more kind to ourselves. It is time that someone learned the value of respect and though it will benefit me not, it may benefit my wonderful team and demonstrate their value and that is worth more than me staying.
I shall ride horses and laugh at the rain for a while, I think I may have earned it. As for you. Though no one gives you value, save yourself, I am joyed to see that you have found that worth in yourself and are now giving those riches to people that deserve them. You will be good. And that is warming too xx
Kind and true to ourselves....and that means realising our worth and realising that we deserve better than this. You are worth more....
I am amazing at my job, I know. 25 years of supporting families and caring for other peoples children. Children who now as 25 year olds remember me tell me this.
Managing staff through nurturing and supporting people is key, my staff need love, support and positivity just as the children do. Why would they not? People rarely remember what you say but they do remember how you made them feel
I've looked after babies of babies I used to care for and each one precious. I love seeing them grow wondering what they will be as adults, kids career or ASBO
Treating people crappily in business tells me that you don't respect your business or yourself, why lower that standard? Self reflection is crucial here
You deserve to ride horses and laugh at the rain, and you deserve so much more than those things as well. This is your time....
Will be thinking of you tomorrow, head up, stay strong and move forward xx
You see how golden you are? It puts the sunset to shame. I’ve always said there is one thing that cannot be taught and that is passion. And here in your simple message, you have demonstrated just why you are so valuable, because of that passion. You are worth a world of opportunity. And now, you step into a new dawn, one that can barely match your own promise.
As for me, it breaks me to leave my team, but I leave them knowing that they are beyond measure, that each of them was a gift to my little life and that I am richer for having, just for a short while, harvested their passion and made the world a little bit better xx
I just know what I know and I do what is natural to me.
Hell I can even recite the Gruffalo from memory and create bear hunts in the garden! That makes me cool as fuck in any 3 year olds eyes
See, you are a natural giver, a nurturer. I bet you will leave a lasting impression on your team too....But you won't have left them, not while they take your knowledge and guidance with them as you go. Signs of a great leader, never underestimate the force of that x
New chapters. New books. I haven’t felt this free for some time. What will be, will be Ms Gruffalo x
Oh no, didn't you know! There is no such thing as a Gruffalo!
A Gruffalo? What's a Gruffalo? Why! Didn't you know
Good, glad you feel that weight lift...and it is a weight xx"On a side note I rescued a mole from the riding arena today (he had somehow got in and couldn’t get out). I picked him up by his stubby little tail and put him outside the fenced arena. As I placed him softly on the grass the other side of the fence he turned and squeaked angrily at me, I swear he was shaking his fist. Whilst the horse I was supposed to be riding looked at me in the “I’m a bit simple” way that horses do as if to say “what doing with velvety squeaky thing?” ”. It was the single trigger point to me resigning. Life is beautiful if you just let it be beautiful | |||
"Thank you for all the support and kind comments. I'm torn at taking it further, she can't keep doing it. However I feel the best action to take is to walk out with my held high. And I got offered another job, same as what I am doing now but in a place closer to home. I worked there a few years ago and offered me the job straight off the bat and cancelled meeting everyone else they were due to interview So it feels like a weight has lifted " Great news. Sounds like your current job was just being poisoned by this person, then your boss was taking their side and gaslighting you. It's the sort of crap that nobody ought to have to put up with (far too common though ). Hopefully your new job will bring back enjoyment in your work, and being closer to home will cut your travelling costs (every little helps) and give you back a few minutes every day (really, time for ourselves is the most precious thing there is).
With hugs, Polly xxx | |||
